misstoya

@misstoya (12)

United States • Age 40

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Help Wanted!

puddytat101 @puddytat101 (657) • United States 17 Jan 09

Help wanted! Tired of wasting your time trying to find legitmate ways to earn cash online? Or worse, you're doing the pay per click and reading boring emails? It's time to get serious about this. If you are genuinely...

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misstoya i went to your profile and did not see the link...can you point me in the right direction...i was interested in seeing what your website had to offer...i write poetry on a daily basis...in process of working on a book...so i was just wonderin what you had to...

29 Jan 09

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who is a best listener ,your good friends, or just a stranger who are online?

Agathacoco @Agathacoco (336) • China 29 Jan 09

I think everybody all need a good lisener, and when you are in trouble or feel unphappy ,would you like to share your some private matter with your best friends,or just a friend online,who you have never him(her) meet...

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misstoya it depends...both can be...friends can be because they know you and they know how to approach certain situations with you...but then strangers can be even better listeners...they are not biased they don't know your situation and they are not just going to give...

29 Jan 09

Happiness. A state of mind?

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 27 Jan 09

Do you truly believe that happiness is usually just a state of mind. Do you think that we all have the mind power to make ourselves happy if we want to? I think that our minds do a lot to govern our emotional and...

happy

state of mind

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misstoya i think it is a state of mind and that you make the choice to be happy or sad...if you are sad about something you don't have to dwell on that certain something...you can always push it to the back of your mind and think happy thoughts...think about something...

29 Jan 09

People that are too happy?

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 29 Jan 09

Do you find it normal that some people seem too happy all of the time? Do you think that it could be a facade for something underneath?

facades

happy

too much

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misstoya sometimes it is a cover up...because sometimes it's easier to pretend to be happy then to let your true feelings be shown...but sometimes...a person truly is happy and they want everyone to know...

29 Jan 09

Are You Confident In your Relationship?

Queenperk @Queenperk (192) • United States 25 Jan 09

When is it okay to be confident in your relationship to say that you have the other party on lock ( he or she is not going anywhere)? Let's just say everything is great in your relationship I mean everyone has problems but...

safe

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misstoya I think you should always be confident in your relationship because sometimes when you doubt it...that can mess things up...it may push the other person to go and do something *if they are being accused of it anyway* or they may begin to feel they can't...

29 Jan 09

If I got jealous does that mean that I dont trust my boyfriend?

marie_cehl @marie_cehl (50) • Philippines 28 Jan 09

Im confused of these two words. I trust my bf but sometimes i cant control to get jealous with his some officemates and girl friends... :(

girl friends

jealous

trust

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misstoya No...not at all...in this situation you remind me of myself...It's not that you don't trust him...it's that you don't trust them...you could also be having some type of insecurity (either within yourself...or something stemming from a past relationship...) it...

29 Jan 09

I'm a little irked...

breepeace @breepeace (3014) • Canada 18 Jan 09

My boyfriend went over to his parents to go get some things that he's had stored there. He called me right when he got there to ask if I wanted to come over for dinner, since it was almost ready and he was going to stay and eat. I...

boyfriend

problems

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misstoya I know how you feel...when you are being ignored and neglected it can really irk the ish out of you! i experienced it many times...but i must admit one does have to wonder what he was doing all that time...but...you also have to take into consideration what...

19 Jan 09

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forbidden love and betrayal

cutieapril @cutieapril (21) • Philippines 16 Jan 09

this is actually a problem of my friend who badly needs my help... i dont know what to do also coz it is very complicated.u see he has gf but he confess to me just few days now dat he has an affair with his officemate. da problem...

affair

career

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misstoya Well, your friend, knowing he was already involved with someone else, should not have done that...period...but...not everyone is perfect...so since he has done that he has to deal with the results of his actions...i think he should have been upfront about...

19 Jan 09

Being attached to someone: Tell me how I'm supposed to breathe with no air.

phyrethyme @phyrethyme (1267) • Philippines 16 Jan 09

I was walking around the house when I heard my sister playing the song "No Air" by Jordin Sparks featuring Chris Brown. I listened to the song and took in its message. Of course, it deals with love and being attached to a...

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misstoya Yes...i have...i have been in situations where just the thought of it could bring me to tears...losing love is always a hard pill to swallow...especially if you have given your all...sometimes you get over it...sometimes you don't...depends on the extent of...

19 Jan 09

Age and True Love?

phyrethyme @phyrethyme (1267) • Philippines 18 Jan 09

Hm. Is there such thing as "you are too young to know whether the person you are with is the one you will spend your life with"? I know one has to be mature but I was just wondering, is there such thing like.. For example, me....

true love

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misstoya On my opinion, age is just a number,people mature at different rates...I'm twenty four and trust me i've had my share of "he's the one(s)" lol but they turned out not to be lol...i am in a relationship now...and i feel that my partner is the one that i want to...

19 Jan 09

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Long distance love affair

cristina_2008 @cristina_2008 (69) • Philippines 18 Jan 09

This is my first relationship. We have met a few months ago, and I fell in love with him. Only, it is so difficult because we are miles apart. He is working in another country. The only means of communication that we have is...

cell phone

long distance

long distance love affair

miles

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misstoya It is sad but it can work...I have been in a long distance relationship for a while...though it has it's up and downs, mainly when we are missing each other...there are always phone calls, texts, IM. web cam and a lot of other means of communication...for a...

19 Jan 09