What do you do when your partner start taking you for granted??

As what you've explained things, I don't think he's taking you for granted. Maybe he's just having a little hesitation of letting you know whenever he's going to meet with his EX. The reason for that, as you've said he knows that you get upset with the situation about his ex, so naturally he doesn't want to upset. Maybe that's one of the reasons he doesn't inform you about his meeting with the ex. It's good that you're doing your best to keep things cool and trusting him, that way you can avoid having conflicts about silly things. It would also help if you really open up to him and tell exactly how you feel. In my experience letting my bf know what's going on my head, will definitely help your relationship. Remember, guys can't keep guessing whatever it is that you are feeling. So it's best to open up and talk to him.

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Well I personally would not be okay with any partner of mine meeting with their ex. And if they did meet up with an ex then I wouldn't tolerate it - I would end the relationship immediately, as I would see it as a huge sign of disrespect and I would know that I deserve much better than that. I think you should end things with this guy, honestly. I know you have been with him for a year and a half but seriously, why prolong your suffering. Sure it may hurt when you break up with him, but that pain will end at some point. If you stay with this guy though you are actually allowing him to hurt you over and over again, and as long as you allow it, who know's how long the pain that he causes you will last. The main problem here is that he obviously doesn't value your feelings a great deal - you really don't need to put up with that. End it!!!

if i can see the proof or evedences that he is taking me for granted then i will leave him definitely. even if it hurts but its part of the process. if you will still stay in that relationship, you're just hurting yourself over and over again. you two should talk and you know.. let him choose. :( but for your case you should be ready with his answer.

I'm sorry for you for what you are going through, I know it must be hard and stressful for you to cope with the situation. I think you are making a mistake by not sitting down with your boyfriend and talking this thing out. You have nothing to fear, you are in his life now, not his EX and as such you need to make your feelings known about this whole issue. This is not about trust, it's about him being caring and responsible. Anyone who tells you he loves you should be able to care for what you feel. He should be not do things which might hurt you and he should be ready and willing to make sacrifices for you. Face your boyfriend and have a heart to heart talk. Be frank and tell him that its not like you do not trust him, but he should be straight with you about his EX. You know its your right to know what they talk about and why they even have to meet. Sure, there's nothing wrong with them meeting but you should know why - if its just as friends, you should approve but if its anything other than that then its time you gave him the choice between his ex and you. You certainly deserve better and if he is taking you for granted then he doesn't deserve to be with you. Make him understand that he can't just play around with your feelings and that you are perfectly capable of making a decision and sticking by it. As things are now, he knows you love him and you not able to hold anything against him for long. Sit him down, make rules and let him understand he needs to stick to the rules to earn your trust. Let him know the consequences of breaking the rules and if he happens to break them, then do to him whatever it is that you have agreed you do if he doesn't respect you. Hope all turns out good for you and you get back your deserved happiness. All the best.

If he takes you for granted you should just go somewhere without telling him and then he will find out how much he needs you. something along those lines should set him straight. You should also confront him on the whole ex Gf thing. If you don't confront him then he will think that you don't mind him visiting the ex when in fact you do.

What?!! your boyfriend is seeing his ex girlfriend? if i were in your shoes, i won't let him do that to me.. fight for your right, girl.. you have the right to voice out.. let him know what you really feel.. don't let his pathetic ex gf ruin your relationship.. if he truly loves you or if he has high respect to you then he won't meet up with his ex ever again!!!

I can trust my bf but I can't trust a girl if I'm on your situation. Besides, you should know your right. You are his present, so why the hell he's meeting up with the girl for. It's very alarming. I'm sure your bf doesn't want you to meet with your ex so he better should not do it in the first place.

he's not deserving actually so leave him/her...you should find another partner which is more deserving for your love..

Hello, well I am still friends wih an ex-b/f from years ago. We nearly married but I walked out 3 weeks before the wedding day but we are still friends. We both married different people and divorced them too. Thru out we hid our friendship from our spouses and b/f and g/f. Now my b/f knows my friend that I almost married and I told him if he had a problem with me and my ex-b/f being friends then my current b/f and I should not be together because his jealousy would make me want to leave and I could not handle his jealousy. The only thing is people are different, someone else might not have been as understanding as my b/f is with me and my ex still being friends.Since I do not know you or your b/f I can't say what would be right in this situation.Hope it all works out the way you want it to.

Well i think it do happen sometimes when you feel that your parents have started to take you for granted but i think its just in our mind because when you will suffer from anything say fever or meet with an accident you will realise that its not so......

I think, ur bf juz wanna let u kno what happen whit ur relationship. He want show u to trust him coz he told the truth for u. Maybe ur bf dont want u start a fight with his ex if someday u kno if him meet his ex behind u. So him told u before. Its gud threat i see. I like ur care to threat her nicely. Its nice way for that situation. Keep it nice for everyone.