What did you do when someone kept interrupting?

@rosdimy (3926)
Malaysia
January 18, 2009 8:44am CST
Many of us have experienced incidents where someone keeps butting in when it was our turn to talk. Annoying, was not it? My reaction depended on who my listeners were, and the occasion we were in. My alternatives were stop talking, and asking the interjector to continue talking. In most cases the interjector realised the error and kept quiet. I then continued where I left off. In another variation I simply refused to continue even after the interjector has stopped, citing lack of interest among the listeners. The second alternative was a bit harsh. I simply cut off the interjector and asked whether he wanted to take over or not. So far no one said yes. What about you? What did you do when faced with a similar situation? all the best, rosdimy
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
24 Jan 09
i would also prefer to keep complete silence or sometimes will try to interrupt him/her,by asking,if they want some drink. happy posting.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
24 Jan 09
i deliberayely took some time in making the drink,by that time,it was time for them to leave
@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
24 Jan 09
Offering a drink? Most of them would not realse you are trying to tell them something. I guess this strategy worked on swveral of your friends in social situations. Did they accept the offer and continued yakking away? Or did they forget to continue? Thank you for the response. all the best, rosdimy
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@savengt (89)
• Singapore
23 Jan 09
I guess we can be abit more patient and let the interruptor continue for a short while before interupting him and continue with what you want to say. It can be done in a polite and tactful way without offending anyone.
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@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
23 Jan 09
You have a valid point there. The type of tact I used in the past depended on the person and situation. Being aggressive? Not my way, unless they have been reminded for more than twice. One question to you - can you give an example on how to be polite and tactful in a similar situation? Thank you for your response. all the best, rosdimy
• United States
19 Jan 09
Usually I just stop talking and let them finish. There's really no point in being rude back.
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@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
20 Jan 09
A good move but there are times when we have to make the person stop, as when we are teaching something to a group of people. If the organiser of the training session interrupts I would let the person finish off whatever he/she has to say. It is a different ball game when I am in charge. Thank you for the response. all the best, rosdimy
@idsparty (18)
• India
18 Jan 09
itz very bad situation
@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
20 Jan 09
Yes it is a bad situation but have you experienced it? If you did what was your reaction? Or can you think of ways to handle this situation so that there will be no ill-feelings bewtween the parties involved? I see that you are a newbie here. Do not be afraid to voice out what you have in mind. This is a free discussion site where we can exchange ideas. I will not bite even if your views are at the opposite end of mine. Thank you for trying to respond. all the best, rosdimy