Wow.. now I'm really confused!!!!!!!!
By pkpanther
@pkpanther (14)
Canada
February 2, 2009 11:44am CST
So I finally told my boyfriend that I think we need to seperate and at first he was mad but now he's agreed. I've been saving a lot of my money to move out and have packed a lot of stuff I don't need so I'll be ready to move when it comes time plus I started looking at apartments and stuff.
And then I went out with some friends last week and ran into his sister. The one getting married to the fiance I've been falling for.
She told me they've been having a lot of problems lately. That he's arguing with her about the wedding details (which I already knew he had a problem with because he mentioned it). That he doesn't want to buy a house and get married the same year (which is something I told him he should re-think at the last family dinner when we got left alone again). Basically just all of these little things and that she's worried the wedding is not going to happen. I've pretty much suspected all along that it wasn't going to happen but what do I know?
This morning I wake up and there's a text message from her fiance -- We need to talk.
Ok now what? I still live with my boyfriend untill whenever I can get enough money together to leave. As far as I know he is still engaged to my boyfriend's sister. But I do honestly think there's something between us.
What should I do? HELP!!!
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2 responses
@dfollin (25351)
• United States
2 Feb 09
He said,that we need to talk.Talk to him and find out if he is still engaged or not.And then go from there.
Even if you can find a temporary room until you can get an apartment that would be less awkward then staying with your ex boyfriend.Therefore if there is something between you and this other guy then it won't be in the way or even known for awhile.At least until your boyfriend and his sister can get over the break ups.
Good luck.
@kareng (59167)
• United States
2 Feb 09
I agree. Call him and talk. See what he has on his mind and at the same time try not to read too much into it. You may be way off base ;) Just don't want you to get your hopes up too high!! Tread softly and slowly...you have two other people here that will be hurt a lot by this.
@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
2 Feb 09
If he says that he needs to talk to you, then maybe you should talk to him. You mentioned that you've given him some advice before. So, maybe that's simply what he needs, some advice, and he knows that he can turn to you for that. From what you've been saying, there doesn't seem to be much reason to suspect anything else other than the need to talk to a friend.
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