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betlynfrnds @betlynfrnds (4069) • United States 26 Apr 13

I'm not a spring chicken nor am I a senior citizen. I have no problem, at all, with weight. I'm probably at an ideal weight. I've never had a broken bone, cavity, gum disease, heart disease or anything at all. I take, what I...

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sunsham68 Yeah, I guess it can be nasty when people throw advice at you that way :)

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betlynfrnds @betlynfrnds (4069) • United States 26 Apr 13

I'm not a spring chicken nor am I a senior citizen. I have no problem, at all, with weight. I'm probably at an ideal weight. I've never had a broken bone, cavity, gum disease, heart disease or anything at all. I take, what I...

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sunsham68 Do you take Nutrilite by any chance? Just wondering when you say the best on the planet! About your query, yes actually people who have been there try to advise others not to go the same way, I heard it once said that advice is like rehashing our lives and...

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sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 29 Apr 13

I very ambitiously got into some savings and stuff hoping to balance my expenses and a loan that is hanging around my neck for a while now. For a few months though, Though I am doing ok for expenses, I am not really able to set...

sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

When you are in a relationship that you know is bad and you are both miserable/ angry/ bored, whatever, do you take the inititave and call it quits or do you let the other person do the severing? I once called the shots and...

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sunsham68 Thing is there is no mutual misery all the time in most relationships, right there are ups and downs and you wonder if given a few different scenarios if there would be more ups than downs and if you should wait it out..

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sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

When you are in a relationship that you know is bad and you are both miserable/ angry/ bored, whatever, do you take the inititave and call it quits or do you let the other person do the severing? I once called the shots and...

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sunsham68 That is well said. Great advice. Seems like you got me right :) Thanks!

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sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

When you are in a relationship that you know is bad and you are both miserable/ angry/ bored, whatever, do you take the inititave and call it quits or do you let the other person do the severing? I once called the shots and...

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sunsham68 You're welcome :) You have a very valid point, its better not to be the one dumped, and I guess I have learned that in my professional work, I see a job that is not working out and don't have any worries about quitting straight off. Yes starting off an old...

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sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

When you are in a relationship that you know is bad and you are both miserable/ angry/ bored, whatever, do you take the inititave and call it quits or do you let the other person do the severing? I once called the shots and...

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sunsham68 I don't ever get that clear picture that this is it and its the end. Maybe its my upbringing of not giving up on something maybe its change I am afraid of facing by my own doing..I don't know..maybe I second guess my actions too much too!

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sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

When you are in a relationship that you know is bad and you are both miserable/ angry/ bored, whatever, do you take the inititave and call it quits or do you let the other person do the severing? I once called the shots and...

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sunsham68 Oh gosh it seems i was mostly misunderstood in this discussion. I dont want to give false hope, just wanna be sure its over from both sides and that I am not throwing away something just because I cannot see the potential..I really have to get better with...

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sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

When you are in a relationship that you know is bad and you are both miserable/ angry/ bored, whatever, do you take the inititave and call it quits or do you let the other person do the severing? I once called the shots and...

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sunsham68 Yes, that is the confusion that keeps me waiting for a change around the next corner, but only if the person with me is of the same mindset. If they think its not going to work and we are too different to gel and made a mistake starting a friendship then only...

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sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

When you are in a relationship that you know is bad and you are both miserable/ angry/ bored, whatever, do you take the inititave and call it quits or do you let the other person do the severing? I once called the shots and...

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sunsham68 Hey no. I do not let myself be dumped. I understand I should respect myself but I am worried about impetuous decisions that may be one sided while the other person desperately wants to work it out. If I can be sure they dont see a future for the relationship...

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sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

My ex says he always regretted that we drifted apart and claims he named his daughter after me. That is one crazy way to carry someone's torch isn't it?

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sunsham68 Yes Nikka. Thanks. Great advice. I don't hang out with him, we just bumped into each other on the public transport. But I know what you mean about not communicating. I came across a pen friend who I had to stop keeping in touch cos he got too serious he found...

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sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

My ex says he always regretted that we drifted apart and claims he named his daughter after me. That is one crazy way to carry someone's torch isn't it?

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sunsham68 Hell yeah. If I ever had my husband do that to me I would so hate it! I too would not socialise or hang out with an ex. Its just not right. I mean, what can we talk about - how we used to laugh or what we liked, or what?? No way.

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sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

My ex says he always regretted that we drifted apart and claims he named his daughter after me. That is one crazy way to carry someone's torch isn't it?

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sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

When you are in a relationship that you know is bad and you are both miserable/ angry/ bored, whatever, do you take the inititave and call it quits or do you let the other person do the severing? I once called the shots and...

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Cherry3330 @Cherry3330 (213) • Philippines 23 Apr 13

There have been times, usually when I'm texting, chatting with someone in Fb or commenting on a post, that I don't know if I should stop replying already. I don't know if I should just wait for the person to be the one to end it...

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sunsham68 Wow. Right on, great topic! I am not sure either and I just assume as the answers get less and less frequent (more and more time between the replies) its fizzling out and sometimes unintentionally when I don't reply, that has been it, so I guess that's the...

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cynthiann @cynthiann (18602) • Jamaica 22 Apr 13

I mentioned before that I am going through boxes of personal papers and letters and hundreds of photos. I am making a collage of family photos to frame. So I picked out one and took it to my son to show him. Look at this I...

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sunsham68 Wow Ramya, Carefree school days for sure. You got that right! Too bad we thought they were the worst days of our lives when we should have been ravishing every moment. Or am I one of the few who had it wrong?!

23 Apr 13

shiftmeup @shiftmeup (47) 23 Apr 13

Has there ever been a moment, when you realize the person you trusted was not worth it? There have been a few moments in my life when I felt so helpless that every proof of a person's lie and deceit was in front of my eyes but I...

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sunsham68 Well I guess everyone has been betrayed at some point, but I for one am very wary of trusting someone too readily and then if I find I have been hurt, I have absolutely no problem just making a clean cut straight away. If I don't protect myself I will be left...

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cynthiann @cynthiann (18602) • Jamaica 22 Apr 13

I mentioned before that I am going through boxes of personal papers and letters and hundreds of photos. I am making a collage of family photos to frame. So I picked out one and took it to my son to show him. Look at this I...

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sunsham68 Wow. I am a keeper and find it very hard to throw stuff away, but I doubt I have anything that old. Hey wait a minute, I have my first ever gift from "Santa" ha ha. That's a keeper forever!!

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sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 27 Mar 13

If you got the ability to fly, what would be on your list of things to do? Keep it as fun as possible, there can't possibly be a very serious answer, of if you can think of one, let's hear it :) I would fly above the city and...

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sunsham68 Wow. Feel like you are flying just being atop a mountain? You have a great imagination!

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kemak28 @kemak28 (724) • United States 22 Apr 13

I am so addicted to Pinterest lately. I'm on there all the time getting new recipes, ideas for my daughter's birthday party, ideas for activities for my daughter and I to do, make your own cleaning products.... the list goes on...

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sunsham68 I love it too, but honestly I do not enter the site, cos if I ever go on it takes a tremendous amount of will power and battling to get off it and get back to work. Its SO awesome and engaging. Use it to learn tons of stuff!!

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