fixing a broken heart anyone?
By nympha687
@nympha687 (940)
United States
March 17, 2009 7:07pm CST
Nobody wants to be lonely, Nobody wants to cry...so goes the song from Aguilera and Iglesias. Am not sure but I'm on the verge of a relationship. Sooner or later it is going to end. I had to anticipate so it'd help lessen the pain. Anybody there got tools for fixing a broken heart? Please lend me.
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6 responses
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
18 Mar 09
I don't think a broken heart really is repaired until you replace your love...emotions are a funny thing there are a lot of things that come into it such as pride and ego and just plain hurt and when you don't have anyone there all you do is think and that is not good..when someone else comes into your life the broken heart starts to mend.
@nympha687 (940)
• United States
20 Mar 09
You mean I had to jump from one relationship to another? Isn't that dangerous?
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
20 Mar 09
I don't mean to jump into a serious relationship but i think when we don't have someone in our lives, don't have hope we tend to feel sorry for our selves and dwell on the one thaqt broke our hearts...just get out there and meet new people new possibilties...
@Albert1989 (372)
• Malaysia
1 Aug 10
You can try begin an activity that will fill your time, distract your mind and rebuild your confidence. Force yourself to go on dates. You'll be surprised to discover that your heart can still flutter over someone. It's part of the healing process.
Remember that healing is a process that takes time. Expect waves of sadness anger, guilt or fear even after you think you are over it. Give your heart time to heal.
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
18 Mar 09
hi there friend.. it's hard to fix a broken heart...if i'm broken hearted, i talk to my closed friends so that i can share what i really feel inside, to ease to the pain.. i will cry if i want to, if i want to shout i will shout, i will go malling to have fun, go to cinemas with my friends, sing a good song not a love song because it might make me cry, go to disco to express my self..and best of all, prayers is best..happy mylotting.. God Bless
@markroderick (888)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
hi! we'll i guess its not really easy to fix a broken heart since there's no tools to fix it. before i was also experiencing a broken heart. my friends told me to go out and have some fun to divert my attention. And not just to think all the pains of falling in love and letting it go.it did help me a lot and of course with the support of my ever loving friends. i really get through with it.
@marc1874 (83)
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18 Mar 09
From previous relationships i have been part of, i find the best way to "get over it" is to do it by yourself, what you have to understand though is that everyone is different and everyone heals in their own way. I keep everything to myself and get over it myself, whereas a friend of mine is the complete opposite and seems to suffer badly and i'm not sure he ever has been free from his broken heart.
@nikhilmutgi (40)
• India
26 Mar 09
Broken heart can be fixed either by yourself or by someone else.
If you want to fix your broken heart, then it will definitely take some time, provided you were very serious about your relationship. If not, you could recover pretty soon.
If somebody else loves you truely more than your ex, then understand the person well and hopefully, that person might help in fixing a broken heart.
I had both the effects, but the end result is again a broken heart.