Are you a harshly irritating personality?
By pujagupta
@pujagupta (102)
India
February 5, 2009 12:20am CST
Many a times we meet people who don't feel comfortable to us. We don't feel like gelling with them. They do self praises. They don't let you say anything. They dominate you. Even if you are there guest they dominate you. Even if they are at fault they dominate you. They don't let you prove them wrong even if they know they wrong. I hate such kind of people. I don't whether they are by nature so or they pretend not to loose to any body. They are the actually cheating themselves. I don't like them. Do you like them?
2 responses
@oldmanhorrorfan (497)
• United States
5 Feb 09
Why would you want to associate yourself around someone like this unless some little part of you likes how they treat you? If I don't get along with someone I'll kick rocks. I find myself drifting towards people that interest me, people I find interesting. I have talked with people that like to dominate the conversation. Or won't let me get a word in. Maybe this web site is a great spot for you cuz really, while you type no one can interupt you. You can finish what you have to say. That's probabley why I'm here, now. I also want to say this, what you see in others is usually something you see in yourself. I have found myself getting mad about someone dominating the conversation, and then later on when I'm thinking back, reflecting on the situation. I ask myself why did I get mad or let them get to me? And I realized that it was because I wanted to dominate the conversation myself. Ironic?!
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@pujagupta (102)
• India
5 Feb 09
What great point you have put forward in a sense that we see what we are. I totally agree with that. but as far as choosing whom to interact and whom not, there is not much choice sometime. The person of your dislike may be your relative who is important to your family, he may be your boss or your potential boss or he may be your client. so that is not correct that you can choose.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
5 Feb 09
I could be irritating but the good thing is that I seldom deal with people and that is how I like to live my life. I prefer my plants. Cheers!!!
