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mariedenae @mariedenae (335) • United States 3 Mar 09

One of the great debates about marriage is how far a person should go to make it work. The answer that has always seemed right and best to me was SELF sacrifice. You give of yourself to and for the other person because they are...

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mariedenae Buggles, thanks for the comment. I am hoping to wake up from this refreshed and renewed just as you have. I feel like a phoenix in my marriage. That every time things get to that point where they are going to explode, and they do and our love feels like...

6 Mar 09

mariedenae @mariedenae (335) • United States 3 Mar 09

One of the great debates about marriage is how far a person should go to make it work. The answer that has always seemed right and best to me was SELF sacrifice. You give of yourself to and for the other person because they are...

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mariedenae KRW, thanks for the comment. And you have just asked the same thing I am wondering. If he couldn't accept me before, then why didn't he say so? I have often asked him that when things come up in an argument that he has NEVER once said to me when things...

6 Mar 09

mariedenae @mariedenae (335) • United States 3 Mar 09

One of the great debates about marriage is how far a person should go to make it work. The answer that has always seemed right and best to me was SELF sacrifice. You give of yourself to and for the other person because they are...

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mariedenae Misslovely, Thanks for the comment. Your first sentence made me smile because it depicted exactly why we (husband and I) had the fight, my emotions are so strong. But it's just the way I have been since I was mere toddler. It does seem odd for someone to...

6 Mar 09

mariedenae @mariedenae (335) • United States 3 Mar 09

One of the great debates about marriage is how far a person should go to make it work. The answer that has always seemed right and best to me was SELF sacrifice. You give of yourself to and for the other person because they are...

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mariedenae Phenomenal, You know, he may have been trying to tell me that, maybe I should just take it down a notch. To possibly just not let my emotions take the driver's seat in my life and run me off the road, or even him. But it's so hard to hear that constructive...

5 Mar 09

mariedenae @mariedenae (335) • United States 3 Mar 09

One of the great debates about marriage is how far a person should go to make it work. The answer that has always seemed right and best to me was SELF sacrifice. You give of yourself to and for the other person because they are...

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mariedenae Lucas... well, that just seem to be the best thing to do. Nothing more needs to be said about that. I wish you had told me sooner! It seems a lot of times nowadays I make decisions and changes in my life without first praying to God and talking things over...

5 Mar 09

mariedenae @mariedenae (335) • United States 3 Mar 09

One of the great debates about marriage is how far a person should go to make it work. The answer that has always seemed right and best to me was SELF sacrifice. You give of yourself to and for the other person because they are...

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mariedenae Spectrum, thanks for the comment and welcome to myLot. I have a question to pose to you: How is it a person can remain who they are when the one they love despises that part of them so much? How can anyone truly be happy with themselves knowing that...

5 Mar 09

mariedenae @mariedenae (335) • United States 3 Mar 09

One of the great debates about marriage is how far a person should go to make it work. The answer that has always seemed right and best to me was SELF sacrifice. You give of yourself to and for the other person because they are...

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mariedenae NuttyMomma, To you, I also extend a thanks. To be honest, I don't live my life very well in dealing with it. I have been depressed more times than I can account for during my relationship with my husband. And have contemplated actual physical death. Have...

5 Mar 09

mariedenae @mariedenae (335) • United States 3 Mar 09

One of the great debates about marriage is how far a person should go to make it work. The answer that has always seemed right and best to me was SELF sacrifice. You give of yourself to and for the other person because they are...

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mariedenae AngelLinda Thank you as well for your comment. You know, rereading what I had written, it seems that killing a part of who you are for the person is NOT the right thing to do, nor may it be the healthiest. And at the risk of contradicting that last...

5 Mar 09

mariedenae @mariedenae (335) • United States 3 Mar 09

One of the great debates about marriage is how far a person should go to make it work. The answer that has always seemed right and best to me was SELF sacrifice. You give of yourself to and for the other person because they are...

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mariedenae Jae, thank you, first of all for you comment. It's just as you say, I would do anything for them even at the risk of my own unhappiness. And for the man I love, there is no limit. I don't know if what I did was drastic because of the argument and the way I...

5 Mar 09

mariedenae @mariedenae (335) • United States 3 Mar 09

One of the great debates about marriage is how far a person should go to make it work. The answer that has always seemed right and best to me was SELF sacrifice. You give of yourself to and for the other person because they are...

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mariedenae Everything you have said is absolutely true. He did know who I was before asking me to marry him, he knew after we were married, and now four years later still knows who I am, but doesn't like it. The truth is I just want peace. And hearing over and over that...

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drknlvly6781 @drknlvly6781 (6246) • United States 2 Mar 09

Well, after having the last avatar since last year, I decided to take some more pictures and make a new avatar. I just got my hair cut in a little cute style, and also I wanted a picture that showed me wearing glasses, which I do...

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mariedenae You certainly look like a woman to me :) As for the avatar, I really just choose whatever suits my mood. Right now I have a purple rose because I love roses, and I love(d) purple, and I have never seen a real purple rose in life. I have not posted a...

3 Mar 09

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deejean06 @deejean06 (1952) • United States 27 Feb 09

This is the first time I have even ventured to share opinions on such sensitive topics such as politics and religion. I often speak with people and the instant a differing opinion is offered the immediate result is name calling...

difference of opinion

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mariedenae Dee, I am going to say right off that I MARRIED someone who has different views, opinions, values, beliefs and morals than myself. SOME things we can agree on but others.......... all heck breaks loose. We can NEVER have differing opinions about things...

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katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 9 Feb 09

Which kind of cookie do you prefer? I like a soft, chewy kind of cookie, always have. When I make cookies I'll even undercook them just a bit to make sure they're nice and soft, then when I eat them, I go for the ones that...

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mariedenae I love them both actually. It just depends on the cookie: Chocolate chip has to be soft and chewey Sugar has to have a SLIGHT crunch to it, too soft is no good Ginger cookies, or snaps HAVE to be a crunchy cookie Peanut butter can go both ways, if with...

3 Mar 09

K.Rajib G. @krajibg (11922) • Guwahati, India 3 Mar 09

Well, all religions are of the opinion that men ( both man and woman )are God's creation. In the "Genesis" of the Old Testament it is clearly stated that on the sixth day God created men and the seventh day He took rest. If we are...

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mariedenae I have always believed in God, and until the day I die and I either turn into non existence or I meet my creator, I will leave it alone :) God is who I believe in, and trust that all things were created by him. I would hate to be a person who does not...

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K.Rajib G. @krajibg (11922) • Guwahati, India 3 Mar 09

Well, all religions are of the opinion that men ( both man and woman )are God's creation. In the "Genesis" of the Old Testament it is clearly stated that on the sixth day God created men and the seventh day He took rest. If we are...

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mariedenae WOW. That's the best explanation I have ever heard!

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mariedenae @mariedenae (335) • United States 3 Mar 09

One of the great debates about marriage is how far a person should go to make it work. The answer that has always seemed right and best to me was SELF sacrifice. You give of yourself to and for the other person because they are...

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Morning Girl @salonga (27775) • Philippines 26 Feb 09

Yes indeed there have been sad stories of losing jobs and finding it hard to make both ends meet because of the present financial crisis, but so thankful I am to God that He still keeps me secured in His love. The global crisis...

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mariedenae Thank you. I have to be honest though, I have to remind myself of this A LOT :)

3 Mar 09

deejean06 @deejean06 (1952) • United States 26 Feb 09

I used to color my hair - nothing too wild - just to cover the gray. However I stopped because of a pregnancy and breastfeeding. I was concerned that the chemicals in the coloring would adversely affect my baby. I don't even know...

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mariedenae Yes, lol, my husband was like....um, isn't that the color YOU were going for lol You could only tell it was that color when he was in the sun, but whenever people saw it they were just like "WOW is his hair really that color or did you use food coloring?" lol...

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deedeehall @deedeehall (1144) • United States 27 Feb 09

im really confused as to what to do.my husband has a new truck he has a 4 wheeler and we live on a farm with caddle.we had triplets 6 years ago so i was forced to find work that would not require day care.i started a cleaning...

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mariedenae I don't know what her husband's profession is, but my husband is in customer service making 13.20/hr and there are still temp agencies calling offering him jobs that make 10-$15/hr. So if this is his field THERE ARE jobs out there. And even if it's not his...

27 Feb 09

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 26 Feb 09

My FIL has done it again!! If you don't know by now... we're moving in 2 days. The house we're currently staying in belongs to hubby's parents. We've lived here almost 3 years. I won't get into all the reasons we're moving...

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mariedenae Goodness.... sounds like he has a problem all around! It's a shame for everyone involved (except him of course) because they are being divided and he is pushing his kids away. That's crazy on his part. As for the mom, I wouldn't allow my husband to do that to...

27 Feb 09

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