He left for another man..........

hi! this is disgusting for a wife. there is betrayal and infidelity. worst is the third party is also a man. if i am the wife, i will feel hurt but i will not let him go. i am the wife and i have the right over him. the moment he told me that he loves me and he marries me means that he has the will to submit himself to me. i will give him second chance. i will talk to him and help him get out to that elicit affair. i would know that he might be stocked with pressure or external force that drives him to be with that guy. if assuming he will tell me that he does not love me and never loves me at all that is the time that i will give up and let him go. that is so sad but i have to move on and go on with my life. if you happen to see that person or if you happen to know one at this situation please tell her that nothing is impossible with prayer. with God a gay will become a straight guy. keep on praying.

I would be devastated too.What a irresponsible man! It's acceptable to me that someone is a gay but I can't accept that my husband is a gay!It will be considered that he is not a nice man not only because he left his wife but also he is not honest! It's not fair to his wife ,however what she can do is let her husband go whatever he said.

I'd tell the wife to get rid of the lying obstructionist. The agenda of the gay community is to cause as much harm and destruction to the heterosexuals as possible. I have proof that homosexuals have caused harm to my family personally. A time is coming that the truth will be known.

It is very bad. Why he then married this lady? was he thinking about the society? he has no right to destroy life of this lady.

The husband was wrong, wrong, wrong; If he was gay, he should have been true to his feelings from the get go. Now, he left this woman who he pledged to love and not hurt and he hurt this woman to her very core. He really didn't count the costs of what he was doing before he said I Do. My heart goes towards the woman, I pray she understands that this wasn't her fault. She didn't cause this. He did and move on with her life. It won't be easy but she can get over it with time.

in my view, it is not as easy as it appears, maybe it is just an excuse for that guy ,maybe after six monthes of living together, he found out they don't fit in with each other, or the girl has an unforgivable weakness, so he choose to quit but this guy really is gay, then what his doing is totally wrong and selfish, and unethical,

But you said that six months they lived together, so it seems that guy is gay as well as has some natural instincts as well, so ask him to remain both. But anyway that is a very sticky situation. Poor wife.

Hi Gauci. You are right and I agree completely with you that the right thing he could have done was tell her the truth before he married. If she accept it no problem at all because it is about both and their life. But keep it in secret and just tell after the wedding is very unfair for her. He didn't acted like a person with character would do. Now the best she can do is go with her life and try to leave it in the past. What I can't understand is why he has to did it. Now a days none need to keep his sexuality in secret and more: if he couldn't did it before why he could after? I really can't understand it. Anyway I am sorry for her because it was really unfair. I wish that she can find a nice man very soon and have a happy life. Have a nice weekend.

This is a sad situation. If i were his wife, I would certainly be hurt, and probably angry. I think it would be difficult not to be, in this kind of situation. I feel really sorry for his wife. It's not a situation that we want to be in.