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secretsofdatingcoach @secretsofdatingcoach (19) 12 Mar 09

What would you like to do on a first date? Do you want to make the decision as a couple or do you want to be surprised. Do you have certain expectations from your date? and if so, what are they? What would be the worst thing that...

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secretsofdatingcoach thanks Angel.

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secretsofdatingcoach @secretsofdatingcoach (19) 12 Mar 09

What would you like to do on a first date? Do you want to make the decision as a couple or do you want to be surprised. Do you have certain expectations from your date? and if so, what are they? What would be the worst thing that...

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secretsofdatingcoach thanks for your comment. Its amazing how we put so much effort to making the beginning exciting. I think the same is for men and women that after a period of time we make less effort. I agree for someone to be totally present with you, is more important than...

14 Mar 09

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 12 Mar 09

It is the main question here. To my opinion, arranged marriage is something where all the stage is set for you to get married. There is necessarily nothing you can do to fall in love and then marry the person. I know many are not...

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secretsofdatingcoach From the people I have spoken to there seems to be a lot of success in arranged marriages, and that true love does happen. Especially where the individuals concerned believe in the arrange marriage process.

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secretsofdatingcoach @secretsofdatingcoach (19) 12 Mar 09

What would you like to do on a first date? Do you want to make the decision as a couple or do you want to be surprised. Do you have certain expectations from your date? and if so, what are they? What would be the worst thing that...

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secretsofdatingcoach @secretsofdatingcoach (19) 10 Mar 09

I am doing some research for a new book and I am enquiring to what women are really looking for in a relationship with a man in today's world. Are you looking for equality? ie do you want him to help around the house, do you...

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secretsofdatingcoach Thanks so much. Do you think there is a part of you that wants the man to take care of you?

12 Mar 09

secretsofdatingcoach @secretsofdatingcoach (19) 10 Mar 09

I am doing some research for a new book and I am enquiring to what women are really looking for in a relationship with a man in today's world. Are you looking for equality? ie do you want him to help around the house, do you...

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secretsofdatingcoach Thanks so much for your comment. I do understand how you feel, and I think that is quite a common desire for alot of women with children. Can I ask you, do you come from a background where your mother stayed at home with the children or was your background...

12 Mar 09

sxrxnrr45601 @sxrxnrr45601 (1171) • United States 10 Mar 09

Is it common to fall in and out of love with the person your with I know there have been times when I have doubted my love for my b/f but it always seems very short lived I love him very much it just that some of the things he...

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secretsofdatingcoach Yes, I do think this is common. Relationships are like a mirror, often the thing we do not like in the other person, is an aspect of ourself that they are reflecting back to us. In other words, its something in yourself that you disown. For example, you might...

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gemmoney87 @gemmoney87 (211) • Vietnam 9 Mar 09

Falling in love is not something so easy. Once day, that lover is far away. That unrequited love broken into thousand pieces. Suddenly finding it hard to be able to love again. Meeting a lot of people just to realize the hole in...

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secretsofdatingcoach You seem to write very poetically. In order to create new love one must open ones heart up to love. If you are experiencing pain then its best to see a coach or someone who can help you move through the pain. The key to any emotion is not to live there for too...

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singlemommy @singlemommy (2955) • United States 7 Mar 09

Well, the other day I told you, no more FedEx Guy Discussions, well, I'm fixing to start another one, so I'm sorry everyone, but I LIED! I didn't mean to lie, I really was dead set on not writing another discussion about him, but...

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secretsofdatingcoach Dearest Singlemommy, there is a movie out, "He's just not in to you", there is also a book with the same name. If you polled 100 guys, and asked them "if you are into a girl, what would you do?" the honest ones would say " call her," "ring her" "ask her out"...

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secretsofdatingcoach @secretsofdatingcoach (19) 10 Mar 09

I am doing some research for a new book and I am enquiring to what women are really looking for in a relationship with a man in today's world. Are you looking for equality? ie do you want him to help around the house, do you...

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Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

I have been married to my husband who was my high school sweetheart, for 14 years. Over those years, we have had plenty of ups and downs. We have gotten through them all, but one of the problems that i find i am still struggling...

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secretsofdatingcoach It's a pleasure, I will be posting a video on Utube with an exercise to eliminate fear, its very powerful. I will let you know when the video is up. Remember to focus on what you want. Have a fabulous day Maxine

3 Mar 09

Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

Over the years I have heard a lot of my friends tell their significant other "I love you, but I'm not in love with you". Maybe I am just Naive, but what does that even mean! Really what is the difference? I would love to know...

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secretsofdatingcoach Hi again, Well, I have this belief that people dont really "fall in love", perhaps they do unconsciously. What really happens when that feeling comes over us, is that on some level, usually unconsciously we are "open to receive love" and when our hearts are...

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sweetyethot @sweetyethot (1737) • China 2 Mar 09

Believe it or not,I've beening waiting for my prince to turn up.I hope I could recognize him the moment I meet him,and so does he.lol.I believe that all of us have our heaven_ made partner but we never know who he is...

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secretsofdatingcoach One really needs 4 key elements in a soul mate. Physical attraction (chemistry), emotional connection, mind connection (intellectual stimulation) and spiritual connection. With these four elements in place, one can have a deep, meaningful and lasting...

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Archie0 @Archie0 (5652) 2 Mar 09

I am still in love with my guy who left me 3 years ago. he just went away and i still love him. still love him the same way i ever did to him. we broke 3 years ago we havent been in contact much from now, but whenever i hear a...

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secretsofdatingcoach You need to let go of the past and embrace the future. Life is for living, not waiting. I can definitely help you to move on with your life. check out my profile. All the best Maxine

2 Mar 09

Cillysophie @Cillysophie (327) • United States 2 Mar 09

You'll soon be moving across the country. A knowledgeable but somewhat shady acquaintance says that if you leave without paying your rent, telephone, fuel oil, or lighting bills, none of the companies involved will spend...

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secretsofdatingcoach The expression is "What goes around comes around". Things like that always come back to bite you in the bottom when you least expect it. We are all responsible for our actions. If you are having financial challenges then contact the companies involved and...

2 Mar 09

Rachelg @Rachelg (221) • United States 2 Mar 09

I have been married to my husband who was my high school sweetheart, for 14 years. Over those years, we have had plenty of ups and downs. We have gotten through them all, but one of the problems that i find i am still struggling...

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secretsofdatingcoach Hi there, We usually get what we focus on in life, and in fact it tends to expand. In addition, reality is usually the event of what we observe and focus. If you truly want to eliminate the lack of trust then you need to change your limiting beliefs. This...

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dpk262006 @dpk262006 (58676) • Delhi, India 2 Mar 09

Do not you think that we live our life mechanically? We get up everyday, do our regular chores, take bath and get ready for our work and reach at our work place. Make ourselves busy in the office work, take lunch in the lunch time...

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secretsofdatingcoach Great question! certainly, the key to life is awareness. I use alot of variety to eliminate the drugery of certain chores. I will use variety by using different routes when driving where possible, I also use travel time to listen to interesting cd programs...

2 Mar 09

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