First Date with a New Partner

March 12, 2009 8:15am CST
What would you like to do on a first date? Do you want to make the decision as a couple or do you want to be surprised. Do you have certain expectations from your date? and if so, what are they? What would be the worst thing that your dating partner could do?
2 responses
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
really? well then i wish you best of luck on your date! of course, who doesn't wanna be surprise. i think every girls wanted to be surprised. well, im not that type of person with so much expectations, because i dont wanna end up disappointed after all. all i want is just simple, it would be better if everything about him is natural and honest. anything that would ruined our date will be worst thing in our date. specially when he messes up with my dress. anyway happy mylotting and good luck!
14 Mar 09
thanks Angel.
• United States
12 Mar 09
I have been with my boyfriend almost two years. He has done some surpirsing when we first started dating and would bring me to some docks ( i live in florida) to walk along and be with eachother. Now it seems i make the decisions more often but it doesnt matter really to me. Last friday we were going out to Dinner but he didnt want to go to the same place as me but i ended up just doing what he wanted because it would be easier than just arguing. The worst thing that he could do is probably tell me he doesnt want to be with me any longer. Other things he could do is if he was supossed to pick me up and never showing up i think i would be so aggrevated. He probably would be sleeping knowing my boyfriend. I dont really have certain expectations when we are on a date, but just to be with me and not his cell phone the entire time, that does bug me.
14 Mar 09
thanks for your comment. Its amazing how we put so much effort to making the beginning exciting. I think the same is for men and women that after a period of time we make less effort. I agree for someone to be totally present with you, is more important than where you go or what you do.