what your boyfriends / your husband ever has affair ?

hello.. you should never let he did this to you again..if it happens again i suggest you better leave him because your feeling is more important. human sometimes make mistakes but it will not repeat if he truly loves you. give him a chance, believe him but if he betray you. make good choice you better just leave him. find someonelse better. have a nice day...

A man is usually attracted to beauty and what can make him feel happy. The first step that you should do is to remember the reasons for him to have an affair before this. There could have been something which he found lacking in you and found it in the other girl. If this is so have you tried to remedy the situation? For example he may like to see you dress up nicely whenever you see him. Or he may refer someone who can always make him smile and laugh. Have you confronted him over the uneasiness that you have in your heart? Should you do then look for several tell tale signs which are common among those who have something to hide. As example when a person answers a question without looking at the questioner the person may be lying. Many look to the left before telling a fib. This time try to control your anger. This time he may leave you altogether with the excuse that you are too over bearing or are trying to control his life. all the best in your efforts, rosdimy

Why are you staying and constantly worrying if he will do it again? You deserve better. Maybe he won't cheat again, maybe he will. There's a saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" I don't think that's true in all cases but if you find out that he cheated more than once or does it again after he says he won't then you can put him in the category or the always cheater. Do you really want to spend the rest of your relationship always being suspicious?

Hi friend. I've beed cheated once, actually I've really been a bad bad third party. The man broke up with his gf after he met me and claimed that he loved me more than his gf. I was so young then and I believed him. But after some time I found out that he was still in touch with his gf and he said it's just friendship. Anyway in the end we broke up. So I tend to believe that if a man cheats you, he is not the one, perhaps. Watch the detail and find his nature, lol. You know, some kinda guys are more risky than others coz maybe they are too gorgeous and women like to gather around them. Relax, and enjoy the relationship. Have some faith in him:D

Just my opinion though...It's so hard to look at somebody's face without ever remembering how they've cheated on you. I don't know. Maybe I'm just not one of those person who easily forgets...If someone cheats on you, you can probably expect them to do it again. The sole reason is because you have given them the silent assurance that no matter what they do, they will never lose you. Now, if you can tolerate that kind of scenario several times, I wanna wish you good luck and a brave heart.

i have been cheated on a couple of times before.. i know that its hard to be tough when they use sweet/flattering words to woo girls back.. all i can say is if he has done it ONCE it can happen again.. but if you really want to give him another chance, make him work hard for it.. let him earn your trust back.. don't cave in too easily 'cause that'll just give another boost to his ego that he can play you.. =)

My boyfriend has never cheated on me, and I hope that he never does, but I know many of my friends and other people that I know who have been cheated on and who have had their hearts broken and it's no fun.

First, can you really forgive him? Can you bury this instance and let it just be a part of the past? Are you sure this will this not keep you doubting your hubby? If you say yes, then you are ready to take your boyfriend back. But not yet... Since love is a two way street, you should also make sure that your boyfriend is ready to take the relationship to a higher level. Is he really sincere in his promise that he will not do it again? Of course, only he can answer that but you, as a woman who have known him for long, can read somehow if his is not a hollow promise.

To tell you truth, i have had been cheated on before, and it sucks. I felt really hurt by my girlfriend, and i decided as much as i loved her, she must not have felt the same way, because she has obviously been thinking of other guys. So, i broke up with her, and i told myself that there are plenty of fishes in the sea. If you really think your boyfriend is worth it, then feel free to stay with him, if not, then there are many other great guys in the world for you to meet. Also, the relationship is never the same, things always seem a bit weird after being cheated on.

If a man cheats on you, he will probably do it again. Do you think taking his word for it is the best move? Seriously, if I ever was cheated on (which I would not expect) I would seriously leave and never return. I am not one to put up with bullcrap, and that is about the epitome for me. It is one of the few things I would never forgive and never forget. The bottom line here though, at least for me, is I would not trust this person again. You seem to be allowing him to get off to easily, in the least.

Giving him anothey chance is not a mistake or weakness or stupidity. If you love him u'll even give him more than 10 secound chances - lol(but i hope he doesn't do that again). The fact that he appologised means he stiil has some feelings for you. You must calm urself down because 1. If he is yours ' he will never go away he will always be yours.2. U lived your life before you met him, if he leaves you'll still live your life. So u relax. All u can just do is to find out(without him knowing) What he saw in that lady an every other circumstances sorrounding him having to go and cheat. Once you know that, u can (if possible) prevent future occurence of such or at least you can reeduce the chance of it happening again. I WISH U ALL THE BEST.