Met any "difficult to be with" people in life?

I meet these kind of people all over the place. It is rather urksome and I know that if one is gone there's another to replace one. So.... I just deal with it as best as I can.

yes i do know about those kinds of people. those kinds of people who think they are right about everything, are usually wrong about a lot. it sounds like you should get out of the habit of getting close to your husband's boss' wives, too.

You won't believe! I have met many guys in my life who were difficult to be with. Start with my friend at school. He was my friend(?) who used to threaten me every day that if I won't help him, he would break my jaw! Second, when I was in office, there was a guy who was eying on my post and have done many thing to make me out of the post. Eventually he succeed and I left that post because it was difficult for me to be with him. The next one was the girl, who used me to become the top perfomer in my next office. Before meeting her, i was the one who used to be the top perfomer. She pretended that she loved me and made me perform less in office. i did but when she got her plan succesful, didn't give a look at me! I wish I could ***k her in time which I didn't!

Ni mansa! I must say that you emerged winner in the end as you survived all the three bossy women. I do not remember exactly such situation. Of course I had some friends some of whom tried to be bossy over others and as I noticed their take on things I silently slided down and never gave them the opportunity to be bossy over me.

All of us are to move with such people in our daily life.The only way to survive with them,without any problem is that we should never try to make them to change their characters. If we try for that then we will be in additional troubles.And just we have to go along with their wavelength.Most of such people will be very selfish and they will not satisfied with anything and also mostly such people will play an important role in our life and they will be in a position so that they can not be avoided by us. Better agree with them though it is very difficult to do so, mentally.

Mansha- I've had a few people like that in my life over the years. One was a woman that no matter what I said wanted to just argue. And if you corrected her or offered solutions she'd go around stating how she was the victim how mean I was being to her. I simply stopped talking with her and let her go about her own affairs. My mother, I simply cut relations with her. She has to come through her own negativity and bitterness. We had a break last year over our disagreement about someone she claimed to still be a Christian who was pedophile. I couldn't accept that and didn't so we've not spoken since. I think you have to do what is good for your own mental well-being. Namaste-Anora

yes i met so many different people and difficult to be with but all we have to do is follow the flow and everybody are happy or ignore it.

I tried to be friends with one such person and was deeply hurt so I've learned to let them be someone else's friend. I have to deal with my mother in law though, darn it all. Her, I just sneak the truth in some back door way... like when she thought my kid was doing horrible in school I copied his report card and gave it to her husband who showed her... then she started bragging like she never had any worries. Silly, strange lady.

Ha!HA! personally i have never meet such types but i have meet one or two people with whom i don't go along absolutelly. The one was my room mate during my enggineering days and let me tell you, she was an absolute recluse and she stills is, (i heard) I meet her during my engg days when i was still fresh from school and still so immature and the only things that concerns me was having a goood time ie movies, hanging out and stuffs like tat and that roomy of mine was totally unadjustable. She acted like a recluse and was more into studies than any other things that i am interested in. So i had a really hard time staying with her for 4 years. Sometimes, we even does'nt speak for days on end and I even forgot what was the fight about now. But i am planning to start bein friendly with her now because if things turn out right who knows she might be a good person at heart,

Am meeting, no, staying with a difficult person in life, my aunt, because someone's in the hospital and although I'm old enough to be alone in the house, I have to do this. She always pushes me to do what she wants me to do and it bothers me. So, I discovered Oxycise! Some people use it to get to their weight-loss goals, but I do it primarily to keep my sanity when she drives me nuts. It's a breathing exercise, so I recently found it better if I start the day with several breaths so that I'll always give her a good, positive attitude while being told what to do. Maybe asking her if there's anything I need to help her with after doing the task given helps me. So basically, I take care of my own stress, then figure out ways to deal with difficult people healthfully.