dogs who visit
By savypat
@savypat (20216)
United States
March 20, 2009 7:13pm CST
My friend came to visit with his dog in the back of his truck, the dog was tied in
and so I didn't worry, our dog was in the house and had greeted the friend with kisses. All of a sudden she came unglued, the visiting dog was at the front door.
he'd slipped his collar. We have no fences so I had to let the dog in the house,
well our Sadie said no way was she going to allow that strange dog in the house, I thought we'd have a dog fight right there in the front room. We got them separated and locked Sadie in a bedroom until the visit was over, I don't know what I could have done differently but that didn't work out as well as I hoped. What would you have done?
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6 responses
@snowcat46 (2322)
• United States
21 Mar 09
I'd have done what you did. We get that all the time since we live in the country. It's very frustrating. The people don't want to listen about not bringing their dog, cause they still do it. I don't think it's fair to our dog to constantly have to imprison them in a room.
So we bought a very sturdy dog stake, and a nice thick chain. When these people show up now, we insist they chain the dog. It didn't go over well. The people were angry, had hissy fits, and so on. We just kept pointing at the chain and refused the dog entrance. If they let it loose and it got lost in the country, not our problem. They eventually chained the dog, but never brought him over again. Some of the people took it well, others had the hissies I wrote about, and still others refused to continue visiting us.
The way I look at it, if they have no respect for me as to insist I lock my dog up in my own home, I don't have to feel bad if they no longer want me as a friend. I haven't really lost anything if they disrespect me that much.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
21 Mar 09
I don't react that strongly, but most dogs that come stay in the truck. It always catches me by surprise that so many people feel it's OK to bring their dogs to visit.
Llamas hate dogs and any time a strange dog is around they go on alert for the whole time the Dog is present. I would never take my dog anywhere I had not asked for permission before I went. I think you Dog chain was a good idea. Some people are just block heads. To thick to get the point.
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
21 Mar 09
I think you did the right thing, some dogs just don't like other dogs in their territory and i guess that is understandable, they protect you and their home unless of course they know the other dog then it can be different.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
21 Mar 09
Hey pat! I think you did exactly what you could do in those
circumstances! And I think that you acted quite quickly to
avoid any serious things happening too! You did what you could
do to prevent the two dogs from fighting and that is all you
could do under those circumstances considering it happened
so quickly, without any warning! I think you thought fast
on your feet and proved that you are such a true animal person!
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@okkidokitokki (1736)
• United States
21 Mar 09
There is not much else that could have been done, except your friend putting his dog back on her collar.
We often take our dogs to my mother-in-law's house and if we are going to spend the day we take Piggy's kennel (thats Pig in my pic). He cannot be trusted on carpet by his self, and so we will put him in his room if we are all going out. Thankfully my kids get along with the other dogs we visit.
I have had a neighbor's dog come visiting, we also do not have a fence, and it was a nice day so I had the door open, thankfully me and mine were in the kitchen and the baby gate that I have was up closing off the entry way to the kitchen or I think there may have been bloodshed.
I suggest baby gates,(Mine have been the key to a happy family) have your friend bring them and then you can put his pooch in a small part of your house and Sadie will not have to be put in the bedroom.
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