Confused?
By Payout
@payout (3794)
United States
June 11, 2009 10:56am CST
"Gay Relationship" :)
I don't know.. My Boyfriend decided to take a break last thursday. Then one day he came to my House drunk saying and doing crazy stuff. Saying he loves me and stuff. He wants to be with me. I told him Then be with me. He said he can't he is so confused? It's like he wants to be with me but wants to talk to other people..?
It's funny Because he gets upset when people check me out or look at me. Then wants to grab me and stuff.
HE said he is lost I said I know.. But I told him I will wait forever.. I think thats what love is. No one is prefect. So yeah I'm not going to lie yeah I stay at his place now and then. He doesn't want to give me the key yet and stuff I don't know why.
He doesn't want me to talk to other people but he wants to talk to other people.? He is very confused that he is confusing me. We will be just one big thing of Confusion. He tells me he loves me and wants to be with me and all this stuff but doesn't want to be with me right now. Just weird. I don't know what to do..?
Wait for him.. I am.. ?
My family tells me he wants you but wants you to be okay with dating other people? I said is that true he says he doesn't want to talk about it?
AHHH!!!! Like be with me or not..? I can't be a part-time Boyfriend..
OMG!!!
What should I do..?
Stressing out.
2 responses
@DeepGlow (242)
• Indonesia
11 Jun 09
I want to say "Just leave him. He is not worth it." But I cannot tell you what to do, can I? However, I think it is not about confusion. It is about selfishness and possessiveness. He can do whatever he wants and you cannot AND he wants you to do whatever he wants you to? Hmm... I think something is wrong with the picture.
I think it is better if you can think logically. I know, love and logic do not go to the same direction most of the time, but unless you are willing to be a spare tire or even a slave, I think you might want to reconsider your relationship.
I hope you can find the best solution to your problem. Best of luck and stay strong ^_^
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@vanilla_28 (176)
• Malta
11 Jun 09
I totally agree with deepglow. Your boyfriend seems to be living in a world on his own. He's looks to egocentric to care about what you feel, or others feel. He just wants to be with you when he likes to and whenever he wants to. You do not have any say in this relationship, do you? Maybe he will use his power and possessiveness to hold you be with him, but beware not to fall into his web.
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@jessi0887 (2788)
• United States
11 Jun 09
It sounds like to me he is just dragging you along a ride. You shouldn't take that. Its like he wants a piece of you but wants a piece of everyone else as well. Then he see's someone look at you and he doesn't want you to be with anyone else. You need to tell him its even you and only you or your moving on. You may love him like you say but if he really loved you he wouldn't be running around with other people.
This is just my opinion.
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