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Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

I have been married to my husband who was my high school sweetheart, for 14 years. Over those years, we have had plenty of ups and downs. We have gotten through them all, but one of the problems that i find i am still struggling...

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Rachelg Thank you so much for your response.

4 Mar 09

Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

I have been married to my husband who was my high school sweetheart, for 14 years. Over those years, we have had plenty of ups and downs. We have gotten through them all, but one of the problems that i find i am still struggling...

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Rachelg Thank you for your response, It was refreshing to see things from your point of view.

4 Mar 09

Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

I have been married to my husband who was my high school sweetheart, for 14 years. Over those years, we have had plenty of ups and downs. We have gotten through them all, but one of the problems that i find i am still struggling...

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Rachelg I understand what you are saying. Having people hurt your trust in the past, can effect relationships on the future. That is kinda what I am dealing with as well. Thank you so much for your response.

4 Mar 09

Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

I have been married to my husband who was my high school sweetheart, for 14 years. Over those years, we have had plenty of ups and downs. We have gotten through them all, but one of the problems that i find i am still struggling...

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Rachelg Thank you so much for your response.

4 Mar 09

Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

I have been married to my husband who was my high school sweetheart, for 14 years. Over those years, we have had plenty of ups and downs. We have gotten through them all, but one of the problems that i find i am still struggling...

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Rachelg Thanks to the help of a counsler, that is what i have been working on. Thank you so much for your response. I really took it to heart.

4 Mar 09

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Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

I have been married to my husband who was my high school sweetheart, for 14 years. Over those years, we have had plenty of ups and downs. We have gotten through them all, but one of the problems that i find i am still struggling...

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Rachelg Thank you so much for your reply, that is exactly what I am trying to do.

4 Mar 09

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Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

Madea goes to jail came out in theatres last friday, and I got tickets to the first showing. I love all of tyler perrys plays, and thinks he conveys some really good messages in all his productions. He gives that real hard core...

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Rachelg I was glad he ended up with candy as well, I thought from the beggining, that he was to down to earth to be with the other one.

4 Mar 09

Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

I have been married to my husband who was my high school sweetheart, for 14 years. Over those years, we have had plenty of ups and downs. We have gotten through them all, but one of the problems that i find i am still struggling...

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Rachelg Very well put. I believe that I did have a problem with unrealistic expectations, but that is one of my flaws that i had a hard time looking at, but I'm working on it..lol Thank you for your response.

4 Mar 09

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Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

I have been married to my husband who was my high school sweetheart, for 14 years. Over those years, we have had plenty of ups and downs. We have gotten through them all, but one of the problems that i find i am still struggling...

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Rachelg Thank you so much for your post, It was an uplifting message for me to read today.

4 Mar 09

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Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

I have been married to my husband who was my high school sweetheart, for 14 years. Over those years, we have had plenty of ups and downs. We have gotten through them all, but one of the problems that i find i am still struggling...

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Rachelg He has been proving himself trustworthy, so I have been working on rebuilding that trust. We both believe our relationship is worth fighting for. Thank you for your response.

4 Mar 09

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Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

I have been married to my husband who was my high school sweetheart, for 14 years. Over those years, we have had plenty of ups and downs. We have gotten through them all, but one of the problems that i find i am still struggling...

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Rachelg I am really bad on the dwelling part...lol And it definetly adds fuel to the fire, the more i would think about it the more paranoid I would get. Thanks so much for responding.

4 Mar 09

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Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

I have been married to my husband who was my high school sweetheart, for 14 years. Over those years, we have had plenty of ups and downs. We have gotten through them all, but one of the problems that i find i am still struggling...

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Rachelg I am at the point where I am trying to live each day enjoying our relationship for what it is now, instead of thinking about the past. Thank you for your response.

4 Mar 09

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Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

I have been married to my husband who was my high school sweetheart, for 14 years. Over those years, we have had plenty of ups and downs. We have gotten through them all, but one of the problems that i find i am still struggling...

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Rachelg Thanks so much for your response, we are working on getting that trust back, i guess it will just take time.

4 Mar 09

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Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

I have been married to my husband who was my high school sweetheart, for 14 years. Over those years, we have had plenty of ups and downs. We have gotten through them all, but one of the problems that i find i am still struggling...

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Rachelg The ripping into him part I have down pat...lol Thanks for your response.

4 Mar 09

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Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

I have been married to my husband who was my high school sweetheart, for 14 years. Over those years, we have had plenty of ups and downs. We have gotten through them all, but one of the problems that i find i am still struggling...

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Rachelg Thank you so much for your response. I definetly enjoyed reading it.

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Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

I have been married to my husband who was my high school sweetheart, for 14 years. Over those years, we have had plenty of ups and downs. We have gotten through them all, but one of the problems that i find i am still struggling...

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Rachelg We have been seeing a counsler,and have been working on better communication, and it is working a lot better now. Thank you for responding.

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Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

Over the years I have heard a lot of my friends tell their significant other "I love you, but I'm not in love with you". Maybe I am just Naive, but what does that even mean! Really what is the difference? I would love to know...

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Rachelg Hello again...lol I think alot of people do say i love you out of habit, but you feel it deep inside when they mean it. Like you said I think that unconsciously you know deep inside if they really mean it or not.

3 Mar 09

Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

Over the years I have heard a lot of my friends tell their significant other "I love you, but I'm not in love with you". Maybe I am just Naive, but what does that even mean! Really what is the difference? I would love to know...

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Rachelg That's a cute way of putting it. Thanks for your response.

3 Mar 09

Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

I have been married to my husband who was my high school sweetheart, for 14 years. Over those years, we have had plenty of ups and downs. We have gotten through them all, but one of the problems that i find i am still struggling...

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Rachelg Thank you so much for your response, You were able to get me to look at it a different way. I like your acronym for fear, it makes sense. One of my biggest problems is fear, I'm one of those worry people, and have been working on letting go, and living in the...

3 Mar 09

Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

I have been married to my husband who was my high school sweetheart, for 14 years. Over those years, we have had plenty of ups and downs. We have gotten through them all, but one of the problems that i find i am still struggling...

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Rachelg Thank you so much for your response. It is good to hear , and gives hope.

3 Mar 09

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