Do you mind your spouse to be fat?

hi mermaidivy, No i do not like to fatty. I used to be fat but i am getting thin than before. Fat person has lots of problem in healths as well daily activity. So i suggest do not think to be fat. I already faced fat problem myself. Difficult to do casual job. Have a good friday

hello...my crystal also good at cooking and always cook lots of tasty food for us. i was getting fat soon at the first year and there are lots of fat meat on my belly and legs also,then after i was so fat so climb the ladders to the 4th floor. we realized that we should eat less meat and less food to shed the body, so she reduced the meat cooking and now i being slim again...good luck.

My gf and I are all very thin and I am very envious of the people who are strong, but my gf thinks she is very ok so it's unnecessary to lose weight! For the reason of what I said above, my gf and I do not mind each other become fatter and we have do lots of things to make this dream come trus, unluckly, both of us are still so thin even we have more foods, so bad! Can you give us some tips? By the way, I don't like to eat meat, I am a vegetarian!

well i can eat pretty much anything that would make a man fat in no time but i just seem to lose weight instead

Though I am not married yet, I will definitely not want my husband to be fat and obesitic. As I am just slim and trim, I would want him to be just like me. But I will definiy=tely want him to be a bit muscular!!

eat my partners is a very gourmet. exaggerating if i say so and i cook something less calories.

i don't mind whether my spouse would be fat or not, i keeps on loving her, but more fatty will be bad for her, it's health issue and we may come across problems in future, your tip is right, we must keep our health right, and maintain a good, clean and necessary meals, avoiding meat, fatty and sugar good. Don't mind one day you will be fat, Happy Mylotting

I would not mind a fat spouse. In fact, I like fat people. It is better to be fat than thin. I myself always wanted to be fat, but I never became fat, no matter how much I used to eat. I have started thinking that food has not got much to do with one's weight. Maybe it is just luck to become fat.

As wife and mom, I fully understand the feeling to make the best foof, so that my man and son can have enough energy and nutrition for their work and study. When I see them ill, I would blame myself for not caring them enough. But the issue is what we cook for them. There are many books about healthy food. We need to continue our learning to prepare the meals of balanced nutrition. I do not mind my spouse is fat, but too fat is no good for heart and blood pressure. I did not realize it until about I was fifty. More fish and vegetables are much better, both for adults and children.

I am still single, i dont have a husband yet but i want to share my opinion in this discussion. . My boyfriend always tell me he doesnt care if i am fat or not, he told he still like me no matter what happen. its just that he worries about health, so when i was gaining weight than my normal weight he reminded me to take care of my health. I am not so slim woman, i have meat in my bones but i am in good shape now. I dont want to be so slim, i just want to be healthy. my boyfriend is supportive while i was losing weight, he even recommended exercises for toning body, and also how to fight stress because we both know it was the main factor why i gained so much weight last year 2006 and 2007. 2008 was a good start - i already lose pounds and i feel so great.I talk to my boyfriend about how i feel and i am glad he is always there, fat girl or not, he was very supportive. Happy mylotting! Hugs to all !

I'm not perfect by any means. I should lose a few - well more than a few - pounds myself. But I have someone who loves me just the way I am and thinks I'm beautiful in every way. And I love him just the way he is. If he got a bit heavier I think I would get concerned just because it would be a health issue but other than that I'm attracted to him and I love him because of who he is, not what he looks like.

Oh please tell me your secret my dear friend, i am just like you wanting my husband to gain weight. He is really thin and tall. I do the cooking since I'm a stay at home wife. Whenever i cook something, he will finish it, he is not choosy, but i need to get him eat more. It is like his stomach size is with a limit, that if it is full, he cannot continue eating more. I have fruits and sweet for dessert too. So that would be additional to his calorie intake. I don't mind my spouse to get fatty. I just wanted him to gain more weight. If there are some secrets or tips you can share me on how your man increased in size/ gained weight, i will be delighted to hear your reply. Happy Mylotting!

hi lotter being fatty and being healthy are two very different things dear .so try to make him healthy and not fatty,anyways we love our spouse no matter fatty or skinny.

Actually I dont care he is fat or not at all,but not too fat.You are a good wife to keep your husband healthy.

I would mind if my spouse would be really fat but a few pound doesn't bother me... if he gets really fat... I will ask him to play tennis with me :)

I don't mind a little fatty tissue but this big kind of heavy thing is not really my stuff. I know lots of nice girls who are heavyweights and I did have things with them but later decided to end it. I guess I'm not a fatty person but a little flesh is not bad.

Wowo, I admire you so much coz I either me or bf can cook some good stuff to eat and when we are together, we just eat outside and we are tired of that. So I am thinking about learning how to cook. I think it's important for our future life coz it's healthy to eat home. Actually bf will not mind if I get fat, lol, as I have asked him this question for many times and he says it's a silly question. But I don't want him to get too fat becasue it's bad for health. He dosen't like eating meat or sweet but I do. I think the possiblility of getting fat is bigger than him. Anyway, keep fit is very important!

you are a good cooker and wife. you husband must very love you and like your cooking. so he eats more and get normal shape. i think you must keep his love and cook well for him. you think fat or love, which do you choose? certainly love is important, isn't it?

I wouldn't want him to be fat and he doesn't want me to be fat either lol. I don't have anything against fat people, but I think it is more healthy not to be fat and it also improves your flexibility. I have no problems telling my spouse to start working out. He is a fit person so I don't think I would have to say it to him anyway. He is also quite open to it and we really don't have any problem in giving our opinions to each other as we know it is for the better.

I think not mind at all,but,if she neglect her health,i will give her warning,also make some changes in diet,such as low fat and low sugar.we must be a healthy person.