Is there a right time to ask your girlfriend if she's still a virgin?

wow i think you are living in wrong century if you expect a woman to be a virgin just for you to marry ... and why do you say we all like virgins? trust me to make love to a woman who knows what she is doing is way better than a girl who fumbles around and needs to be taught.. anyway we all have our lives to live and the question should never be purity of body but purity of heart .. if she is not a virgin fine as long as you love her and she loves you and you trust and respect each other then you can't go wrong :)

I am a girl. Before answering your question or topic, I would like to ask some questions. Since you opened up or started this kind, I may assume that you are looking for female virgins. I am here in behalf of the females, i guess. The questions: If you are in a relationship and you think she is the girl of your dream and to be your wife, if you find out that she is no longer a virgin, what would you do? Is virginity a preference for you to marry a girl? Tell me? After that, I will answer your question.

Are you still a virgin? If you aren't you have no right to ask her about her status.

I can't blame you for wanting a virgin girl because you're a virgin yourself. So i salute you for that. Don't get me wrong ok? It would be great to have a virgin but as i grow older, my chances of getting a virgin is becoming slimmer. I don't. I'm not really after someone who is virgin. I just want to have someone who will love me sincerely. Which is equally as hard as looking for a virgin. Performance-wise, i want to go to bed with a non-virgin.

If you really love her,are you still care about her virgins?

First off I have to make my point clear: even if she's not a virgin, that doesn't mean that she doesn't love or respect you. It only means that she - hopefully - has loved and respected someone else before you came into her life, in other words, she might have a big and loving heart, Secondly, doesn't it matter in what manner she lost her virginity? I hope it was in the way stated above; that she slept with someone she truly loved. However, some girls - including me, I'm afraid - lose their virginity to rapists. It can't possibly be considered selfish to be raped, right? I think the most important thing is that your girlfriend loves you, and of course, that you love her back. Only then can you have a happy life together. Also, girls or women who are virgins will most likely tell you this as a way to get rid of some anxiety before the wedding night. If she doesn't say that she's a virgin, there's a possibility that she's not. But, as I said, that doesn't really matter. As long as you are faithful and honest to each other, it doesn't matter if she's loved someone else. The important thing is that she loves YOU now.

Yeah! right..My husband always asked me that question after we make love. What if the girl told you or answer you that she was not virgin anymore, does it matter? Or will you still propose to get married even if you find that kind of fact?

After reading the comments, I have to agree with those who said that virginity is not really important when it comes to relationships. If you truly love a person, you must accept whatever her past is and that includes her virginity. What if it was her own intention and what if she lost that by mistake? So what? We're just only humans and mistakes are very inevitable and it'll always be a part of our life. No one's perfect, you know.

for me, what's more important is that i get to be the last one to do it with her... though it still is something of the matter but i can live with it if i'm not the first... but when it comes to asking, there's no right time, there's just a time and expect a long awkward moment...