Do you hate yourself sometimes?

hi the_dutchess :) i truly agree!:) sometimes we make decisions that can benefit the others-not to hurt them and better to hate our self rather than these people will hate us right? yeah do sometimes hate myself but it will not last that long- myself is the one who will be there for me the most LOL- i just keep on retracking my focus and being optimistic in every step/moves that i make ;) and at the end of the day the only person that we will be with me is my self... did i make you confuse? lol ;) happy myLotting!:) Godabless!0=)

I am disappointed with myself sometimes, and there are things I wish I had thought through before doing them, but I don't hate myself. I guess you just have to try and learn from your mistakes and keep going.

Good day.. I sometimes do hate myself. I guess it's normal for we're not perfect. I sometimes hate myself for not doing the things that I should have done, though I seldom regret the things that I've done whether it's wrong or right, I learned to live with my mistakes. For me it's better to learn from mistakes than not learning anything at all.

It is good to hear that you do like yourself, you sound like a nice person. I guess being with yourself is like any other relationship; you can get on your own nerves sometimes! (LOL) I have scolded myself for some of the decisions I've made over the years and there have been times when I wasn't too keen on myself but as I grew older and got to know myself better I became more comfortable in my own skin and realized that basically I am a good person who wishes no harm to anyone and who loves to lend a hand to whoever may need it. I'm just not perfect and I have made mistakes. I had to learn to be kinder to myself and not feel guilty about things that cannot be changed.

You are a very kind person. Think more of others is a grace, which in long run, will help you establish your positive image. When people come to you for help, for fun, you will have a good feeling of accomplishment. Mutual friendship is something we cannot do without. You can get input from them to enrich your knowledge and indirect experience. And if needed, they are also your resort for help. Happy mylotting.

I sometimes hate myself,too! I used to be alot worse but over the years I have learnt not to! I used to hate myself for doing stupid stuff. I sometimes hate the way I look! I'm still trying to except my body! I lot of why I hate myself has to do with low self-esteem and confidence! It has gotten a heck of alot better over the years! it has been a long struggle but I'm getting there!

You are not alone in this topic.I call it (foot and mouth decease)I do that many time when I'm in a hurry or busy then I could give myself a kick in the butt.I always try to be patient and helpful,but some people just rally get to me then I say something I'm sorry for Happy Mylotting :-)

Well I think there is a day you seem feeling not good about yourself, cause I know I am not perfect and I commit mistakes cause I am just human, but I hate it when I don't do the right thing, like waking up in the morning and woke up in the other side of the bed, or waking up late and have to rush to work and when I arrived it's kind a late people looked at you and ask you why are you late. I hate it! I know I can't complain about I lack rest imagine that I work from 8 a.m. to 6 p.m. 6 times a week and it's really tiring. Reasons that I know my boss will not understand. Still even I' am very tired I feel sometimes terrible and I don't wanna commit a mistake. But I know I do my work well, and just comes a day when I feel that way. When I hate myself sometimes I still just think of improvements then sulking in just one corner. Have a nice day to you!

What is important is that when we are mad at ourselves we need to forgive ourselves as this does add stress the body via the nervous systems. As a Zen practitioner, I see this as important because when we have an awareness of another person, that awareness is part of our true Self, because true Self is our awareness. Whatever we resent, (self or other), is a form of attack. Love our Others as Self and Self as othes. . Derek

Any time I feel a strong emotion about myself or others I look for the reason and the lessons. This works for both good and bad emotions. I don't blame, I look for reasons.

Yes, sometime things what we do causes us to hate ourselves. I don't know about others but when I do something wrong then I hate myself that I could have done it in a right way. I lost my job last year and I was gettting offers from my last to last company with a handsome sallary but I didn't say yes to that and now I am repenting because I am yet jobless. That was the decision which causes me to hate myself till date.

Yeah!Sometime i do stupid stuff or say thing i regret later.I don't like myself very much when i'm in a bad mood and i make everyone misserable around me,of course i don't do it on purpose but it happen.That's when i don't like ME!!

Hi and hello! ^_^ Yep! I do hate myself sometimes. I blame myself especially when me and my boyfriend argue some stupid things. T_T

i never hate myself.just regreted what i did sometimes.i used to comfort myself if i did something wrong.you are so kind to others,that not means you need to hate yourself.we always try to be right in our life.Be happy ,my friend.

Yes, I do hate myself sometimes. Especially when I make really stupid mistakes, or stupid decisions. Otherwise, I like who I am. I'm not perfect, but who is, really? I just try to be as good of a person as I can.

I would say that I was disappointed with myself, sometimes, when I do dumb things. I still love me, unconditionally. I think I do some things more out of passion, without thinking on how it will turn out. I have gotten better, but sometimes I still do dumb things.

ya sometimes when i behave badly i feel bad of myself . I hate my self when i do things wrongly without knowing anything ahen i am lazy to do anythings i can keep on saying manyu things but i to love my self i would like to be different from others

unfortunitley, yes. Sometimes I just do something dumb and regret it two seconds later. I have really bad self control.

I never hate myself (not good for me overall), but I do dislike things I do. Sometimes I even hate wrong actions. Those are the ones that I would most like to get rid of first.