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MichGurl @MichGurl (144) • United States 12 Mar 09

I've been dealing with quite a bit of stress in my life and it seems like my so-called friends are dropping like flies which makes me wonder if they were ever friends to begin with or if perhaps they were simply...

acquaintance

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relationships

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searchingwithin I'm curious as to whether they were your friends before the marriage, or both you and your spouses friends. Sadly, when a marriage splits up, so many people will choose one over the other. In my opinion, as far as the one talking behind your back, they...

12 Mar 09

ryaj21 @ryaj21 (208) • Philippines 12 Mar 09

what do you think guys you have been inlove i know so does it change you as a person???....

love

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searchingwithin I believe everyone in our lives changes us in some way, especially those that we love.

12 Mar 09

MichGurl @MichGurl (144) • United States 12 Mar 09

I've been dealing with quite a bit of stress in my life and it seems like my so-called friends are dropping like flies which makes me wonder if they were ever friends to begin with or if perhaps they were simply...

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searchingwithin The acquaintances will drop off, the true friends will not. Just be glad you have been given the opportunity to know the difference. I just hope that you have not become a toxic friend yourself, through this.

12 Mar 09

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lucy67 @lucy67 (819) • China 12 Mar 09

You have got married and you love your husband though the love is not as deep as it used to be. Now you find another man very attractive to you. You find life more beautiful just because of his existence. You won't get divorced...

extramarital love

feeling

love

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searchingwithin I believe that we choose a partner and a relationship based on our perceived needs, wants and desires. When we consider stepping out, or do step out, it comes from a different place, it comes from a perceived lack. You need to figure out what you feel you...

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indigo2385 @indigo2385 (44) • United States 12 Mar 09

Can someone no matter who they are, go through life without ever having any friends to share atleast some of their time with?

freind

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searchingwithin Love and connection is one of the basic human emotional needs. It is said, from the moment the physical connection from our Mothers at birth is severed, we spend the rest of our lives seeking to be re-connected. How we go about this need and desire, becomes...

12 Mar 09

searchingwithin @searchingwithin (31) • United States 12 Mar 09

I joined Mylot several days ago, and submitted my blog RSS, which has not been approved yet. How long does it take for admin to approve your blog?

agmamayo @agmamayo (804) • Philippines 12 Mar 09

Most families share beds together especially when their child is still young, however there are some who opt no to.Speak out your minds on why you let your kids sleep-share with you- or why you choose not to- and why do you think...

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searchingwithin No, I do not believe a child should sleep with their parents, in part because of the dependency reason, but also for the privacy of the parents. I never allowed my son to sleep with us when he was growing up. If he had a bad dream, I went to his room and...

12 Mar 09

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twistedangellinda @twistedangellinda (174) • United States 12 Mar 09

Hi everyone! The day before yesterday I had my first job interview ever. Are there any clues that would tell me the interview went good or bad? I was very prepared for the interview. I was dressed appropriately, I had my resume...

first job interview

job interview

resume and cover letter

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searchingwithin Sounds like you had your bases covered, and was very prepared. This is unusual in this day and age. What does your gut tell you? That is where your answer lies.

12 Mar 09

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xXxRashEeD @xXxRashEeD (305) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

Are there cases that you can still live with your ex? Or should you move out from the time you're not inlove with your partner anymore? If you still love your ex, and you still want to live with that person.. would you risk the...

living with an ex

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searchingwithin You are only asking for heartache by still living with an ex. It would be an attempt at holding on to what is already gone. Start your own life, do what you love, and learn from whatever mistakes you may have made. It would be self inflicted pain, and you...

11 Mar 09

rocko5150 @rocko5150 (62) • United States 5 Feb 09

I had a friend who is bipolar and well we at one point were good friends i thought until she changed and started telling people my business and well i forgave her and still she did it again and again and well i am done dealing...

friendships

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searchingwithin Only you can decide. As for myself, I choose friends who respect me, have similar values, and who make me feel good about myself. If you can't trust someone, why would you want them in your life?

11 Mar 09

searchingwithin @searchingwithin (31) • United States 10 Mar 09

I was reading an article today written by a fellow blogger, "The Eyes Have It" http://miamilf.blogspot.com/2009/03/eyes-have-it.html, and she stated that out of all the senses, that we rely most heavily on sight; flirt, attract,...

eyes

senses

touch

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searchingwithin A sunrise and sunset is one of my most favorite things, that along with water. It would be horrible to never see either again. How about a smile? So many things.

10 Mar 09

searchingwithin @searchingwithin (31) • United States 10 Mar 09

I was reading an article today written by a fellow blogger, "The Eyes Have It" http://miamilf.blogspot.com/2009/03/eyes-have-it.html, and she stated that out of all the senses, that we rely most heavily on sight; flirt, attract,...

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searchingwithin Sight, touch and hearing would all be hard. We all forgot about s*x also. Hmm

10 Mar 09

searchingwithin @searchingwithin (31) • United States 10 Mar 09

I was reading an article today written by a fellow blogger, "The Eyes Have It" http://miamilf.blogspot.com/2009/03/eyes-have-it.html, and she stated that out of all the senses, that we rely most heavily on sight; flirt, attract,...

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searchingwithin Aw, the sound of a child and music, however, both are music. That would be tough.

10 Mar 09

searchingwithin @searchingwithin (31) • United States 10 Mar 09

I was reading an article today written by a fellow blogger, "The Eyes Have It" http://miamilf.blogspot.com/2009/03/eyes-have-it.html, and she stated that out of all the senses, that we rely most heavily on sight; flirt, attract,...

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searchingwithin There certainly would be so much to miss out on without sight, you are right, and it would be hard to live in darkness all the time.

10 Mar 09

searchingwithin @searchingwithin (31) • United States 10 Mar 09

I was reading an article today written by a fellow blogger, "The Eyes Have It" http://miamilf.blogspot.com/2009/03/eyes-have-it.html, and she stated that out of all the senses, that we rely most heavily on sight; flirt, attract,...

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liaamur @liaamur (417) • Philippines 10 Mar 09

i am surrounded by married people getting separated, and divorce has quite become handy nowadays. however, just when i distrust true love there comes an example of a lasting one--someone celebrating their 32nd (happy) anniversary,...

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searchingwithin I have gone down the living together route, and never again. Marriage, to me, is total commitment to your partner and your relationship, and a declaration to the World that you have chosen that person as your lifelong partner, and they are no longer game in...

10 Mar 09

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searchingwithin @searchingwithin (31) • United States 10 Mar 09

I have two blogs, and would like to know if the following is possible. What I would like to do is set up both blogs to appear to be the same, as far as template, so that each subject matter has its own sidebar content (ads,...

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