Do you want the Good news or the Bad news first?

United States
January 17, 2009 11:52pm CST
when some one comes up and says they have good and bad news and asks you which you want first which do you pick?? i always pick bad because i figure if its REALLY bad then i at least know the next bit of news CANT be any worse!! so which do you want? good news or bad news??? lol
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
21 Jan 09
My choice is no news if that is possible. lol!
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• United States
22 Jan 09
too bad that is never an option.. no news is good news!! lol
@lampar (7584)
• United States
23 Jan 09
I am sorry to hear that, may be i need to move to a deep underground cave when i can not receive any news broadcast, or just throw away my TV and radio and computer to deny myself any news to get good news without worry about bad news. lol!!
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@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
18 Jan 09
Hello moonlitmagikchild! I would choose the bad news first because if I will choose the good news, the moment I will hear the bad news, I won't appreciate the good news anymore and that the bad news would have a greater impact than the good news where as if I will choose the bad news first then probably, I will recover hearing the good news. But actually, it really still depends on the news.
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• United States
18 Jan 09
thats exactly why i do it lol
• United States
18 Jan 09
hahaha..yes, you're right..are we sisters?lol!
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
19 Jan 09
BAd......it's usually not as bad as they think....and the good news sounds even better after getting the bad news! LOL
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• United States
22 Jan 09
yeah other peoples bad news isnt so bad usually lol
• United States
18 Jan 09
Give me the bad news first and the GOOD news last. I just rather save the best for last because once I hear the good news last, I might not think about the bad news anymore unless it over powers the good news. But I'm the type of person that doesn't kick a huge fit when hearing bad news. I always try to find a positive side of everything and anything.
• United States
18 Jan 09
i try to be optimistic too but sometimes my realist nature prevents it from totally working
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@lisa0502 (1724)
• Canada
18 Jan 09
My husband always says this to me. Of course I always say that I want the bad news first because like you say at least we know the next news can't be any worse. The only problem with my husband though is that sometimes he just does not have good news. So it really sucks when I am stuck with only the bad news......
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• United States
22 Jan 09
well he's not playing fair!! you have to have one with the other!! lol
@uicbear (1900)
• United States
18 Jan 09
I always ask for the bad news first. That wasy I have the good to bring me back up. However do you ever notice that when someone comes at you with this kind of statement the bad news really isn't that bad? I always ask for the bad and then usually I'm like,"Wait, that's it?"
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• United States
22 Jan 09
i think maybe our minds have already gone BEYOND worse in our thinking so our imaginations think up something more than it could ever be and therefore nothing is as bad as we can imagine.. etc
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
18 Jan 09
I like to get the bad news out of the way first and so then I have only the good new to look forward to after that.
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@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Jan 09
hi moonlit..i guess i like to hear the good news first!! its just that i need some boosters so that i can face or accept whatever bad news that im going to hear or received..
• United States
18 Jan 09
im always afraid the good news wont be good enough to where it will quickly be overshadowed by the bad as soon as i hear it
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
21 Jan 09
Doesn't really matter anyways you get it. One of them will be bad news. and the other good. So just pick one and dish it out. No need to play with all that suspense of good news bad news. Just dish it out! I can take it!
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
18 Jan 09
first i will tell the bad news then the good news will be follow
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@relundad (2310)
• United States
18 Jan 09
I'll want the bad news first, since that is probally the one that needs some attention for turning the situation around. I would be interested in trying to resolve the issue or making the situation better. The good news is probally something that you are already aware of.
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@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
18 Jan 09
Hi Moonlit, I prefer to have the bad news first - at least I know how bad it is. So having the good news next, will at least lessen the impact of the bad news!
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@ljy559 (181)
• Malaysia
23 Jan 09
I would prefer knowing the bad news first. as you said, if it's really bad, then we'd know that the next thing that we're about to find out will be something good! or, at least, better than the bad news..plus, as the chinese proverb says, bitter comes first. once you've overcome something bad or hard, whatever comes next would be easy ;D
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@tooincome (345)
• United States
18 Jan 09
i'd rather take the bad news first. regardless of how bad it is, the good news is always something to look forward too.
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• United States
18 Jan 09
yeah that way you dont dwell on the bad news completely at first.. your like oh god.. wait whats the good news?!?! and then depending on HOW good the good news is you go back to the bad to dwell lol
@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
18 Jan 09
I usually want the bad news first, because then the good news come and helps to cheer me up, if the bad news is really bad. The good news certainly isn't any worse than the bad news.
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@chiaeugene (2225)
• China
18 Jan 09
i would always ask for bad news first cos i believed in a first bitter after sweetness mindset. I rather take the pain and enjoy the comforts later. No point hearing the good news and be happy for that few seconds and then turning sad after hearing the bad news which dampen the mood. I hear the bad news first and then i can composed myself and whatever news that come next would not be as bad and would definitely take away some pain or misery which to me is better
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• India
18 Jan 09
I prefer bad news first,and then good news .so that i feel happy at last .
• Malta
18 Jan 09
I would also choose to have the bad news first. As a consolation then I would have a good news to cheer upon. Another reason for this choice is that by hearing the good news last, I wouldn't end up arguing with this person for such news but at least we would finish our onversation on good terms.
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