Are you afraid of getting married

I am married for some time already and I do felt the way your friends are feeling right now. But do not separate love from marriage, because in marriage love is very much alive and there is not much difference except that the love in marriage is supposed to be deeper and more committed to the partnership as compared to those that are not in a married relationship.

Actually i am married, when i am single im not afraid of getting married, actually im so worried of what if i can't find a man to marry me, honestly im so excited to have a hubby and have a kids, it's my dream and now im happy deep inside my heart, but sometimes there's some problem in marriage but we always kiss and make up before going to bed. Happy Valentines day

No I'm not scared at all. It's something I'm really looking forward too. I know when I find the one I love(which I have) it's nothing to be afraid of.

I was ready to marry when i was 21.. I looked long and hard, even waited and found no one. Seen others relationships go bad and fall and i don't know about marriage anymore. Love is more powerful than a weeding anything. wedding band, vows, clothing etc. I guess after being drained of bad relationships and knowing how the world is spinning with the disdain women are starting to have for men and the feminist movement its getting hard to find someone through the confusion put to faces. so in end, i think at this moment i want love over marriage.

Lol, I actually think I am the opposite, i dont think I am afraid at all. I think as long as you are with the person you love and the one you want to spend forever with i think marriage is an amazing thing. Im a little young right now, but when im ready I will be very excited to be married. It may seem like you lose liberty, but you gain a partner for life and I think if you do feel like your losing liberty than maybe your not sure you are with the right person.

Why? are they forced to marry someone that they don't love? Well that will be a disaster. I would never want to marry someone i don't know very well, and i don't like someone forcing me just to marry the person whom i really don't like. It will be difficult to be in a relationship that does not have love at all. About liberty, well if you don't want someone to hold you down on what you like to do, then don't marry yet, enjoy being single, simple as that. But if you cant control yourself lusting , then marry someone who is right before the sight of God. But if you are still young, i think you better help your parents first. And if you decide that you know a person who loves you most and will do anything for you, then go ahead, the signal is Green!

I'm not afraid to get married and I think I'm ready. It will be hard at first because we will need to adjust (me and my partner) since we will be under the same roof but eventually I know we will get used to it.

Marriiage is just the next step of any relationship. It just kind of happens, I don't think it is something to fear, but then it depends on the person.

Hi mjanne, Good day to you. I am not afraid of getting married because I want to get married someday. This is one of my dreams in life, To be with a person whom I'll treasure and share my life with. Getting married will prove that my couple and I really loves each other. You know, the commitment and faith is there. There are responsibilities of being married and I am ready of taking those responsibilities. Maybe some of your friends aren't ready for that. Happy mylotting.

i used to be scared of marriage - the responsibilities, the thought of being tied forever, and the unfaithful husband. but here i am now, very much married. i guess, it is one's calling to be married, if you are destined to be married or destined to be single, then you can't do much about it but to face the challenges ahead and live one day at a time. have a nice day.

I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years and I think the feeling of staying together is good. Before , I expected for marriage because in our custom marriage is holiness .Now my family suggested that we should get marry,and I started to prepare for it for several month .The feeling of this period is complex, it makes me feel so tried ,sometimes i even hate it.I feel it is a painful course,and the feeling of love is becoming ......,I don't how to express. I'd rather to go back to the life before!

It depends on the attitude that different people have on marriage.Also during different age period,you will show different attitude to marriage.Some believe marriage is the sublimation of love,but some say marriage is the tomb for love. And at present,marriage is so far away from me.

well,for me, marriage dosen't make any sense. After marriage, if you don't get on well with your husband/wife, you can divorce and seek for next Mr right.

I think marriage should be a happy thing ,when you get married with your boyfriend

i deffinitly believe in marriage, i was married once for 6 years, we got married very yound had 2 kids and i just didn't work out i was the one mainly to blame, we are still best friends to this day, we still see each other she's re married hes a great guy and we meet on holidays at my kids house 37 and 39 boy and girl. we just couldn't live together back then. any way she was my 1 true love and i never did it again, now i have friends that are on their 3 and 4 wives, and thats just down right crazy.

the marriage will lost liberty. and will let you more patient and tolerate. i have a the sense. but by the press of my family , i married. and now don't feel very well. why many man feel patient , why they also marriage. so i don't decide to disvercement , you will also face patient and lost liberty. if you have another marriage.

I was not afraid when I got married because I knew he was the one. After we divorced... I'm not too sure of the importance of marriage.

ilove being married its the inlaws you have to worry about if you dont get on with them or they put there noise in everything you do it can be hard for you. i know someone who was married becouse the inlaws were so bad he scard of going throug it again.

i am not afraid of getting married i just wish i could find the right guy to marry it is just the next step in life so there is nothing to be afaid of

Marriage is love's Tomb!!