Do u beleive in tit for tat?

@agrim94 (3805)
India
January 22, 2009 9:03am CST
many a times in life we feel like hitting back to someone who has hurt us or harmed us but we stop short of hitting back.. reasons can be many like 1) cant hit back 2) he is boos 3) can be fired 4) ur gf/bf, wife/husband hurt you and you dont want to u know inflate the situation more even though u want to hit back 5) u may be a coward man like me but is it always good to hit back verbally or physically or with ur actions so that the one who harmed/hurt you feels the same? or violence is not ur cup of tea or u beleive in let bye gones by bye gone?
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4 responses
sunita64
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
22 Jan 09
Well at the moment when i feel hurt by someone's behaviour then I feel like hitting back, but after sometimes I realise that to hurt others is not my way of living so I just forgive and forget.
agrim94
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
22 Jan 09
So do u always forgive or forget or sometimes u hit back and sometimes u forgive and forget
agirlfromtomorrow
@agirlfromtomorrow (290)
• Egypt
23 Jan 09
I always hit back. if some one makes me angry I make sure I make him pay for it. but I usually never resort to physical violence unless the person infront of me start it. I am a huge fan of revenge.
moondancer
@moondancer (7433)
• United States
22 Jan 09
This is why we just leave it be, to not further the conflict. I wish more would adapt this policy of just letting things lie. Or let words turn things around in debate.
Humbug25
@Humbug25 (12540)
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22 Jan 09
Hi ya agrim94 I don't always believe in letting bygones be bygones as I would just cut myself off from that person, unable to ever forget what they did to me if it was bad enough. I would never do to someone what hurtful thing they did to me becuase then that would make me no better than them!!