i thought he was...
@juliarodriguez (6)
Philippines
February 15, 2009 9:14am CST
I'm with my husband for 9 years already. We were happy... i thought, everything was okay. Last year, it was May 2008, I saw an unfamiliar cellphone with lots of text messages from an unknown girl... It was his officemate (i've done my homework). I nearly died. I 've been broken into pieces. When we talked, he said, it way over... But until now, it wasn't. I can still see messages. I saw his statement of account, he comes home late. He was secretive. I have done nothing to make him do it to me. i've been a good wife. Why does he have to do it to me?
I thought he was supportive and loving... maybe he was... to everyboby with a skirt... devastated until now... i dont know what to do and where to start.
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@alharra (507)
• United States
15 Feb 09
so whatever was going was going on for almost a year? sounds like it's time to go through marriage counseling to see if there is any point in going on... I gotta say though that once i couldn't trust my spouse the marriage would be over for me. Think about it- what if he was sleeping with someone else and not using protection... diseases, another child etc. You need to do what is best for you and your family though so I would start with counseling
@daneg33 (1128)
• Canada
15 Feb 09
I am sorry to hear that. Has he told you that it's over? If so, you need to find the strength to end it now. Ask him to leave. Things aren't going to change, and the sooner you get on with your life, the better. I know everything seems bad right now, but it will get better.
