MEN.................... A Question:

United States
February 24, 2009 12:07pm CST
I have been watching a movie/documentary about men and women in their relationships. It was a study about why women are so angry, with their "All men are dogs" and why some men are fed up with women "They keep thinking I'm going to be like this or that person". So I thought I would get my own answers from you guys here in MyLOT..... What is the ONE thing you wish every woman knew about men? Or, if you could give a woman a bit of advice, what would you say? What bit of information could every woman use to make her relationship better with her guy? What is something that women seem to do in relationships that make you go "I can't be with this woman"? Let me know your thoughts. My husband says he wants a strong woman, who can stand on her own and not let the world fall down around her if he is not there..... What do you guys think???? Thanks in advance!! :)
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Lurkin
@Lurkin (12)
• United States
26 Feb 09
Every Man wants a strong woman, but at the same time they want a kind, loving, caring woman. One that they can confide in and cry with, my opinion on it is that eyerybody needs some time alone and so in a mans case which includes me, they want a woman strong enough to hold down the fort for a while or possably so that they know that if anything happend to them,the spouce could step up and keep family/ kids fed, clothed, warm and the roof over thier heads. The one thing I wish every woman could know about a man would be: FULL insight into their past, that way the man has a better chance of being judged for the real and true him rather than being profiled as usual.
mariedenae
@mariedenae (335)
• United States
26 Feb 09
WOW.... That is right away the best answer that I have heard, not on here, but in general life. My husband, one day when I had just broken down and was going kind of postal about everything, said almost the exact same thing as this, and it shocked me because we have been married for 4 years and together for 5, and although I had asked him NUMEROUS times before what he wanted, he never once said this. And on that day, when he did, it just.... well, I had to just shut up and listen, because he was telling me EXACTLY what I needed to hear and had asked him before. And that helped me to wake up and bring back the strong woman my mother always told me to be and who I now knew he NEEDED me to be. If you have a lady be sure to tell her these things. It makes a world of difference. At least it did for me! Thanks so much for that answer! And Kudos to you for saying it! p.s. Welcome to Mylot!