Can a girl loves two boys at one time?

absolutely NO. being loved you have to take responsibility to the one who loves you,even you may not like her/him. you have to tell one of them your feeling,and make a decision.it's conscientious to do so for three of you. no love triangle. you are a lucky girl,and wish you find Mr.right.

Well you stated that you dont even know if you love your boyfriend. Just because some guy flatters you dont forget about what you have with your boyfriend. If your not happy with him break it off dont leave him hanging

yes. i very much think so. it happened to me a lot when i was very young. wow. im in the USA so i wonder about a company dormitory? this peaks my interest. where can i find out how that works?

If you are still thinking of these relationships in terms like "boys", "making me happy" "think I love him" at age 30, you have clearly spent too much of your life being a little girl! These are the questions a 14 year old struggles with, and an 18 year old has sored out long since. You can love a dozen men, and love them equally; and be loved by as many. But what you are talking about here is commitment, faithfulness and fulfillment. Get those ideas straightened out and the question of love will begin to fall into place. As to these two "boys": the way you describe them makes them sound equally immature OR like they are content to play on your naeivity for their own benefit.

Hi,i think yes a girl can love 2 boys at the same time.i don't see anything wrong in it.but i would suggest you to marry just one of them. try to find out with whom you are more comfortable.let the other boy be your boyfriend for rest of your life... i would suggest you to go for it...

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yes I fully believe a person can love more then one person at once. but then again im polyamorous.

dear Nancy, do you know what is love? Love comes from the heart and is not influenced by outer things like looks or other details which you have mentioned. You can only love once, all others are merely infatuation.When you love someone you put all your trust and faith in him or her completely. You can never be or even think of being seperated. Your love ,if it is true love has to be unconditional and one-centered,ie no matter who or what comes in between your love will be unshakeable. If you truly love your first boyfriend then you can never think of leaving him no matter who comes inbetween. The very fact that you have started to get attracted to the 2nd man shows that your first love is not true and that you are not faithful or sincere to him. Think it over coolly and quietly and decide for yourself whether you really love your first friend or the 2nd man. If you decide to dump your 1st friend what guarantee can you give that a 3rd or even a 4th person will not come into your life? Hope this will open your eyes once and for all. God bless you.

As I read your discussion, you are in confused with your feelings between your boyfriend and this new guy. First, you have to examine your feelings for both of them before you decide. It can not be the two of them because it is unfair to them. Do not give in right away to temptation. Pay attention first to your heart and realized who between them really you love. Whatever decision you have, if you choose your boyfriend then keep distance to this new guy and look for any alternative to cut your communication and if you choose this new guy you have to tell your boyfriend. In that way you can get away from your conscience. But be sure that what ever decision you make, you will not regret it. I have a friend before that she broke up with his 4 years boyfriend over this boylet who was our college friend but then after a year she found out that she still love her 4 years xbf but then he already married. It so sad right???? it was the chance for her to be happy in her life. So be happy that many likes you, pay attention with you but never give up your happiness. Good luck!!!

I think one girl cant love two boys at a time. Either you dont love the one that you said who is your boyfriend in your heart. If your love was true to the extend you could not even heard the new friends request. I think you are giving attention to the new friend means you have love in some corner of your heart. But just decide one thing that you clearly talk and end the relation with whom you should love.

I think there are some who can love more than one at a time. It can cause a lot of conflict, though. There are people who have relationships where there are more than just the two involved, and all of them are fine with it. I think you need to decide what you are looking for, and if this is good far all involved. There is a slight chance that your boyfriend and the other guy would not have a problem sharing you, but more than likely that is not the case. You should figure this out, before the feelings get too strong with both of them.

Yes I think that a girl can love two boys at one time and I believe that a person can love more then one person at the same time. I don't think that love was created as something that you feel towards just one person I think it's a term that means what you feel when you meet people that you love to hang out with and you're just attracted to your aurora.

it is hard to say.i knew some girls love two men in the same time.i was shocked that it could last for long time.in my case,i couldn't love two men in the same time.if i don't love a man ,i will stop and tell him.then i go for another relation.

choose the second guy, why? because if you really love your boyfriend, your not going to ask that kind of question, and your having a doubt about your feelings to your boyfriend.i hope you get my point. .

I don't agree if one girl love two boys at one times.because love henuine only one girls for one boys.if one girl love two boy could make problem between two boys.sometime could make between boys kiled

No ,I hope you could not get in touch with the other one and only love your boyfriend! You should remember who have appeared in the coldest days of your life! Who appear that time, who is really love you ,you should arrange yourself well!

Yes you can love two boys at the same time but you'll always love one of them more than the other. Eventually you will have to choose btween them because you can't serve two masters. You'll always end up loving one and hating the other.

hello..sounds you are a pretty or at least a sweet girl(^0^) two years is not a short time and as you indicated above your boyfirend loves very much so he can do everything to make you happy, thats you think you love too but you think the new coming boy posses sense of humor, romantic and he said him love you, do these kinds of thing does not happen in you boyfriend? or you realized this is fresh form a fresh man? and just think about it and do you need these fresh feelings only then you can pick up a more suitable one....good luck.

There's responsibility behind love,so I think you have to think over what is you really want and finally make a decision.Hesitation and pendulous will finally hurt three of you all.

i think you can, but maybe you don't make love with two of them at the same time!it'll be terrible!