problems in relationship

My kids right now is my problem - they are growing up so fast and its hard to handle teenagers starting their puberty. So being a mom I must have to be open minded person and go with the flows of their personalities and global changes -

hi, well i'm 15 so kids aren't my problem lol Our problem is that he isn't trust worthy (he's made that clear)he does not keep his promises ... And i am too jealous ... Jess

all you have mention is a normal thing like kids and laws.so if you are truly love your partner all are does not matter at all

Where should I start? I have 3 kids- all with ADD/ADHD and my son also has Asperger's. I don't have a job- unemployed for over a year. I am unhappy with my current relationship for many reasons- yes I have talked to him about it but nothing changes. And I live with my parents- I HATE my mother and she is on my back about everything all the time.

Oh definitely. My problems just seem to build up. I'll TRY to be short about this. I'm married for 1 and a half years. My step-daughter just came back to live with us after living with her mom for 7 months, because her mom can't handle her. She craves attention from my husband. He's not suppose to focus on anyone but her, (she's 15) and not just from him, from males in general. She hates me, and tries to do everythhing to ruin our marriage. I try so hard to get along with her. We have a 2 month old daughter, who needs our love and attention and we try and raise her in a stress free home and happy home. A little hard when the 15 year old is getting pissed about everything. My sister lost her 4 kids and I have my 8 year old nephew. The other 3 are with my other sister and my mom. My sister isn't acting like she wants to get them back, and it's taking a toll on the kids. 1 month ago, we only had 1 child to worry about. Now we have 3. Our family expanded all in the same week. :( It's so stressful. I'm ready to pull my hair out! lol.

I have a friend that has a problem in her husband. They are working together in a near place from thier house but her husband has no time for her. She always asking for attention from her husband especially for her s*x life, getting together. We dont know whats the problem of him. The girl always cried for the attention of her husband.

My husband and I have some very different attitudes towards money, but we're coming around. I came from a background where we saved an invested a lot, and although we grew up in a wealthy household, we dind't have a lot of the "extras" that most kids would have wanted (I grew up not thinking I needed that stuff, because we never had it), but we lived on a very firm financial footing. My husband, on the other hand, liked to spoil his kids. We sometimes have discussions about our different sets of priorities, because in today's ecconomy it's hard to spoil others, and save money at the same time. I am trying to explain to him that he needs to take care of himself too. We're getting better at meeting in the middle, though.

Right now I think one of our biggest problems is the distance between us. It is so hard for my man and I to see each other that it really puts a strain on us, but we are really trying to make it work.