Do monthsaries matters to you?

hi n30wing, We not celebrate much of our monthsaries. But we do greet each other a happy monthsarry whenever it comes. In our situation,I can say that he is much busier than I am. He has 2 jobs during weekdays and still work during weekends. And sometimes, he is in business trip. So, it is me who always greet him first a Happy Monthsarry.I understand his situation so I not mind if it is me who always say my greetings. Then, he will greet me once he can have a chance to be online. If he is very busy to chat, he send his greetings on my email.I can say that what we really celebrate is our anniversary. I can still remember our very first anniversary in which he is still very busy. Well, even before that date, he is always the one who reminds me of our first anniversary. He gives suggestions on what can we do because our situation is quite complicated. We are in long distance relationship. Then, he also asks me what can I suggest. He always want me happy and wants me to enjoy my time with him even only online. Sometimes, we just play game together online and sometimes we draw using some tools in skype and then let each one guess what we are drawing about. We are so much like a kid sometimes.But then, on the date of our anniversary, he not come online.I not wait for him and sleep early with the thought that he forgot it. But then, after few hours, my mobile phone rings and it is him calling. He first told me how sorry he was because of trouble coming to the office, then he finally greet me on our anniversary and tell me how happy he was that we made it on our first anniversary.We talk long hours in the phone saying all good and lovely things with each other and reminisce how we became bf/gf a year ago.

of course it really matters to me. me and my boyfriend celebrate it every month though we've been together for more than a year now. though sometimes i tend to forget it but he always remind me or text me that we will be having a dinner after work. So, i'll ask him what's the occasion and he would laugh at me. Then ill remember that its our monthsary.

My bf is a very important person in my life right now but we don't like monthsaries, I would prefer anniversaries.

Thanks for this discussion I suddenly remembered that our anniversary is already near. Before we reached one year, we used to celebrate our monthsaries. Actually, we're almost 5 years together but because things were complicated back then (still complicated now), we didn't set any anniversary date because there wasn't any formal "YES". So for like 3 years we didn't have any of those. Last year I decided to make it formal by setting a date. I even rehearsed my line. That's why this coming July is still our second anniversary.

Yes, monthsaries do matter a lot to me. Me and my boyfriend always make it a point that we celebrate this event every month. We don't have to give each other gifts and have some sort of fancy dinner, just as long as we're together then it's all good :)

My answer is yes. As for us, for me and my girlfriend, even if we already pass years in our wonderful relationship, we do still have time to celebrate our monthsaries. This is the only time that we count how long have we go since we first established our relationship. We both celebrate this precious day of the month by having dinner together, watching movies, going out of town, cooking in their house or in our house, and lastly giving surprises.

yes! but its not being remembered by my partner as what you are doing to your partner. most o the time, if i see and felt that he forgotten about it, id rather not talk about it and i don't force my self greeting him....well, anyway, your partner is so lucky to have you....GOD BLESS TO BOTH OF YOU...I KNOW YOU'LL MAKE A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP TODAY, TOMORROW AND FOR A LIFETIME..CHEER TO BOTH O YOU...

Hi n30wing, I got a laugh of my day when I read your discussion. I remember when my hubby and I were still in bf/gf, we initially hid our bossoming relationship from my parents because I was 18 then (ssshhhh... seems that you have kept too much secret now, haven't you noticed? ). But after a year, my father told my that I can entertain a bf/gf relationship already. So our original anniversary was kept hidden until this day! Back then, we celebrate 2 monthsarries (LOL!!!) But right now, since we are already 10 years married, we don't celebrate monthsarries anymore. Only annual anniversaries. By April 17 of this year, in line with our celebration for our 10th year together, we, together with our twin daughters, will spend the whole day (and night) to the new house we purchased in Binan, Laguna. Justthe 4 of us. No matter how many hussles and bustles there may be, it's an adventure we are looking forward to. Warm regardas to you Special Someone....

When you are already married you would even sometime forget your anniversary, I am guilty on that because if not my wife has to wake me up early that morning and give me a morning kiss with a greeting, that I would remember, hehehe. But of course, I never forget her birthday, the valentines day (with the help of the reminder of our cellphones hehehehe). Way back, after trying to win her, if there be weeksaries thing, that I won't missed. Funny how marriage life seemed so different back in the old days. Errr, I forget to give her a call today, thanks for your post, I would call her first.

yeah! it does matters to me :] .. because celebrating monthsarries make your relationship stronger && you will know how long you are from now :] ..

Yes, It does matter to me. Me and my girlfriend always celebrate our monthsaries. We either celebrate it at her house watching movies or just talking with each other and enjoying each others company. Sometimes we go malling, take some pirctures or eat at the restaurants. Have a nice day. Happy posting!!

Yes it does matter to me. I may not want to disappoint my partner by not treating it special. But monthsaries for me will only be celebrated when we don't reach 1 year yet. After a year, the celebration will be every year. Anniversaries. But of course that doesn't mean not treating everyday with her special.

yes monthsaries matters to me but it is not necessary that they are equal matters to my lover or my lifepartner bcoz it may be possible that these ocassions are not so much important to him rather than to me.Because most men are so practical that they feel that it is just artificiality.They want to live in practicality.For them it is enough that they may remember marriage anniversary or wife's birthday.Expecting them for celebrating monthsaries is little fool.It is a fact that most men are not so sentimental than comparative to a woman.So If u want to celebrate monthsaries and your partner equally interested for this then I will certainly want to say that both of U are very lucky Person!!!!!!

me and my husband used to when we were dating, but now it just seems like we have no time for it anymore. we could barely find time to spend our anniversary together...

My fiancee and I only celebrate our anniversaries now. When we were first dating, I'd guess the first two years, we celebrated each month, but now it just seems like the months fly by!