im not comfortable with my new haircut.....
@Zelmarq (12585)
Cebu City, Philippines
February 19, 2009 7:23pm CST
well, its the result of having a haircut again and this is the same old feeling that i feel whenever i have hair cuts. Its not that short but im really not comfortable. I wish if i could turn back time i would like to have the old haircut i had. But anyways hairs grow so i should not worry so much. It could be a stressor to me but its just a haircut and theres nothing to get worried about.
Have a nice day to all and happy mylotting!
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
20 Feb 09
Hi Zelmarq! Oh, it will definitely grow back. I guess, you are not just used to it at the moment and just give it a few days and you will be comfortable with it. You might be surprised that it sure does look good on you! Because I always feel like that whenever I have a new haircut. I wouldn't like it at all when I have it but giving it a few hours or days, I am learning to love it and I do think that it really looks good! lol
Take care and have a great day!
lovelots..faith
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
20 Feb 09
well, its taking time to love this haircut . I tied it to minimize the annoying feeling im feeling right now.
Thank you for sharing and have a nice day!
@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
20 Feb 09
Hey Zelmarq, if the biggest thing stressing you out is your haircut, I'd say you have a pretty happy life. I get stressful when I have to have a blood pressure test, and guess what, that stress is exactly what raises my blood pressure to a high level. Now that's a catch 22 situation I'm not happy with. Have a good time, nature and time will take care of your hair.
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
21 Feb 09
You probably have to get used to it.I have a short hairstyle now but feel a little awkward.I normally wear my hair long but everybody I come in contact with likes the new look.Its something different I thought I would try.When you get used to your hair cut you just might want to stick with it but if not like you said it will grow back.
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
21 Feb 09
you're welcome and you have a0 nice one to.well its night time here:)
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@jess368 (3368)
• United States
21 Feb 09
I am sorry your haircut didnt turn out as great as you hoped. In the future you should try out different styles on your face first. What I mean is, there are a few different websites that allow you to upload a picture of your face, then apply different hair styles on your head. Then you can figure out what looks best before you go to the hair stylest.
This site tells you what styles look best on different types of faces, and allows you to upload your own photo.
http://www.hairstyle.com/hair-articles/what-hair-suits-my-face.htm
This one lets you try styles on a manican or your own face
http://www.ukhairdressers.com/hair_move/
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
21 Feb 09
well i checked a few styles and described it to the hair stylist and this is now the result. Well, i hope things would trun out well.
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
21 Feb 09
I understand the feeling very well Zelmarq, for I did have such experience before and I think I would face such old feeling again and again unless I don’t have any hair cut or changing of hair styles anymore during the remainders of my life lol.
I believe after having the new haircut we would have such feeling when the image appears in the mirror looking quite different to that we are used to see daily. Very often we couldn’t accept our new appearance for we are not accustomed with it yet. And I hope after some days you would like your new hair cut after you have got familiar with it. In case you still dislike it you still could have your long hair style back after some days since it is not that short.
Anyway I believe our loved ones and friends around do not care much about our appearance but our good and harmonious relationship.
Happy posting and have a nice day.
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
21 Feb 09
You are most welcome my friend. I hope your hair would be better the following week, and will look very much better the week after next week, and ...
that’s why I still haven’t got my hair cut yet though I have planned to visit the nearby hair salon weeks back. I just want to trim my long straight hair and let it to look 3 cm or so shorter. I’m worried that the hairdresser would give me a poor hair cut.
Most of us think that short hair is easier to take care of but actually it’s not. The short hair in some parts is sticking up and to look indecent especially after getting up in the morning. I could let it to become as smooth as the previous state by spraying water on it and to comb it continuously only.
Take care and bye ...
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
21 Feb 09
well yes, this is always my case when i have a new hair cut, after going out from the saon i felt good but when i woke up the following morning, i felt strange and i felt ugly with all the short hair spring from left to right and back again and i hate that kind of feeling.
i will soon get used to the way i look, and maybe next week it wont feel the same.
maybe next week i will feel a lot better and i hope to see improvements.
i may sound wierd but i try to brsuh my hair as many times as possible coz its the solution i have in mind to improve my uglu feeling.
thank you for sharing my friend and have a nice day!
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@neknna (63)
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20 Feb 09
i understand what you feel.. i also feel that.. I haven't had a short hair since chidlhood until today. I always carry a long hair. Im not comfortable to short and they say it wont fit my circular face, so i never tried to cut my hair short so that i won't regret if in case..
Anyways, it will grow.. don't worry
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@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
20 Feb 09
I get the same basic style every time I get my hair cut. I just like it short and straight. If it's too short it'll grow out. Heck, if it's too short it'll take longer to grow back, and there will be a longer period of time before I'll have to pay for another haircut...so maybe too short is a good idea. LOL
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
20 Feb 09
yes thats true. I will ahve to wait a little longer for it to grow.
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
21 Feb 09
yes, thats true.
Thank you for sharing my friend and have a nice day!
@jillmalitz (5131)
• United States
20 Feb 09
I know how you feel. But like you say it will grow back. Just be patient. Sooner or later you will get the urge to cut it again. Good luck.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
21 Feb 09
yes, theres no other option but to be patient and wait for it to grow back.
Thank you for sharing and have a nice day!
@michaeldadona (5684)
• Malaysia
21 Feb 09
LOL!...not comfortable? don't worry there are lots of hair style that can suit your face shape, pattern and formation. Hair dressing saloon much well better know how to make it into good looking and match it with your face, body shape and your height. Especially, integrate it with your walking pattern. Once all in the right position, you will be in good looking than yesterday.
@Nhey16 (2518)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
Hello Zelmarq,
that also happened to me before, I just cried for about 2 days coz I was so unhappy with my haircut, so I just put some hairbands or hairpins and had to comb my hair always. But now my hair is longer, and I just don't wanna go back to the person who had cut my hair. But you are right, our hair would grow longer so it's just a temporary sadness and uncomfortable feeling, and in no time, we'll be back with our "lives"
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
21 Feb 09
yes, maybe after one week ill get used to this new haircut.
Thank you for sharing and have a nice day!