buggles64

@buggles64 (2709)

United States • Age 60

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Do you judge people on what they have done in the past or the way they are now?

mark98 @mark98 (567) • China 17 Feb 11

Its in some rare cases that a person has changed so what they have done in the past they are doing now. I judge them based on that. Sometimes the things done in the past were habits that just eat a person in the present whispering...

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buggles64 I would like to think I judge the person as they are now, but to be fair and honest, there are some individuals that I would have to agree to have a long distance relationship because of certain past habits.

17 Feb 11

If you drive a car...?

mark98 @mark98 (567) • China 17 Feb 11

Have you EVER driven impaired, at all? Have you ever text or used cellphone while driving? Have you ever broken Road Laws(speed,etc)?

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buggles64 No, yes, and yes. I do not make a habit of texting while driving, and never on the highway. I usually won't even answer my phone when it rings and I am driving...just being honest.

17 Feb 11

Do you read your horoscope?

mark98 @mark98 (567) • China 17 Feb 11

I like to read my horoscope. Sometimes it can give me the motivation I need to get through the week. Even though I know they never come true, sometimes it is nice to think, actually, this week is going to be different. If you...

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buggles64 I have read my horoscope yes, and I always get a kick out of the predictions. None of it ever comes true though, so it is mostly for something fun to do. I probably get more accomplished by having a positive mind-set rather than relying on the horoscope. Yes,...

17 Feb 11

Will a man ever ever understand the "depth" of a woman?

mark98 @mark98 (567) • China 17 Feb 11

you wonder why a woman is so emotional...you cannot understand her empathy...her love is in everything...she finds the good in everything...she feels so deeply and cannot hide it...yet a man can detach himself from emotional pain....

depth of a women

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buggles64 I believe that some men can understand the "emotional depth" of a woman if he too is sensitive. I don't believe all men are so detached from their "feminine side" that they don't know what it is to put their heart and soul into something that they truly care...

17 Feb 11

Why is it that even though everyone says they want peace, we have so much war?

mark98 @mark98 (567) • China 17 Feb 11

Why is it even though everyone says they want peace, we still fight with our neighbor? Do we really believe what we tell ourselves, or do we merely delude ourselves with our own words. What would be the cost of peace?

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buggles64 I think people have wars because they want power and control. Peace costs a lot of money, time and effort as well as knowledge. The people within the community want peace, the governments want control...say of oil, which is the main reason why we are at war.

17 Feb 11

What is the relationship of time to eternity, spiritually speaking of course?

mark98 @mark98 (567) • China 17 Feb 11

How is ti that what is timeless comes to experience time, that what is changeless experiences change, and what was extended in perfection comes to experience imperfection? why does human existence seem to be riddled with...

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buggles64 What? When I think of the word "timeless" I think of special occasions, anniversaries, weddings, etc... You do not know that something was imperfect unless you had actually achieved perfection. That my friend, is a paradox right there.

17 Feb 11

What do you think causes Autism?

mark98 @mark98 (567) • China 17 Feb 11

I just wondered if some of you have some other ideas about what causes it. Do you think it's a physical or mental problem?

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buggles64 Autism is a mental problem, it affects the child's brain. Autism is being diagnosed more often these days and more often than any other mental disorder. In the past most labels were "mentally handicapped" but now they have switched to "autism." I think...

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Are there fast ways to lose stomach fat in about 3 weeks?

mark98 @mark98 (567) • China 17 Feb 11

I just noticed that I have been getting a little fat around the stomach and butt and I want to be able to get it back to how it use to be quick. I don't want to have to buy those programs online. I just want an easy way to lose...

to lose stomach fat

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buggles64 I wish I knew. The one thing that I have heard over and over is that the abs are built in the kitchen, and not with hours of sit ups, ab twists and crunches, or v-sits, but a healthy diet and no stress. The fastest easiest way...is a tummy tuck (which is...

17 Feb 11

What do you think about this IDEA on MYLOT ????

Anirban Majumdar @sonaimajumdar (950) • India 17 Feb 11

From some days, a idea in clicking on my mind about mylot.Its just a suggestion type which i thought i will share with you people and hope admin would like it too.We all love this site a lot, earn ,socialize and do many other...

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buggles64 I believe this would actually improve the quality of discussions, as well as the participation. There are many discussions that are started, that should be deleted and many discussions that are deleted, that shouldn't be. I hope your idea is followed up on....

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should girls be allowed to join wrestling

tikbalang56 @tikbalang56 (195) • United States 17 Feb 11

i have no comment about it well i was reading news about boy vs girl in a wrestling match in Iowa the boy decided not wrestle with a girl so the boy forefeited and the girl was declared winner by default

wrestling match girl vs boy

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buggles64 I think a girl should be allowed to do anything she wants to do. There are a lot of female bodybuilders out there that are big and strong, and would do great in contact sports like football and wrestling. This of course, is NOT something that I am interested...

17 Feb 11

Just let me sleep

MagicalBubbles @MagicalBubbles (5103) • Canada 17 Feb 11

Lately I feel as if I could sleep for days. Hubby says its the end of winter and its normal. I wake up tired and then when I get to bed at night, Im so tired that I cant fall asleep. I toss and turn for a while before falling...

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buggles64 I am like this all the time, no matter how much sleep I get or don't get. I never feel well rested. The only thing that I know of that helps with sleep, is de-stressing, and a proper diet and diet.

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Master of the small talk

bounce58 @bounce58 (17385) • Canada 16 Feb 11

If you were on a date, are you comfortable making small talk? I work in a union-shop where management staff get people on the floor to do things to keep the company going. Even though it is the rank-and-file’s job to the...

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buggles64 I am good "making small talk", but i hardly refer to myself as a "master" of small talk. It is important to be able to talk to people in different situations.

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Have you ever woke up from a nap feeling worse?

mark98 @mark98 (567) • China 15 Feb 11

All the time? I don't think I've ever waken up from a nap feeling any better (which is why I try to avoid them). I think it has something to do with REM sleep (Rapid Eye Movement). Supposedly, it takes a while for you to actually...

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buggles64 I traditionally do not take naps..very seldom have I ever taken a nap. I have tried to get a quick nap in the afternoon, but it just never worked for me. Apparently, those little "cat naps" are suppose to be energizing, but I can't help but think they would...

16 Feb 11

What makes someone a failure?

mark98 @mark98 (567) • China 15 Feb 11

No one is a failure, unless they allow themselves to become a failure. They also cannot be failures, unless they themselves see themselves as failures. People who are unwilling to learn from mistakes, who are stuck on the past,...

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buggles64 Of course, I agree with this statement. We all have the potential to be the best we can be, but I also believe that sometimes we have to fail first before we can succeed, but just because we have failed doesn't mean we should give up. I always like to use...

16 Feb 11

The smoking ban. What do you think?

mark98 @mark98 (567) • China 15 Feb 11

With the ban soon to come into force, do you think that it will be self regulating, or are we likely to see continual news stories about fines issued to people who have been caught smoking in public places?

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buggles64 Given the increased signs of allergies and asthma, I think the smoking ban is a great idea. Smoking related illnesses, do not affect only those that smoke, but everyone they come into contact with. For me, I look at it like pollution. We try so hard to keep...

16 Feb 11

How do you deal with the deepest sadness...?

mark98 @mark98 (567) • China 15 Feb 11

How do you deal with the deepest sadness and how do you help to cheer others who are going through a sadness that is unthinkable?

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buggles64 Everyone gets depressed or has been depressed. Depression that lasts and never goes away needs to be treated by a physician, so I wouldn't be of any help to that person...all I would do is suggest they see a Dr. If my friend is feeling down, and in the...

16 Feb 11

Do you need an alarm clock to wake you in the morning?

mark98 @mark98 (567) • China 15 Feb 11

I usually wake up after exactly 7 hours, but if I have somewhere I have to go at a specific time in the morning I'll go ahead and set my alarm...just in case.

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buggles64 I have an internal body clock, which keeps me up all the time. I was awake this morning at three. I couldn't fall back asleep, so I got up at four, made the coffee and took a shower. When I know I have to be somewhere and someone is relying on me to be there,...

16 Feb 11