mylot responses

I have not been here very long to have a solid response, but if the person brings up a good point, I would keep on responding but not rudely, if it seems like a waste of time, I would just keep on going

Mikyoo12 Well everyone of us have our own point of views and personal opinions on different issues in life. Thus, when I receive a response that was not expected of others, harsh, rude or just short responses that I don't agree on, I respect his/her point of view. I have never ever feel upset when people leave harsh comments to my responses or discussions as I understand that not everbody will have the same opinions as the next person. That is what makes all of us individuals unique. Usually, I will just give these people a positive rating (+ve), thank them for their comments and well move on. How about you?

I have just started get bad responses form a discussion I started today. I'll ignore them and go on.The responses also made think! Mylot gets more confusing all the time! I'll never figure out Mylot! That is upseting!

I don't repond much, so I never get a harsh response. However, if my director gives me a bad response about my work, I'll feel very sad and won't have any motivation to do the work for some time. Anyway, I can recover from it in 2 or 3 hours, which means the pressure my boss gives me makes me more diligent.

I am not trying to start trouble on hear cause I just found this place so I dont want to be kicked off for being verbal or ignorant abusive. and give them a reason to boot me. I did recive one though but I just worded to wear I was not so rude but stated how I felt and my opinion therefore we are suppose to beable to state those freely on hear. I just think people shouldnt be so negative to one another if they got to say something change the wording to say it differently so that it wolnt be so down grating, harsh or hurtful.

HI Mikyoo,Why to be dissappointed by the harsh comments ,we all are here to express our views and and when we are doing so every one is welcome to comment or critsice on that views,if we feel happy by the good comments have the guts to accept the criticism also ,come on be brave and dont feel bad man.Everyone has the right to express his or her views we should respect others views.

yes i had got a rude response once and i really dont know why people do this and write it in a harsh way so that it hurts and at that time i was really disappointed and i had lost interest in mylotting and i didnt do it for about two days and then i thought about it and i felt that it is just a discussion and we all here have different ways of thinking and some may think positive and some in a negative way, so why taking it so seriously and from then i keep mylotting limited till i mylot and then just forget about it. from then if i like any discussion to respond then i do it orelse just leave and move on to other discussion instead of thinking and wasting my time and also my energy. even i would feel that the people have to understand this and respond the discussion if they like it if not just leave it and take all things sportively and here there is no one sitting to blame eachother or point eachother so why not just make discussions and try to make some money and enjoy instead of arguing and wasting time in writing harsh comments. dont you think so? most of the times people just dont like the comments done by others and or they just remove their frustation on mylot members whi respond to the discussions, i just think this way so that i dont hurt myself by getting any bad comments from others.

Getting a response on myLot is what makes the site what it is. Its a discussion site and everyone has their own point of view. I would not get upset at all if I got a response that was different from my own views. If someone was just being nasty for the sake of it I would question why they are on here in the first place. At the end of the day you have to respect everyones point of view.

It depends if the response makes sense or no, if yes, I will response what I think if not, I just ignore it and keep moving on.

Thank God till date i have not been given any rude or harsh response for my posts.But i will really feel bad if someone does not understand my point of view. I have joined another forum called noexpiry and responded to a post related to alertpay and paypal.I wrote that since i am new to online money making i have yet to confirm payments from alertpay.The next morning when i logged on to noexpiry,there i was being sent a warning by a member that my response was not of any use. I felt very hurt because i just wrote the truth and nothing else and through my response i wished if someone would guide me through it.I think the members should take their time to read the posts and write responses because someone is really curious and anxious to know what others have to say about his feelings,queries,tensions,thoughts and expressions.

When I first started, I was pretty surprised at how a lot of people were pretty rude here but now I don't come across any AT ALL. I guess I learned my way around it or it's not as surprising or offensive to me any longer.

If someone disagrees with me, then I don't get upset. I simply move on. But if I start a discussion and feel like I am being attacked by someone who doesn't know the whole situation, then yeah. I go on the defense. I won't necessarily write a nasty response back, but I will respond to them to inform them basically not to say something they know only part of. I will definitely clarify the situation. And it really makes me mad when I start a discussion and someone says something that has nothing to do with the question I ask. They don't even try to answer the question, they just give their opinion on something else that I have said. I think that if people are going to respond, then they need to thoroughly read the whole posting first. I could go on and on. Check out the discussions on my profile page. You'll see what I mean. LOL

I can't say that I get upset if someone posts a mean response to one of my discussions, but I've been pretty lucky, I guess, because I don't get too many rude people! I just move on to the next response, and mark the comment as negative, if it bothers me enough, or if it off the point of the topic presented. I say live and let live. It's a shame that there are those out there that would spoil all of our fun by being bitter!

yo do not need to be upset from my point of view, if he replies a good point, so it is ok, but if he or she write a nasty response , well just ignore it, and leave it to the admin to decide. Yo should never argue or response back harshly for that will scared others to join your discussions in future.Anybody agrees with my opinion?

I don't like to get rude responses but most the time I will just ignore them. I get more upset when people respond to my discussion when they have no clue on the subject. Like I will start a discussion about marriage and someone will respond "oh i'm not married but good luck with that". I think people should not get paid for responding like that to a discussion. I care enough to only answer discussions I have something to say about. It does bother me when people get attacked for the discussion they start. Not everyone is going to have the same opinion but that doesn't mean you should attack them if you don't agree with it.