Does your husband help around the house?

My fiance won't do a darn thing unless I have a complete meltdown. I think he feels that since he has a full-time job he shouldn't have to do anything.

Yes, when we both worked, my husband did all the outside and hard lobor work, while i cared about the internal home making, mostly cooking and washing. Now we are both retired, and there is very little hard work left, so he does most of the routine shopping. Actually most husbands are willing to help, but some do not know what to do, and how to do. Understood job division, Full enpowerment and reasonable acceptance of whatever execution will encourage them to be part of the team. By time, they make good progress. Meanwhile, for the family, for people we love, wives had better be always ready for anything missing, with no complaint, and with pleasure. In this way, you will have a home in harmony.