I would like to let rip but.....

im here to lisen ..... please post them... im your myLot buddy :D take care

HahahaI know how you feel exactly & what you mean!~ Thank God I have my wife here with me as when I see such nonsense & tell her she'll help calm me down & it goes both ways. Sometimes I'll just tell her to move on & forget it & don't waste her time & energy on such moronic crap. When you see such discussion, maybe you can find a few of your friends' discussions & talk silly? Haha!~Maybe that might help!~ If I'm around you can look for me or just PM me as well, hahaha

No I can't be bothered, if it makes me angry I shout at Mr Croc it takes less time. I used to post responses when things made me angry but now I don't think it's worthwhile and stay away from these discussions. I do think it's a good idea for some people to do as you did. It doesn't hurt others and helps you get rid of the anger.

No I always post my real thoughts and feelings. I may regret it later but who the hell cares? Not me I feel much better after letting it all hang out.

Oh God yes! There has been many a time where I'll type a few paragraphs that are nothing short of scathing and I'll then hurriedly delete them and start all over again. I don't know, but maybe this act in itself is therapeutic! I do know that I usually feel a little calmer after typing my rant out in words, even if I don't actually post it. (This was my 27th attempt at a response to this discussion by the way. I deleted the first 26)

Yes I have, quite a few times, sometimes I read discussions that make my blood boil but I never make a response on them I just fume about it instead. I have reacted once to a discussion about something and put my feelings down about it but then I just ended up with people telling me off so I wont do it again!!!

No - much to my detriment, I hit submit! This morning for instance, I have not been on much lately so I am zooming through discussions. But I am getting irritated and posting short (in both ways) answers.

Just tell me whose butt I need to kick, sugar. And yes, I think writing them down and then deleting them is a very good way to get the anger 'out', without causing world war three. I've done that too. Sometimes, although rarely, I'll let rip, but thank goodness those occasions are few and far between. I do hope you really are feeling calmer now, p1key. But I'll give you the opportunity to rant a bit later, if you still feel angry, ok? xxx

Sometimes I will start to reply because someone has angered me but I usually don't hit the "submit" button. My rule is that if I'm responding to something in anger, I must get up and walk away from the computer for at least 5 minutes before I consider posting it. Anger never solved anything and certainly doesn't make someone consider your points valid.

I hope it's not mine P1ke? or is it? Yes, there were times but I tend to ignore than make a big fuss out of it. why don't you PM the person instead, so he/she will know what he /she has done.,sometimes , people tend to be insensitive to other's feelings. At times, I'm like that too, but I didn't intend any harm or misdeed. Cheers.

Oh yes indeed I do and I've gotten myself into a lot of trouble for doing it. I once was a member on yahoo answers and they have a reality section, omg the bullying that went on, within that site was disgusting and supposedly between adults, so I had to have my say (this was over a year ago) it's a long story but I can't tell you how upset and angry I was getting with this particular group of people, to the point we took it on to yahoo's message boards, so everyone was tuning in to our online slanging match... me against the rtv section of Yahoo (makes me laugh now thinking back)bur all I got out of it was many lessons for myself, on how to behave on the net, needless to say it didn't make me look very good, I ended up looking the bully when in fact I was trying to defend a maturer lady from this particular groups bullying of her, this lady was ringing me and was very upset at the attacks on her so I felt I should defend her. So now yes I may type the reply to get it out of my system if I see something but I never post it, I'm very aware because of my previous experience on yahoo, not to. I'm very curious at what discussion made you feel this way p1kef1sh

Yes, but usually after I type them up, I walk away for a few minutes then reread them and hit delete.

Yep. All the time. (a lot to one person in particular so I know it's my own hang up) I also write letters to people that get neatly fold, put in an envelope and placed in a sealed box that has a Mail slot cut into it. Once a year I take out the box, open it, and burn the letters. It's amazing how well letting it all go, lets it all go. I deal with it and can let it pass. That's how I get by a lot of things.

Well, it really makes me angry, specially calling me with nice names, but I'm glad i have my girlfriend always telling me to cool down...

Yes, I do. I was reading one discussion yesterday that made me angry. I don't want to start discuss anything with those people, because they are looking for reason to reply with anger. They can keep responding at least 30 times in one discussion and They never have enough. Some people need to get fresh air and walk at least 10 miles. Keep smiling, spring is almost there. HUGS

I do that a whole lot honey! One of the things I love about this place is that I can vent all my anger and frustrations in a response and then sit back and read before hitting submit - realise how harsh it is and adjust it to a more balanced and thoughtful response. There have been a few times when I have had to just walk away from the discussion altogether or I might have said things that were just too nasty! Hugs and I hope I didn't make you angry! xxx

Hi p1key, I can't imagine you being angry, but yes I don't blame you if you see something that really rile you up, I have read things that makes me see red but no I wouldn't post it either as it might get delted or some will give me a minus so I don't, I just skip it. Glad you did. Hugs. Tamara xxxxx

Yeha it doe shelp to type it out and just pretend you wrote it. I must admit, this popularity thing definitely stops any flaming. Not that you would be flaming but you now.

I've yet to encounter such a situation since I'm still new. I can remain really calm though. I hope I don't come across a situation where I really can't take it anymore cuz I'll pity my computer screen when that happens. Hahaha..

no i don't, because i think it have no use to post an angry responses. it makes us looks ugly and make people aware of us.