who will you choose the one you love or the one who loves you???

@ryaj21 (208)
Philippines
March 10, 2009 8:21am CST
well ive been in that situation even now im confused of who will i choose the one who loves me or the one i love..i want to be secured i want to choose the right girl for me..pls help me decide..thanks guys for helping me i know you are always there...
7 responses
@rirbry (353)
• Malaysia
10 Mar 09
you better choose the one who loves you, its really hard to find someone who love us most, if you choose the one you love i'm afraid you might get hurt someday, because someone who loves us the most will treasure us the most, unlikely the one we loves the most and they will think if they do anything wrong, nothing will happen to them because of the love... do think twice =0
• India
10 Mar 09
Hi,I also believe what you said. It is really hard to get such a person who loves you and it is much more harder to get such a boy. This is because girls can relied more than a boy.
@ryaj21 (208)
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
i agree to you... because i know youll be safe in the person who loves you..right??
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
10 Mar 09
I think if ever you follow your heart. What is important you felt love then not having love at all. What will make you smile, and what will make your heart melts? What counts in a relationship is you both love each other, not only her that loves you. How would a relationship works if only one love. Even in a relationship you can't work it out things if only one it's always both. Good night!
@ryaj21 (208)
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
for me the important thing is not to be hurt so if somebody loves you it is a guarantee that she will never hurt you and in return you dont have to hurt her too..
@myhllim (272)
• Malaysia
12 Mar 09
I would choose the one who loves me. I believe I will get touched by the love and will love him much much more later.
@lighten (30)
• Malaysia
10 Mar 09
Hi ryaj, If you chose the one you love, what happen when you don't love her anymore and what happen if she don't love you at all. If you chose the one who loves you even though you don't love her at first but you can always learn to love her. The one you love will always trying to find the reason to love you back, back the one who loves you will always love you till the end.
• India
10 Mar 09
I personally think that one should choose the person who loves him and not the one whom you love.
• United States
10 Mar 09
In the end, you will always choose the one that you love. But so much more goes into making a relationship work. It is a partnership, and you need to know what you want, and want out of life, and will they be there with you and for you, as well as you them. You sound quite young, so you will go through many infatuations and relationships, before you find THE ONE, all along learning about yourself.
@ryaj21 (208)
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
actually im just 21 still more to go eheh but i guess in the end of the day the important thing is you are both happy but for me i cant risk my feelings wings..so ill go for the one who loves me...
• India
10 Mar 09
i choose the one who love me because that person never leave me alone in my life