Does your husband/ live in partner /bf help you in Kitchen?

Even though I do complain about him not helping around the house, he does pitch in with the cooking from time to time. He's actually a better cook than I am. When I was working crazy hours over the holidays in my part time job, I got no help. I worked and cleaned up the home and that got me really stressed out and I told him about it, that I can't be expected to do everything. If we both work, we both have to help out as its not fair that I do it all. Now that I'm only on call from here on in, I am expected to do more because I'm home and he is working. All I ask is that he helps out a couple times a week, thats it, nothing hard nor major but somehow he finds that a huge thing LOL men.

I don't live with my boyfriend because his mom is old and very sick, she lives with him and he does everything for her now, and he cleans the house himself.

I barely get any help at all if I do it's not much and it's far between times. He will say he's going to do the dishes or he was going to do them when he sees me doing them. I hated it but one time I waited and didn't do them because he tols me that e was going to do them. He didn't do them for 3 days and then when he did he didn't do the pots and pans and he never ever cleans the kitchen or stove. He will cook if I'm bedridden, he doesn't cook well but he tries. He just won't clean his mess.

I am a guy, and I try to help my wife with the stuff around the house. I help with the laundry, and I will do the dishes. I do like to cook, but I am not very good at it. I am usually not home at night. I work evenings, so I am usually at work when most of the cooking here is done. I don't mind helping out in the house, though, and I do most all of the yard work and cleanup outside...

My husband is from India and he helps me with the cooking a cleaning all the time. He loves to cook and he is right there with me to help clean up his mess. He uses almost every pot and pan in the house, and every dish to freeze left overs so, he thinks he should be there to help clean up. He also has run the vacuum, done laundry, made the bed and takes out the garbage. He is awesome when it comes to housework. He is one of the few and far in between. I think if I can work a fulltime job as well as him outside of the house, we can both be responsible for the daily chores as well.

Yes I guess a lot of women has been comnplaining about it. Well in my case my husband doesn't help me in the kitchen at all but I have no problem w/ that because he's working (has a job) while I don't. I am doing the house chores while he's the one working to providw our needs. And besides, he doesn't have to help me because am just cooking for my food (we have different foods and am cooking mine) and he rarely eats at home because he's eating in his work place most of the time.

My husbanddoesn't HELP me to do stuff around the house. He does his part of everything to run a home. I.e. he cooks some of the dinners every week, he's doing as much as I do when it comes to taking care of our home and family. SHould I work both outside the home and do more than half here at home - while he just work outside the home? I dont see why. At the moment when I'm not working much outside our home - I take more of the things that needs to be done at home - but when I work as much as him - whe do half each!