questions that i stopped to ask...

I'm sorry especially for the poor baby that will grow up without knowing it's father. It's a terrible thing to bear. I hope he comes around one day but if he doesn't that's a mistake he should think about and suffer for every day for the rest of his miserable life.

Oh well! Some questions shouldn't be asked anymore. In analysis of what happened, maybe he figured out that he will have responsibility soon (intelligent enough to escape from responsibilities), maybe he is immature to be in a "good" relationship. Well, I had experience that from my parents, my mom is older than my dad for many years, and my mom always handles the relationship (just can't take these kind of guys, even he's my father) or maybe he is influenced by his so called parents (as far as I know). Many answers but of course you wanted the answer directly from him. But I think you don't need to that. You will just be wasting your time. You have to focus on your baby, how to bring the baby up better than his "father" was brought up. Sorry for him. His conscience can kill him is he has.

Wow, I salute you for deciding to keep the baby and continue your pregnancy despite all the hardships you experienced. Upon reading your story, I was also confused as to the exact reason why he left. Anyway, look at the brighter side. One person left, a new person will arrive who is your baby. Kudos.

It is not good to have boyfriend younger than you, same age also not bad

Hi there! I am sorry to hear about what happened and sorry to hear that you had a jerk of an ex-boyfriend. One thing that no one should be sorry of is that miracle inside you. That precious innocent baby who is counting on you to give the love that he or she needs. I hope that your pregnancy will go really well and that you'll have an easy and very fulfilling delivery. Always pray to God for strength and guidance. He will never turn His back on you the way your ex did.

Sorry to hear ur story.My opinion: 1.give up ur boyfreind forever,If he really love u,he should take his responsbility.This kind of boy is not siutable for u,u are luckly to realise this if u are married 20 years,then you know whant kind of man your husband is that's too late.U are young enough to start a new life,to find ur real love. 2.give up the baby.I know maybe u don't understand why.But this is a good way for u to start a new life. If you have a baby before married,it is hard to find a new boyfreind.You can have a new baby with the person you really love.

sorry that this happened to you, but you have got a good head on your shoulders, cos you have made the right decision to keep the baby and trust in God. Dont consider giving the baby away, that is the one piece of advice that was wrong in the replies to your post, cos you have to be sure that when you are ready for love again the person will be soemone who will accept you with your past and your baby. That will be a true person who can give you a better happier life, so stick on to this little piece of heaven and enjoy the unconditional love adn happiness he/she will bring to your life till you find the special someone to complete your life. If you do decide not to get married or something, (though I wish you dont make that decision) for any reason, then too your baby will be enough of love and happiness..Good luck!

Hi; Hats off to you for deciding to keep the baby. If it were me that wouldn't of even been an option. What I mean is, Of course I would of opted to keep the baby and not even consider otherwise. I am so sorry to hear of the break up. By the sounds of things, it may be just as well. Children learn what they live. Maturity would be number one. Obviously your ex boyfriend has more maturing to do. I don't think age has anything to do with it. Whether you are his senior or not. Point is you are going to have a baby, with out him. What it comes down to is fate. Either you two were meant to be together or you were not. I strongly believe that. If you Love Someone, Let Them Go. If They Come Back, They're Yours. If not, They Never Were. On the other hand, maybe once the baby arrives, he will have a change of heart. Regardless of the reasons he chose to break up, if he comes back and wants to see his baby, I would let him but I would have conditions. I wouldn't give this guy blind trust but i would give the baby the right to have both Mom and Dad in it's life if at all possible. If he comes back and wants to see you as well as the baby and is an option you would consider, take it slowly. Talk long and hard before making commitments. I would want to know the reasons he broke things off if he came around and wanting to start again. If he doesn't appear to want a relationship with you but does with the baby, I wouldn't press him for the reasons he chose to break up. Bless you and your baby. may your lives be filled with Joy and happiness. best to you both!

Oh he is so bad... I feel really sorry for you... Apparently, he is being very irresponsible, he said let's break up after he told you got pregnant... Well, it's been 7 months now so you probably go back, I truely wish everythin good for you and your baby.

you made the right decision, your ex boyfriend is not deserving to your love, he was so immature, just continue loving your baby in your womb and I know that God will always here beside you and your baby, be strong to face all the challenges in your life, I know you can race your child without the help of his father, you have your family and friends who always there to guide you. Just always pray and will for you and your baby.

Your boyfriend might got someone or he suspects that you are pregnant that is why he broke up with you.