Do you have male friends more or female friends more ?
By Nancy312
@Nancy312 (282)
China
February 23, 2009 7:42pm CST
According to the survey,male always have many female friends more,and female are on the opposite.For me,among my contacting friends,it seems that male friends are more,but good female friends are more closer to me.^_^.What about you,mylotters?Can you tell me the reason for sharing?
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11 responses
@thecrazyjogger (3178)
• India
24 Feb 09
hmm depends
but I have more male friends cuz I am a guy myself
happy lotting and have a nice day! :D
@veejay19 (3589)
• India
24 Feb 09
I don`t fall into your classification. I am a male and have more male friends than female friends. Don`t ask me why, i can`t explain it. My closest friends are male and they are very helpful too. I have always been rather wary of female friendships and perhaps thats one reason for my single status. I have nothing against women , i do have some female friends too ,some of them married and some unmarried but my friendsip with them is entirely platonic. I think it is my destiny and i have no complaints or regrets either.
@veejay19 (3589)
• India
1 Mar 09
Hi Nancy, thanks a lot for your comment. The real reason why i have stayed away from women is that i have been afflicted with an incurable muscle wasting disease since the last 39 years and have not stepped out of my home since 1987. I am affected from my feet to my shoulders and completely helpless and need help for which i have two men servants who take care of me. In such a situation i do not want to get involved with women and unneccessarily cause them and myself pain. I have locked up my heart against all emotions such as romance, love etc. I may be missing out on this front but i do not want to suffer mentally. At present i am at peace with myself and i don`t want to disturb the current situation.
@Nancy312 (282)
• China
25 Feb 09
Hi,Veejay,that will be ok.Male friends are more easily to get on with each other,generally,they just like brothers,have thier personal loyalty,especially when you have trouble or anthing like that,they will give you valuable help as they can.And when you are happy or not happy ,you can also have a drink with them.It's cool !
Thanks for your sharing!
@vicky30 (4766)
• India
24 Feb 09
I have more male friends because i am a boy.I also have female friends but i do not speak to them much.I just speak once in a while to them or if it is something related to studies.In my college graduation i was in a group.There were four female friends in the group and most of them were males.I used to speak sometimes with them.
@Nancy312 (282)
• China
25 Feb 09
^_^,a lovely shy boy !you must like speaking with your male friends more,then you can say what you want to them,opening and directly.But sometimes female friends are also lovely,try to speak with them more,perhaps you will find more interesting things.
Thanks for your sharing!
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@jesssp (2712)
• Canada
24 Feb 09
I have more male friends but it isn't on purpose, it just seems to be the way the cards have fallen. After high school I lost touch with a lot of my girlfriends and spent more time with my boyfriend's friends. As time went on I expected those guys to find girlfriends but the majority of them haven't. I find it incredibly hard to make friends with other women now that I'm in my mid 20's. Some of them are just so much more emotional than me I end up offending because I just can't handle crying and things like that. Many other woman my age are just too busy with their life and starting their own families, they're already established and have no time for new friends. So for now it's just me and the guys, which is getting a little old!
@sammi841018 (23)
• China
24 Feb 09
I like male friends. Because my character is open and lively which is a little bit like boy's, so contacting with them will very freely, I don't mind whether offense them, because boys are always tolerant. But I also have such female friends which are few, and I think one or two just enough.
@Nancy312 (282)
• China
25 Feb 09
Wow,i hope i can have such characteristics as you,it's easily to merge with people whoever you want.And people also like such extroverted personality,because they will feel you are easy going and kindly to get on,so will i.But i'm introverted,especially facing to many strangers,generally i don't speak more.But if my familiar friends,i will speak more.^_^
Happy Mylotting,Sammi
@Amber4106 (540)
• United States
24 Feb 09
I have more male friends. I enjoy shooting pool, and have been shooting on league for about three years now. I am the only woman shooting on the team, and the majority of the other shooters on other teams are also men. League nights are about the only time I get out and about, so these are the people I see the most of. I keep in contact with old girl friends, but I don't see them on a regular basis.
@Nancy312 (282)
• China
24 Feb 09
that will be wonderful in such a league.Then gentlemen will take care of you and i guess perhaps you are the main power in your team or maybe leader.And i believe that you do well in shooting,as i know,few females enjoy shooting except for the shooting spoters.
Thanks for your sharing.^_^
@Crystalzhang214 (4)
• China
24 Feb 09
I have more female friends. Perhaps it is because of my traditional charactors. i'd like to stay together with them in the weekends and holidays. We have so many similar hobbies and we enjoy them very much.
@Nancy312 (282)
• China
25 Feb 09
Yes,girls are more easily to have similar hobbies and can talk anything they want to their own cloest friends.That's a enjoyful thing when you have something happy or sad ,there will always be some friends waiting for listening and sloving problems together with you.
Thanks for your sharing.^_^
@heide2008 (53)
• China
24 Feb 09
Actually,I have a few friends,and most of them are female.Maybe there is no why.But one of my best friends is a man.I love all my friends .
@Nancy312 (282)
• China
25 Feb 09
generally,one person can have 1 or 2 best friends, they must be your forever friends,whenever you do something wrong for them,they will not be angry either.That's really true friendship.
There is a saying that "Friends in need is friends indeed "
Happy mylotting,Heide
@Nancy312 (282)
• China
25 Feb 09
Oh,sounds strange.But never mind,that's just your own personality.Perhaps you'd like to play with female friends more freely and relaxed,especially when you go shopping together,and buy clothes,etc.It's more easier to discuss about the style with girls,isn't it ?
Thanks for your sharing,Emma
@Tori0325 (11)
• United States
24 Feb 09
Hey all-
When I was younger, I had a lot more guy friends and like 1 or 2 really close girlfriends. I've always had a pretty abbrasive personality and some girls really didn't like that. As I got older, however, and learned more tact I guess you could say, the ratio pretty much evened out. I agree with you, though- I feel the female friends that I have now, I have a closer relationship with them than I do my male friends.
My reason for sharing... I thought this was an interesting topic... good job :)
@Nancy312 (282)
• China
25 Feb 09
Thanks for your sharing,Tario.^_^
Different people have different personalities,and people who have the similar characteristics or they like yours,they will be like to be friends with you.Look,you still have more closer relationship with female friends now.They must like to talk with you and together with you