who is a best listener ,your good friends, or just a stranger who are online?
By Agathacoco
@Agathacoco (336)
China
January 29, 2009 6:58am CST
I think everybody all need a good lisener, and when you are in trouble or feel unphappy ,would you like to share your some private matter with your best friends,or just a friend online,who you have never him(her) meet before.
for me , I like to share some of my things with the friends online, which make me feel no pressure.8 responses
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
4 Feb 09
i have been on many forums on the internet, and i have notices that internet people give better and more helpful advice than people u actually know. they were even shocked of all the good advice that was written down by strangers. i have also offered advice that helped many internet people i have no idea who they are.
real people u know dont really want to be bother with other people's problems, or maybe they just dont know how to help others, or just selfish.
@Agathacoco (336)
• China
4 Feb 09
hello, my friend,thanks for your answer .sometimes it is better to share sth with a stranger.
@shakadoodoo (737)
• Dallas, Texas
29 Jan 09
I think a stranger online are good because you can let it all loose and not worry about bias. But I have friends that are like that as well - I guess it depends on the type of relationships that peoson has.
@kezabelle (2974)
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29 Jan 09
I guess it depends its easier to talk about things online sometimes but then you never know if they wont go and tell someone else, if its a truely private matter i will only discuss it with those who I trust and that includes a few of my online friends yet I have RL friends who I wouldnt share a private issue with because well as much as I love them they love to talk even more lol!
@Agathacoco (336)
• China
29 Jan 09
hello, my friend ,maybe you are right,but when I just want to relax myself ,I still chosen to share something with the frind online.
@alankor (478)
• Singapore
29 Jan 09
i am a good listener just that i do not have enough friends for me to pour their woes on me.most of the times, i keep my trouble inside my heart as i do not want to burden others.it is a habit which i have cultivate for a really long time.people may find me quiet and care-free but that is because i do not wish to tel anyone my problems.life is sad but i could live with it.
@Agathacoco (336)
• China
29 Jan 09
oh ,my friend, when I was young, I also like to hide all the things in my heart, but these things made me feel much pressure, and I still always want to find a good listener,it is really a difficult thing, SO sometimes I prefer to talk with a stranger,that make me relax.
@saffrondallas (290)
• South Africa
1 Feb 09
Good friends who are willing to listen these days are like gold and are very rare. You cannot often find someone who will listen to all your feelings without bringing the conversation to thmselves i.e. Well, I...Therefore, sometimes it may seem best to try online friends or even strangers (like us). We will be honest, will not judge and will listen!
@ceicee (1)
• Canada
30 Jan 09
I think my friends are better listeners, you get to know tour friends over time you can share your pain or joy with them of course I am talking about true friends who are there for me no matter what.
@misstoya (12)
• United States
29 Jan 09
it depends...both can be...friends can be because they know you and they know how to approach certain situations with you...but then strangers can be even better listeners...they are not biased they don't know your situation and they are not just going to give you an answer they know you want to hear or something that is sugarcoated...
@marie_cehl (50)
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
My good friends I think you really feel their sympathy with your stories.
