lies . . . all lies . . .

This is kind of a tough one. I can relate because I have had to deal with this off and on for the past 2 years. It is hard to ignore a gut feeling. I have tried to have patience and wait for proof, but my emotions always get the best of me, and I end up confronting them. I guess looking back, I would have to say confront them with your concerns, because there may just be the chance that it is not as bad as you are thinking. I know I blow things out of proportion the more I think about things on my own. I could have saved myself alot of mental anguish, if I would have just confronted the person upfront. Not sure if this helps, but thank you for posting it, because it made me take a step back look at it from a different perspective.