Do you believe in Love at first sight?
By sweetyethot
@sweetyethot (1737)
China
March 2, 2009 6:19pm CST
Believe it or not,I've beening waiting for my prince to turn up.I hope I could recognize him the moment I meet him,and so does he.lol.I believe that all of us have our heaven_ made partner but we never know who he is till we meet.Its not easy for us to find our lifelong partner.Its hard for me to love a guy who doesnt attract me at first.What do you think?
7 responses
@ankit_620 (496)
• India
6 Mar 09
no i don't believe in love at first sight. It is just not true... I can only believe in lust at first sight. And for those people who say that they fell in love with a guy or a gal at first sight....that's not what they mean.
They just want to get into their pants
@sweetyethot (1737)
• China
7 Mar 09
Hi,there,I dont agree with you on that.Physical attraction plays a leading part in love.Lust at first sight is different from love at first sight.I mean lust is a part of love.What do you think?
@GADHISUNU (2162)
• India
6 Mar 09
Well I must confess it hasn't happened to me but I have seen it happen in close proximity, to me: I mean in my office.Now and once or twice before too, they who had since lived together and then married, have come close to calling it quits. In the earlier occasion and may be even now well-wishers are trying for rapprochement between the couple. All this makes "Love at First Sight" rather a suspect in a skeptic's eyes. I am not discouraging you, but please keep your head on your shoulders when choosing someone for life.
In my own life what occurred cannot definitely be called"Love at First Sight" but there was this girl, who I do not why I let her linger on in my mind, then in dreams, and before long she had become an obsession. There are several times I thought I should have held the reins of my heart, but a heart-break was perhaps a Karmic account-settlement I needed to go through, I surmise now,in retrospect. Well, that first bowling over was not meant to be, and I have settled with someone in the most traditional way, that we Indians get hooked.
Anyway I wish you all the best that you find your love at first sight as you feel strongly for this way of entry of your Prince Charming, but find him in a surefooted manner.
@sweetyethot (1737)
• China
7 Mar 09
Thanks for your kind reminding,my dear friend.I will surely be careful while choosing my life partner.Have a good day.
@max1950 (2306)
• United States
6 Mar 09
it might not be a white horse, maybe a wave runner at the beach or just a look at a traffic light, it dosen't take much and you'll know and dont be affraid to talk to him, if you have any thoughts he might be a sleeze ask your friends they want whats best for you and i'm sure they'll be ready to let you know in a second.
@max1950 (2306)
• United States
3 Mar 09
maybe lust at first, site but you only meet that special person once in life and sometimes it take's a long time. trial and error but you'll know him when you see him . you know how somtimes thing's get clumsy or whatever, but if you truly know that he is the one dont let some little argument get in the way. i got married oh in 69 ,1969 dont get smart young lady im not that old , hahahah, things didnt work out and got divorced in 6 years and although we still see each other often, she's remarried to a really great guy. we were talking at my daughters at christmas a couple years ago and decided we should have tried to make it work but we were young very young, but hey she's happy , i'm happy, the kids that are in their 30's are fine, but i only had that feeling once in 59 years.
@sweetyethot (1737)
• China
6 Mar 09
Thanks for your sharing.How is that feeling?I never been in a marriage and never been in love exactly.Isnt that sad?I dont know what love really is.Well,I do have someone in mind but thats not going to work out.Im ok.I'll just be the best of myself and ready to meet my prince at anytime.lol Have a good day.
@kevsgirlalways (5883)
• Malaysia
4 Mar 09
I guess it depends on each person, though no doubt most people think that love at first sight is actually lust at first sight. Sometimes when we see someone for the first time, we get giddy and stuff, like the way we are when we are in love. and some people automatically hit off with each other and they think that it's love. a lot of things can happen which people might regard as love at first sight, but we probably won't even know if it's true or not, until we've experienced it ourselves. I do believe in love at first sight though, nothing's impossible;)
@sweetyethot (1737)
• China
6 Mar 09
Thanks for your support.I learn later from one of mylotters that physical attraction may plays a leading part in "love at first sight".Another mylotter told me his own love story which is so "love at first sight".Well,people have different views.
@journey314207 (171)
• United States
3 Mar 09
I am not saying No or Yes but love in first sight for me is just a infatuation that you felt in the first sight but love was started in infatuation too. I guess its depends how you felt the person that time you saw him/her. Love is find out more when you getting to know more the person and stay together always.
@sweetyethot (1737)
• China
6 Mar 09
Infatuation arouse your curiosity in the person and leads to love eventually.I love the word_ infatuation.Thanks for your response.May love around you.
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3 Mar 09
One really needs 4 key elements in a soul mate. Physical attraction (chemistry), emotional connection, mind connection (intellectual stimulation) and spiritual connection. With these four elements in place, one can have a deep, meaningful and lasting relationship.
To find a life long partner, one has to focus on what one wants, not on what one doesn;t want. Get rid of old perceived limitations around love and relationship, and then open your heart to love.
In a nutshell, love is easy to find when you open yourself up to it. I should know i have taught hundreds of people in my seminars and coaching.
May the love be with you!
Maxine
@sweetyethot (1737)
• China
6 Mar 09
HI,friend,(Does your username tell your job? )Thanks for much for your bright idea.Focus on what one wants ,but not what one doesnt want.Great!That makes sense.I dont think its easy to have all these four elements in place in one person.Have a good day!