Have you ever been so angry?

@agrim94 (3805)
India
March 19, 2009 8:18am CST
Have you ever been so angry at someone that you just wanted to punch his or her nose but had to restrain yourself , reason may be any. The person who got you angry can be anyone, ur boss, ur friend , someone u like, someone you hate, ur spouse.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
19 Mar 09
Yes, sometimes when I get angry beyond a limit I feel like punching on the face of the other fellow and feel like slapping him/her. However, I restrain myself, thinking that after effects of my hitting/slapping could be disastrous or very unpleasant for both of us. My mind tells me that it not good to 'hurt' anyone physically and then I stop thinking about it. I just try to leave the scene or the place, which made my angry.
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
20 Mar 09
Yes it is no fun to hit someone, hitting someone means finishing off what ever remains of ur relationship ( may be friend or family or love) or if he is ur boss or someone who can write ur progress report u dont want to hit back.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
21 Mar 09
I will dare not hit my boss, whatever may be the situation,boss is after boss and he/she can very ruin one's career.
• United States
20 Mar 09
yeah but thank goodness i could control it.. i have only blacked out with anger once and i didnt do anything then either thank goodness but it takes A LOT to get me that pissed off but once i do im a hell raiser
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
20 Mar 09
:) i surely dont want to be the cause to make u piss off as i wont want a hell from someone like you.. but it is nice to know you can control and control real good.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
20 Mar 09
no because I do not believe in physical violence at all. I just don't think that is a way to solve any situation. When I am really angry I either scream or I just don't talk to the person anymore.
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
20 Mar 09
thats a nice way .. screem and let the tension go out and refresh ur system and it does make u less angry but i dont think screaming would totally pacify u
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
20 Mar 09
I get angry occasionally but no one has ever caused me to feel more anger than a woman I used to work closely with. She was self centred, bossy, insecure and loved putting people down to make herself feel better. I worked with her on a one on one basis for ages and although I am not a violent person by any means, this woman used to bring out the desire to pull all her hair out and stand on her face every time she made a nasty comment!
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
20 Mar 09
We all meet ppl like this and u know the inefficient people and the persons who wont work or dont know the job are insecure and would always try to put others down to feel good. U know world is full of sadistic people who would always enjoy by harming others and it takes a great deal of control on oneself not to break bones of persons like these
• India
19 Mar 09
yes,it happened recently.i was angry at my bro for sum reason.wen i went to explain him.he just ignored me n said sumthing.i got so angry at him.tht i slapped him.i never slapped any1 in my life.after tht i felt very bad n later we said sorry to each other.
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
20 Mar 09
It is good that u both said sorry to each other and both forgave..but i would advise u dazzling angle not to hit younger brothers ( i assume he was younger to u as u hit him) as with age he is going to be stronger than u and he might get physical with u then.
• Hong Kong
19 Mar 09
i have usually been the situation But you cant fight him/her! if you do that,just make the relationship more bad it's not the best way to relase you angry.. just take a big breathe and relax dont be a fool
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
19 Mar 09
yes right because if u hit back.. then chances are the friendship or relationship finish right that moment and if not then it wont be the same
@malsun (1528)
• United States
19 Mar 09
Been there a lot of times. But I have been taking meditation classes for some time. It has helped me in managing my anger.
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
19 Mar 09
Thats nice..if you can control your anger than nothing better than that.
@moondancer (7433)
• United States
19 Mar 09
My goodness yes I have. Hasn't everyone? Some people can make us so upset or angry that we'd love to lash out. That's when it's time to turn on your heels and walk away.
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
19 Mar 09
ur right ... because if we went in to argument or punching then unnecessary fights begin which are difficult to control and if they made u angry what they wanted to then if u show ur anger they win, even if u punch their nose
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
19 Mar 09
Hi, agrim94! Yes, it was my mother-in-law. She had me so mad, that I just wanted to beat her up. I was pregnant during this time, and I was upset with her because she was acting like she had a problem with me in her home.. So, I jumped in her face, and my husband had to hold me back.. I wanted to rip her to pieces. Till this day, that is why I don't be around her as much. I like it this way. Everytime that she comes around me, she has nothing positive to say that I want to hear about. She seems to be up to no good when she gets around me. I have been mad many times in my life, and believe me, it was never a pretty sight! I can get so mad till the point where I turn into another person! But, to be honest with you, I try now not to get too upset.. It is not good for me or for my health.
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
19 Mar 09
I understand cream what you are trying to say..mother in laws are like this only.. once a guy brings home three unknown girls to his mom and ask her mom i am going to marry one out of them . guess which one would i marry.. she says the one in middle... wow mom how did u guess he asks..she says because i already dislike her.:) jokes apart..i m sorry that u have to go through all this and this is never fair to the daughter in law and more unfair to the son as he is the one who is blamed by both wife amd mom that he is taking side of other one.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
19 Mar 09
i gues every body gets angry for some reason but since january i stil have great feelings no angryness yet and i hope it will carry on till the end of this year
• United States
19 Mar 09
I can say this. My boyfriend in the past couple of months made me so angry i didnt even want to sleep in the same bed as him. He went to someones house to pick up his cell phone that we new was there becasue they had called me. It was around 1 that day he went to go get it and i thought ok no problem he will be back for dinner. Well actually since he didnt have a cell phone you would have thought he would have called me on his friends cell phone that went with him to tell me he wouldnt be home for dinner and comoing home late but no he didnt even think of that and that pissed me off so much that i really didnt know what to even say it was like that i didnt even cross his mind or something and that was just rude. You dont do that kinda of stuff. Well eventually he showed up but it was around 1 in the morning so it took 12 hours of NOT even getting your phone i was so mad. His excuse was i was talking to his brother and dad since i never get to see him and i still dont believe that. I had to share why iwas so angry that day.
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
19 Mar 09
I am so sorry what happened to you that day.. he shd have called you so u dont worry or wait for him at dinner and did he offer any explanation why he didnt get the phone