@alharra on myLot

Jamie911 @Jamie911 (104) • Philippines 17 Jul 11

There's always a place we go too when we want to be alone, when we feel embarrassed, when we want to think or when we want to cry and hide. personally when i feel like being alone when i feel those emotions i go to places which i...

alone

hiding place

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alharra I used to have one of those spots when I was a kid living in the mountains in TN. It was a rock outcropping the looked down on the back road up the mountain with a beautiful view of the valley. Thing is you wouldn't know that someone was there if you went by...

17 Jul 11

lindaharding627 @lindaharding627 (1442) • United States 10 Jul 11

I was watching cleveland news and they were talking about how a man with autism hums all the time. He was given a warning by police and told that he may be evicted because he hums all the time. Psychological tests prove that the...

eviction

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alharra He is protected by federal law under IDEA. He needs to contact a lawyer immediately!

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megamatt @megamatt (14291) • United States 11 Jul 11

There are a lot of mistakes in life, some of them rather big and damaging. There have been times where people I have known remarked that they wish they had a reset or a rewind button. A good idea in theory but one that is up for a...

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alharra I have to say that I would use that button- just once. That once would have changed my entire life though. But if I had to do it again I certainly would use it. I wouldn't have the kids I do now and I probably would have served some jail time. But I would have...

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mommyboo @mommyboo (13174) • United States 11 Jul 11

... would you try to stop it from happening? Would you call 911 or with other people go confront the perp? Or would you just watch it happen, or worse yet, turn on the video on your phone and record it and post it to youtube or...

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alharra I would not only call 911. I would also attempt to stop the crime. As a human being we should help when someone is in danger of dying. I am a fairly strong, physically, woman who is unable to walk away from someone when they need it. I do think that those...

11 Jul 11

Mysteria @Mysteria (209) • Philippines 9 Jul 11

Many Parents can't control there anger impulses when they wear out, they often resort to spanking their children.I personally don't think its right to smack their bottom even if the child makes repetitive mistakes. Most of the...

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alharra I have done very well. I lived with my parents from the time my oldest was 6 months until she was 13. I had the same boyfriend for 6 years and then I had to have him arrested. So combining all of that I have done very well. But now that the guy is gone things...

11 Jul 11

Mysteria @Mysteria (209) • Philippines 9 Jul 11

Many Parents can't control there anger impulses when they wear out, they often resort to spanking their children.I personally don't think its right to smack their bottom even if the child makes repetitive mistakes. Most of the...

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alharra I have shown all 3 kids plenty of respect trust me on that one. There were circumstances that forced me to live with my parents until the last couple of years. All I can say about that is that I suspect my Mom has something to do with the lack of respect since...

10 Jul 11

Mysteria @Mysteria (209) • Philippines 9 Jul 11

Many Parents can't control there anger impulses when they wear out, they often resort to spanking their children.I personally don't think its right to smack their bottom even if the child makes repetitive mistakes. Most of the...

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alharra I try my best to not spank my kids and for the most part I m fairly successful. On the other hand when the kids were smaller there were things that they could do that would always get them a spanking: 1) running out into the street, and 2) unfastening their...

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dragon54u @dragon54u (31634) • United States 8 Jul 11

I'm having a rather rough month financially and am trying to cut down on expenses. So when I ran out of coffee I looked at the large baggie of coffee that my stepmom gave me about a month ago--it's coffee that she and dad have...

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alharra Been doing it that way for a couple of years. Thankfully the other people in my house who drink coffee seem to like it as well.

10 Jul 11

rosegardens @rosegardens (3032) • United States 8 Jul 11

Hello fellow mylot gardeners. I have stumbled on a site that says they will give away free plants. I sent a request last night and hopefully will see something in the mail in a few weeks. I ordered some Babysbreath, and when they...

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alharra Sounds great! I've wanted to add some plants to my yard but I ever seem to have the xtra money. Could you please post the link?

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dragon54u @dragon54u (31634) • United States 8 Jul 11

I'm having a rather rough month financially and am trying to cut down on expenses. So when I ran out of coffee I looked at the large baggie of coffee that my stepmom gave me about a month ago--it's coffee that she and dad have...

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alharra I mix regular coffee with the flavored stuff normally. And I normally just drink the chocolate flavored coffee. Love the flavor.

8 Jul 11

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oscar6 @oscar6 (1938) • United States 6 Jul 11

Mylotters what would you do with the money? Lets just say it was around 1500 us dollars. I would put it towards my vacatio fund.

getting money

money

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alharra That is so easy for me to answer. I am an unemployed single mother of 3. That money would go to keeping up afloat for another month. Just paying rent/water, $830, cable/internet, $122, and power, $800 for 2 months. Gee more than $1500... crap. What do I do...

6 Jul 11

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 6 Jul 11

An old man once said, "There comes a time in your life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh. Forget the bad, and focus on the good. Love the people...

life

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alharra I so agree with you. I walked away from my "best friend" after almost 5 years. I just couldn't deal with the crap she heaped on me when she didn't get her way. Friends are supposed to tell you when you mess up right? Not in her world- I got crapped on. It...

6 Jul 11

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