wtf!!!???
By figment_28
@figment_28 (49)
United States
February 4, 2009 12:16am CST
Okay, I am not some crazy chick that tries to start trouble wherever I go, So why does my best friend's husband have such a problem with me!!??? If I am at my friend's house, she can't tell her husband that I am there. AND if we go out anywhere, he is calling every five seconds wanting to know where we are and what we are doing....9 out of 10 times we have 3 kids with us (mine one and her two!!) It is not like I any trying to start problems with them, take him from her or her from him for that matter! Hell if it wasn't for me, she would have left his behind years ago!! I am not on drugs, I don't take drugs, Heck I don't even drink that much or very often....if I do drink it is at home after the kiddo is in bed!!! I don't know what his problem is, any suggestions???
6 responses
@savypat (20216)
• United States
4 Feb 09
You never know what is said between two people, but your friend may be somewhat to blame, maybe when he get's on her back about something she blames it on you. I have always found when three adults are involved and it starts to go wrong it's best to bail out and let them settle the problem. My opinion
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@figment_28 (49)
• United States
5 Feb 09
Oh trust me, I know that she is not perfect, she can be hard to deal with from time to time, so I can understand him sometimes, but I have saw him freak out over nothing! One second he is fine, oh honey I love you, the next he is yelling and screaming at her about not working (outside the home) or telling her that he is going to leave her because she doesn't respect him when all she is doing is sitting on the couch. Heck, there was one morning when they had came for a visit (they used to live in FL) all she did was set up in bed and he started cussing her asking where she was going!!! The boy has issues!! Bi-Polar perhaps?
@Amberina (1541)
• United States
4 Feb 09
So many red flags and sirens are going off in my head I just don't know where to start. Ok first he's a control freak, second he sees you as a threat of some kind, third he wants her not to have any friends so he can have her all to himself to control, and there is probably something going on in the marriage that he is afraid she might tell you. She needs to put her foot down and tell him to bug off and let her have some fun with her kids and you. She's probably a very nice person outgoing fun and vibrant and he is probably jealous of that so he wants to change her into a shy meek little woman who does everything he says. I hope you can help your friend see that what he is doing her kids are picking up on and one day they will treat her like he is.
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@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
4 Feb 09
I think maybe you should ask him or her about his actions. See if he does have a problem with you. He could just be paranoid about anyone she goes out with or has over. Or maybe he thinks you are telling her things that would break the two up..
@nympha687 (940)
• United States
4 Feb 09
Jealous,perhaps? Why not ask him directly if he has any concerns. lol
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@alharra (507)
• United States
4 Feb 09
One question: Does he does this kind of thing everytime she goes out with anyone or just you? If it's everyone then I would say that he has control issues and doesn't want his wife having friends. That fear is caused by the fact that she may leave him and if she has friends that will help it will happen
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