Is it important to loss your virginity with someone you love?

Philippines
March 11, 2009 3:54am CST
I am twenty-four years old, turning twenty-five this coming May 2009 and I do not even have a first kiss yet. I am hoping that I will experience it soon for I might get turn thirty and still a virgin. Leaving here in the City would definitely pressure my love life. The funny thing and the truth is I am still a virgin and not all are convinced that I am. But is it really important to virginity with someone you love?
5 responses
jane9147
@jane9147 (252)
• Philippines
19 Mar 09
i think it's the next best thing you can give the person you. first is love. i'm only 18 and i know that there's more ahead of me, but i decided to only give it to the one i love. ... after we get married. if we don't end up with each other when i already gave it to him, i'll get a life but maybe without a love life. yeah, that's why i'm being careful with dealing with guys..
jralivio511
@jralivio511 (480)
• Philippines
19 Mar 09
You are right. You really have to keep your virginity until you're married. Most teenagers in your age wasn't able to fight the temptation. Hope you keep yours. Take Care.
jane9147
@jane9147 (252)
• Philippines
19 Mar 09
yeah yeah. thanks! and besides losing your virginity without being married is a big no no here in the Philippines. culture aside, it's my own decision because i want my future husband to be happy with that gift. i believe it will make him happy (aside from the love i will give him) if he's the first.
yyc4220
@yyc4220 (43)
• China
13 Mar 09
As a man from China, I consider it very important whether the women is a virgin who I marry with. To some one, maybe it is not very important. They only pay more attentiong to the action of his wife after marriage. Different country different culture, different person different thought. I think you needn't worry about it. Don't hurry to be convinced. Once you're convinced there will be no second chance to be convinced again. The only chance is very precious to you and your first man, if he value it.
jralivio511
@jralivio511 (480)
• Philippines
13 Mar 09
As a man you said that it is very important that your wife to be is still virgin before your marriage. As a woman, most say that virginity would be our greatest gift to our husband to be. As a man, is it important for you to keep your virginity before you get married?
yyc4220
@yyc4220 (43)
• China
13 Mar 09
That's a very good question which is easy to answer for me. So far, my wife is my first one and only one. Frankly speaking, I can't be sure whether it is the record all my life. But I'll do my best to keep the record, day after day. That's OK.
Generis
@Generis (145)
• China
11 Mar 09
Hmm , It's important to keep your virginity ..
jralivio511
@jralivio511 (480)
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
thank you that. I will.
Anne19
@Anne19 (300)
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
I don't know. I think for us women, it's important that for such a precious thing we got to share it with someone special. However, nowadays it seems to have changed dramatically. Young ladies tends to give it freely.. I don't know... :)
jralivio511
@jralivio511 (480)
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
Yes you are right. Young ladies nowadays are like that. But our part is to keep to good values.
Nancy1987
@Nancy1987 (54)
• China
11 Mar 09
It's just different kind of concept.In china,it's quite important for a girl to keep her virginity but in those developed coutries people are not as conservative as here in china.To share this with the one you love is worth i think.But virgin or not ,i think it won't have influnence if your current boy friend love you very much.Everyone has his/her past.Therefore,I think it's just your choice.
jralivio511
@jralivio511 (480)
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
Different country, different culture. You're right. Here in the Philippines is the same. In my family, we have to get married first to do the sacred mating.