what is your opinion about homosexuality?
By judith1123
@judith1123 (126)
Philippines
February 16, 2009 9:13am CST
it is now very usual to see homosexuals in our society and i think the society is starting to accept them..well, i don't know but i just find so many gays and lesbians nowadays..what affects them that they become like that?
i'm not condemning them. i just can't really understand why.
i had a crush with a cute guy then i found out that he's gay..that actually happened a couple of times..i just can't trust everybody now if they are straight or homosexual..hehe
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17 responses
@DancingRedFeather1 (1037)
• Canada
17 Feb 09
Yes, society is accepting them - will God? He never has and even destroyed Sodom and Gomorreh because of this. He clearly states that they will never be accepted in His kingdom unless they repent and stop being homosexuals.
It is against nature what they are doing no matter what anyone says.
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@AnnieOakley1 (5596)
• Canada
18 Feb 09
Gay people are just like you and me, PEOPLE. Who they are attracted to is irrelevant to who they are.
Nothing has 'affected' them to make them turn gay. That is false. You are born gay.
We used to have a running joke amongst us girls when we were all single and looking for a man. "All the good ones are already married or gay".
Keep looking. You'll find Mr. Right someday, when you are ready. In the meantime, explore the world before you become tied down and learn all you can that your heart desires.
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
17 Feb 09
I am not against homosexuality. For as long as I know, they have reasons of their own that is why they are homosexuals. And I respect it. As long as they will not hurt nor cause any trouble to anybody, then they are fine with me.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
17 Feb 09
my thing is who's care, they are what they are. we have a gay nephew, and my wife cousin is a lesbain. i still love them either way.
but as long as they don't push it off on me, or if a guy don't try to touch me we're good.
but i think some gay guys act really stuipd or silly and like i tell my nephew this is why i make fun of them. ok i make fun of anyone if there is a reason.
but i have adpoted son who's gay and he remind me of jack from will and grace.
seeing two dudes kissing out in pulbic is gross too me, but once again to each of their own.
@headabnger2884 (253)
• Ireland
17 Feb 09
heh yeah it can be annoying at times....seems to me gay guys hit on me more often then women also so many teenagers now days think its cool to be BI its like the new trend ^^
@Videogeezer (654)
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16 Feb 09
I have no problems with gay people, it would be ignorant for me to have any problems with them. I think you will find just like with straight people, there are some nice people and there are some bad people. This is exactly the same with gay people, so why judge?
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
16 Feb 09
Hi,
I also dont have a problem with it. Well we have so many other problems to look at. I dont care whether the person iam talking to is gay or lesbian or wahtever thay neme it.
I have not met any gay nor a lesbian yet. But i have one very strange experiance. Once i was travelling and i had to go to a public toliet and one man was doing something which i cant share here. I thought that he must be insane or he must be a gay. Not sure really.
Anyways ..its fine with me unless they hit on me, lol.
Cheers,
Tutul
@jene1985 (224)
• Australia
16 Feb 09
people cant help who they fall in love with.. I am a lesbian and I am not ashamed of it though I dont go shouting it from the rooftops and some people know most dont it wasnt a conscious decsion I just made one day it is just I feel more attracted to women.People only feel weird about it because that is what we are taught that women belong with a man if society did nt teach us that it would not be a problem.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
17 Feb 09
Hi judith, I feel too that society is becoming more and more accepting of homosexuality and I couldn't agree more. Homosexuality is not a choice, people are born that way and they cannot change so it is very important that we accept and not condemn them for something that they have no control over. Some people will tell you that it is a choice but it's crazy to think that anyone would choose a lifestyle where they would be treated as gays and lesbians have been in our society. If someone tells you that they once were gay but have changed, don't believe it because either they never were gay or they are only pretending to have changed. Blessings.
@patms1 (521)
• United States
16 Feb 09
I believe that gays are born that way and seeing that God knows a lot more then I do I except them as people. I do have to say that if you keep getting interested in gays then maybe you really are not interested in having a real relationship. Unless its a work place most gay people are pretty much out and if you find out their gay then they must be not hiding it. I would have a long talk with myself and ask why I am drawn to gays.
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
17 Feb 09
I don't have a problem with them. When I was in high school two of my best friends were gay males. They struggled a lot with it. They tried to fight it, they tried to date girls, but in the end it was just not them. After they graduated they were finaly able to admit that they were gay, and were able to come out with it, but I know how honestly hard they struggled with it and tried to be straight, but in the end they had to be happy and be who they were.
@UK_Shree (3603)
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17 Feb 09
I have no problem with those that are homosexual. After all, they are not hurting anyone - they are simply following their hearts desires. I have a couple of gay friends that I am quite close to, they are some of the nicest people I know. The fact that they are gay doesn't change who they are and it needn't be a negative thing
@strawberrychocodahi (4818)
• Philippines
16 Feb 09
The Bible is very clear about homosexuality. One verse i can share is 1Cor. 6:9-10. If people chose to be like that, then i am sure that it is not God's will.
We have given a free will to do what is right or what is wrong. Do whatever that will please God. And if ever someone here is a homosexual, i am sure that there is something inside telling him/ her that what they do is wrong, but they just ignore it because they wanted to follow their own will, their own lust .
I will not condemn nor judge what is their motives, but to what they do, i will tell them here that God's wrath is in them. They don't find favor to God's sight. I pray that they will change in their hearts to obey God and His Word.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
16 Feb 09
Each has a right to do their own thing in life. I think that some people can't help being homosexual. They do it and it isn't a worry for me. I met a Polish guy in Slovakia and we became pen friends. Yearly later he admitted to his parents that he was homosexual and they were horrified. He got a boyfriend and moved in with him.
One of my school friends had a girlfriend and he dated her for two years. Then she admitted she was really a lesbian. He was so upset and worried that he had made her that way. She got a girlfriend and stayed with her for five years. She didn't tell her parents. Then she got a boyfriend and she is still with him. She is 30 something and he is 60 something. My old school friend stayed single for a while and last year got another girlfriend.
@rainmark (4302)
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16 Feb 09
I have no issue about homosexuality and i don't hate them. For me, as long as they never make any harm and violence in the society then that would be fine. If they going to live in harmony and not in vulgar way that would be fine. That's thier life, they have a rights to live like normal so we don't discriminate them, lets be friend of them.
Happy posting.
@jessi0887 (2788)
• United States
16 Feb 09
I dont have any problems. I think its their choice. Around here lesbians are not uncommon but gays are. I had never seen a gay couple prior to last week. My fiance and i were at walmart in line and i noticed he was staring at something i asked what and he said look gay guys. Three gay guys were huddled up together. It didn't bother me but it kind of freaked my fiance out alot. He has been around gay guys before. He even works with one right now. He has had gay guys even hit on him. He doesn't like it.