vanilla_28

@vanilla_28 (176)

Malta • Age 37

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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What is your opinion?

Jevendiran @Jevendiran (778) • India 16 Jun 09

In Indian colleges, Mobiles are mostly not allowed. Some support this while many oppose this. I'm one among the second group. Just by prohibiting the use, you can't students from using it. Students who misuse this technology will...

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vanilla_28 Hi jevendiran, I totally agree with you. I think that your college authorities are treating you like small kids. Although I agree that there should be some limitations for the use of mobiles in college, like no use in class and library, you still have the...

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Did you enjoy in yoga?

luna198 @luna198 (96) • China 15 Jun 09

Hello my lotters,now recently i'm interested in yoga,i do like it,i think it has many benefits,and is healthy to us,is there somebody in my lot has enjoyed in yoga,can you share your experience~

yoga

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vanilla_28 When i used to go aerobic classes we did yoga as a warming down exercise. It does not only relax me and makes me feel more peacful, but gives me further energy, especially after strenous aerobic exercises. I used to go home full and energy and live and this is...

15 Jun 09

what would you do?

friendship4lyfe @friendship4lyfe (520) • Saint Lucia 14 Jun 09

I have a five year old daughter who sometimes is very cold to my male friends and i usually wonder why.I met this guy whom i am attracted to and would like to take time to get to know him.But he doesnt like kids because they are...

break up

date moms

dont like kids

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vanilla_28 Personally, I believe that a parent's main duty and responsability is towards one's own child. Of course that your child's welfare comes before yours and anyone else. You may meet a hundred other like this jerk, but your child is your own blood! At least some...

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Do you think the first job is important?

luna198 @luna198 (96) • China 14 Jun 09

I'm graduated form my college this month,In college my subject is pedagogic,but i don't like be a teacher very much,so i refused to be a teacher,i think the first job is very important,so i want to do something i like,what about...

first job

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vanilla_28 Your first job is important to give to a first step in the labor market. However, knowing of today's fierce competition it may be difficult to find your perfect job at the first try. Don't be disheartened if you don't manage to find your ideal job at frist. I...

14 Jun 09

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psychology

k sridharprasad @yugasini (12893) • Secunderabad, India 14 Jun 09

hi my lotters,i do not know what is psychology, if there any mylotter is psychologist, let me know the details please

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vanilla_28 Psychology comes from the work "Psyche" which means mindl. Hence, psychology is the study of the mind. A psychologist uses different techniques aqnd methods to explore the person's inner mind, thoughts, ideas, experiences, beliefs and how all this makes part...

14 Jun 09

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how to move on?

arneljb @arneljb (224) • Philippines 13 Jun 09

my boy friend just told me that: once he had his painful brek-up he had this best cure. he just listened to mikaila's "the art of letting go" and everything went right. he tried emerging to the lyrics and he could totally move...

break up

breaking up

move on

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vanilla_28 The best way to move on is by acknowledging your feelings and leting them off. If you still live or think about the past you can never take action to move forwards. By looking aqt the past and realise how you can learn from it, you'll have the key towards a...

13 Jun 09

How long is too long?

pbrockington @pbrockington (500) • United States 13 Jun 09

How long is too long to tell your mate somthing that will change your lives forever? My man found out a past girlfriend kept a baby she siad she was not going to have. He has know about it for almost a month. I mean it took him...

lieing

relationship

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vanilla_28 I dont believe that there is such thing as time-limit for a person to share something personal with one's partner. I guess it all depend on your kind of relationship you have with each other. Maybe he was afriad about your reaction to this news, or your...

13 Jun 09

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What is the best book that you read?

Dragon17 @Dragon17 (53) • Morocco 13 Jun 09

I love read books because it's my hobby, for this I read a lot of books, every day I read two books . but the best book that I read in my life is: " LE DERNIER JOUR D'UN COMDAMNE " it's the most wonderful book that VICTOR HUGO...

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vanilla_28 One of my favourite books is "A child called it" by Dave Pelzer It is a true life story of Dave, recalls his childhood which was filled by traumatiuc experiences, physical and emoti9onal abuse by his parents, going through his adolescents. But in the end it...

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If you remember somthing funny, you will smile alone, in the street?

marianna45 @marianna45 (1399) • Romania 12 Jun 09

Is funny but this happened with me today when i was to shopping, i remember how one from my friends say to me a joke, and i just start to smile a lot...but weird is that i was in a supermarket when i start to smile alone, and was...

life

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vanilla_28 Hi marianna, I'm also guilty of smiling about something which happened hours before. It usually happens while walking down the streets, on the bus, or when alone. Although it is embarrasing in certain situations, it also makes people wonder what I am up to...

12 Jun 09

What time is it at your place?

pamelaanne @pamelaanne (283) • Philippines 12 Jun 09

It's 1am here. I can't sleep. I'm wondering what time it is at other places. Tell me what country you live, ay. And the time too. ;)

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vanilla_28 Hi pam, That's too bad that you couldn't sleep. Here it's 7.25pm, I live in Malta.

12 Jun 09

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What would you do when the one you love doesn't love you back?

april_02 @april_02 (82) • Philippines 12 Jun 09

I think i'm in love with this guy (my officemate). But unfortunately, I know that He loves/ likes my other officemate. They are very close to each other , although my girl officemate have a boyfriend.. I am trying to give signs to...

love

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vanilla_28 Well, if you really fancy this guy I suggest that you clearly listen to what he wants. Does he really like you or wants to be with you? Maybe you can ask him directly to get to know the answer, instead of building up castles in the sky. At least you would not...

12 Jun 09

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Children and Puberty...

leyisa @leyisa (486) • Canada 12 Jun 09

Ok.....my husband and I were talking about somthing last night and my husband wants to part of this discussion..I was asking him when he thinks would be the right age for us to talk to the kids about puberty. My eldest is 8 years...

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vanilla_28 I don't think that there is a specific age, when you could explore this topic with your children. It all depend on both the physical and mental maturity of your children.However, if you and your husband are eager to teach your children about puberty you may do...

12 Jun 09

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Have you ever tasted stale food by mistake?

cudamani @cudamani (996) • India 12 Jun 09

Some times it so happens that we might taste stale food by mistake taking it to be good. It will be for various reasons. Sometimes food becomes stale due to over exposure to heat, or due to lot of time being passed out after...

food

stale

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vanilla_28 I happen to taste stale food by mistake. This happens especially during Summer time, since food goes bad much more easily than it does in Winter. Dairy products like yogurt, cheese and cream may stale more easily and without noticing. Although I can see...

12 Jun 09

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suggest a name for our news letter..??

drdivu @drdivu (1011) • India 12 Jun 09

hello everyone... me and my parents are planning to start news letter on health, esp DIABETES and CHOLESTEROL and related topics...we would like u to help us in this regard and suggest a name for the news letter..!! also do...

news letter

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vanilla_28 Hi drdivu, These are a few names I tought about: Alive and Healthy Boost your Health Lifesaver All about Health Health Alert!

12 Jun 09

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english language

muhammadsalman @muhammadsalman (38) • Pakistan 12 Jun 09

Hi guys. My favourite language is english. this may be because of its more use in my life. all course books are in english. when you walk in the interviews you need to speak in english and most importantly to impress others. I...

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vanilla_28 You may start off my reading more books in good english. You can even practice speaking english with your family or friends. There are also short courses of english for non-native speakers, where you can execerise both your written and spoken english. Or else...

12 Jun 09

Glasses or softlenses?

caesarin @caesarin (1089) • Indonesia 11 Jun 09

I prefer to use glasses than softlenses. I have problems using the softlenses because it dries out my eyes and no matter how many times I try to keep them wet, they always easily get dry once they get dry. Anyone has the same...

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vanilla_28 I used to wear contact lenses for everyday use, however, when I got several eye infections one after the other, I opted for glasses. They are very comfortable and practical. I still use contact lenses but only during the weekend. I was thinking of buying a new...

12 Jun 09

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Are you a superstitious person?

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 12 Jun 09

I think to a small extent, I am superstitious, telling myself I'll knock on wood, etc., just in case. But for the most part, I believe more in coincidence, accidents happening, and God than I do in superstitions. What about...

beliefs

superstition

superstitions

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vanilla_28 Hi peaqcefulwmn9, I am somehow superstitious, but they do not rule my life. Although I do not pass under a ladder, or cross when seeing a black cat, I do not believe in all superstitions. However, I also believe in evil spells like when someone compliments...

12 Jun 09

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degree exams

nasohail3 @nasohail3 (355) • India 12 Jun 09

hi friends just recently i have given final year exams and now my results are came i got in one subject i got 32 marks so shell i send to recorrection for my exams paper please sugges me with good ideas most from literature.

degree exams

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vanilla_28 Hi nasohail3, I believe it all depends on the kind of educational system you have. Do they really recorrect it? In my university, to put an exams paper for recorrection costs money, besdies they rarely change the marks, so from my experience I think it...

12 Jun 09

Fighting things off

jessi0887 @jessi0887 (2788) • United States 11 Jun 09

So I am among those who tend to get sick during the summer. It really sucks. Well normally if it gets bad I will take something over the counter so I can get by at work. Well THis time I have refused. I told my mom i am going to...

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vanilla_28 I can imagine how awful that must be, especially in Summer :( Even though I do not usually get sick during Summer, I still suffer from hayfever. Before, I used to take medicines but they do not have much effect on me anymore. It seems like I've become immune...

11 Jun 09

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Confused?

Payout @payout (3794) • United States 11 Jun 09

"Gay Relationship" :) I don't know.. My Boyfriend decided to take a break last thursday. Then one day he came to my House drunk saying and doing crazy stuff. Saying he loves me and stuff. He wants to be with me. I told him Then...

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vanilla_28 I totally agree with deepglow. Your boyfriend seems to be living in a world on his own. He's looks to egocentric to care about what you feel, or others feel. He just wants to be with you when he likes to and whenever he wants to. You do not have any say in...

11 Jun 09

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