where is my shoulder?

when people used to see you as a tough one, it really hard to find someone to cry on.. but your bestfriend will help you with this hard times.. invite him/her for coffee or have movie marathon day at your place.. it the only place where you can bond and the focus of your friend will be at you and your thoughts in life. enjoy a day wth your friend! :D

If you are really upset about something, no matter how small it is, no one should laugh at you. What may seem small to someone else can be monumental to you, and vice versa. To have a shoulder to cry on when you need it, the best thing to do is to be there for others when they need someone. If you are a good and loyal friend to others, they will be the same for you when you need it. If they laugh at you, they are not true friends. I hope you find peace with whatever is bothering you!

A true friend on whom u can trust. But u can only share problems. The problems of life should be faced by us alone, so u be bold enough and smart enough to handle it. +ve thinking and smile on face will always help u, to b the best.

hi there, ushassu.. think. your shoulders are located below your ears. before finding for another set of shoulders to lean on, cry on, how about trying to use your ears first? listen and silent have the same letters in them. sometimes, we just have to keep silent and listen to God, assuring us of His promise: "'For I know the plans I have for you,' declares the LORD, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then your will call upon Me and come and pray to Me, and I will listen to you. You will seek Me and find Me when you seek Me with all your heart." - Jeremiah 29:11-13 no worries, ushassu.. the hotline to Heaven is never busy. it is open 24/7, anytime, anywhere. just dial 1-4-3-J-E-S-U-S and He will come to your rescue a whole lot faster than 911. happy myLotting!

Stuffing down suffering is where emotional baggage comes from. Your friends are there to express your emotions, shortcomings, as well as your joys and successes. If they are not there for you to be genuine with, then they are not your friends, only acquaintances. If your friends are there for you, and you still do not confide in them, then you need to ask yourself why, and deal with the fear of being yourself.