do you like test from your lover or friend?

well lemme tell you something.... a true friend is one who has complete trust in you and he never has to test you for anything....and about this online friendship thing....i dont have much faith in this.....what i think is that person just wanted to know something from you.....you dint want to answer it so he turned the topic by saying that he was just testing you....i dont think that was a truth he said.....and anyways i dont think you shpould date a person about whom you dont know anything.....but thats just my opinion.....rest u have to see for yourself

My guess is that this test involved something that was all out inapropriate and you would wonder if this would be something you would have to put up with for a long time! I don't think many women would be too mad about the test Davy Crokette pulled on his wife to be. He cut her apron string with a knife and when she calmly asked him why he did that, he said that he just wanted to be sure she was a woman of even temper before marrying her. That's pretty harmless test right there. But, I was with a guy once that was always hounding me about doing things I wasn't comfortable with and then, when I got mad, he would say it was just a test to make sure I was a good girl. But this went on so long that it's like... okay, if I haven't changed now, I don't think I will. And I was rather suspicious that he really wanted me to do those things but when I got mad would cover things up by saying it was only a test. In my opinion this is something you have to way carefully. Like if a guy says that he wants to buy a gaudy t-shirt for the future children and you say 'ewww! I would never put a child in that.' and he claims it's just a test, it could be. But if he asks you to do something that goes against your morals or personal boundries and tells you it's a test when you get mad... then I wouldn't think that is really a test, it sounds like he is covering for something that he really wanted to do!

I hate people who think it's awesome to test people. I feel if someone test somebody else it will almost all the time the results of that test will be negative; like the way you responded or the person could have figured out that they were being tested and give the favorable respons. If it's a lover testing another and they send someone to test their lover to see if they're love is going to cheat the person that they send may have feelings for the lover being tested anyway. In short I feel testing people will have a bad result because it has mistake about to happen all over it. Allow someone true colors to come out and it will and you will find out what type of person they are in due time

I don't like to play game's but try this out for fun..My now x-wife while I was dateing her told her father I wanted to talk to him about someting (I was ready to POP the question) he said ok let's talk he took my x and his wife sat us down at the table and said let's look at this folder it was my whole like and criedt rateing he said we also had someone tracking you for 3 month's LOL ... I of course passed that P I must have been bored I never did nothing LOL.. So when you meet people on line remember they will test you and even do all those check's on you whil;e useing the famous COMPUTER.. She is now my X if I knew then now after her and her dad playing game's I would have droped her so me I say DON'T PAY GAME'S WITH THIS PERSON BE REAL

I dont think he was testing you.He just conveyed his thoughts to you but in a different and safe way.If both of you are friends then there should not come a term like testing.He just said to you what he feels bout you,Ultimately final decision has to come from your side.

i don't think anyone should test the person he/she chooses to love. it is insulting and hurtful, on both parties. it just shows that the person doing the test is afraid to love, and hurting other people in the process. there are a lot of different kinds of tests, and you don't have to "proctor" them to verify that your partner is good for you.

I understand how you feel but sometimes you have to test your friend to find out how they feel about you and what they are willing to do for you .I know you feel hurt and the final decision is up to you but I wouldnt have totally written off this guy totally but like I said this is totally up to you.And since he apologised I think you should give him another try at least now he knows how you stand on that particular issue

It's not bad when someone tests you and it's right they want to know how mature you are, how strong you are, this don't mean like anything mad, it depends on people how they react to the situation, it looks strange, i can't say he wont test you again, i think you are serious when he said sorry to you, maybe this thing won't happen again in your life. Happy Mylotting

Nop! one thing only. If you are meant to be for sating let me know before and if just good friends let me know that too for I hate to be tasted or tested.

If he rude or make pornt to you,just forget about him.Good man only for good lady and good lady only for good man.Find the suitable man for you.

I've been tested in a relationship before, and the truth of the matter is that if someone has to test my loyalty or friendship is not deserving of my friendship. When I am someone's friend they would just automatically know that I would help them in any way that I can. It's not fair to be tested when you don't know about the test...like a pop quiz. Most of the time of you do the home work, you know the material, but if you don't..then you might be in trouble. Relationships are different though, and one should expect honesty and truth above all else.

i think it's normal that someone would test you. they just want to know how mature you are and how good you are in handling a situation. it also shows the kind of person that your made of.it's one way of knowing the kind of person that you are and if your the kind of person who will stick it out until the end.

I think your friends feelings where real for you but after being neglected from you,your friend thought that this might cause your friendship with you and then he gave up his feeling and told you that he tested you and if that happens than i think he will never test you again.