ericluckychan

@ericluckychan (50)

China • Age 43

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Divorce Should be Banned!!

jellymonty @jellymonty (2352) 13 Apr 09

Although I'm not married, but everytime I hear that somebody is getting a divorce it hurts me badly. I'm wondering exactly what were you thinking when you said to the other person "in sickness and health till death do us apart?" I...

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ericluckychan divorce is something created in modern age,it is a signal of civilization evolution, it is a respect of human freedom , so i don't think divorce should be banned,but before getting divorced it is necessary for couples to go through a counseling procedure,...

14 Apr 09

He left for another man..........

GAUCI123 @GAUCI123 (1042) • Malta 22 Mar 09

I was talking to a person who was telling me a really sad situation of a new married couple. They had a beautiful wedding and seemed very happy together, however after only six months the husband confessed to his wife that he was...

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ericluckychan in my view, it is not as easy as it appears, maybe it is just an excuse for that guy ,maybe after six monthes of living together, he found out they don't fit in with each other, or the girl has an unforgivable weakness, so he choose to quit but this guy...

23 Mar 09

How often do you eat chicken?

dik_an @dik_an (475) • Malaysia 18 Mar 09

Hello lotters! I want to share with you about my food here. I live outside my country and be a foreigner student there. I live in a hostel provided by my campus and eat foods in the canteens, I do not have choice because...

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ericluckychan i often eat chicken, especially chicken soup, it is very nutritious

19 Mar 09

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Does stress go away?

mermaidivy @mermaidivy (15394) • United States 18 Mar 09

There are lots of things cause people stress. When we ask how to make the stress go away, people will say do something relaxing, eat good food etc. I'm not saying those things wouldn't help but will the stress really go away...

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ericluckychan easier say than done, no one is stress free,even these monks and nuns also will inevitably encounter various of stress, because stress is part of our life, the real question is how to make it go away i am still trying to figure out an perfect way to deal...

19 Mar 09

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If you saw someone beating up another person, would you stop the attacker?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 17 Mar 09

What would you do if you saw someone being attacked or beaten up by another person? Would you step in and try to stop them from being hurt? Would you call the police and then wait for help to arrive? Would it make a...

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ericluckychan absolutely, i will step in to stop the attack, it is illegal and also immoral to beat others, in order to maintain a stable and secure society, everyone has this obligation to do so, but when the situation is too difficulty for you to handle, calling for...

18 Mar 09

do u often send sms to your friends to keep in touch?

melodyyu @melodyyu (34) • China 17 Mar 09

for quite a long time i know i do send messages to my friends no matter how busy i am ,just wanna know how is everything going on with them ,whether they are happy or not i think it is the best way for me to keep in touch with...

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ericluckychan maybe i should contact my friends more often to keep our friendship going on, cuz nowadays, majority people all migrate to other places to find jobs,so my old friends all far away from me, and the chance for us to being together is very slim, it makes our...

18 Mar 09

do u often send sms to your friends to keep in touch?

melodyyu @melodyyu (34) • China 17 Mar 09

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ericluckychan too ashamed to say, i don't always and frequently contact my old friends enve by phone, cuz we all have our own business to handle, there is less and less time for nurturing and strengthening the friendship , now it is a common phenomenon in our country, cuz...

18 Mar 09

You like to play sports or to watch sports?

skyblue @skyblue (1299) • India 17 Mar 09

I am a foot ball fan.I love football very match.I also like to play football.When ever i have times, basically if i return back home early from office, on that day i choose to go to the play ground to play football.I also love to...

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ericluckychan my story is pretty much the same as your, i like to play football, and watch England league,but since right now i got into a company in which there is no ground for us to play, only a basketball ground, so i have to accept the reality ,try to force myself to...

18 Mar 09

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How often do you shine your shoes?

richiem @richiem (3644) • Philippines 17 Mar 09

I've just bought a new pair of shoes a couple of weeks ago. If you have read some of my discussions, you would know my last pair is already five years old. So I would like this new pair to also reach five years so I would like...

shine

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ericluckychan i am too busy to shine my shoes,as well as care my personal image,sometimes i am quite envious of these people who look very fatanstic and sensational,and wondering how come they manage their to achieve so

17 Mar 09

Can you survive from 1$ per day ?

tudors @tudors (1556) • China 12 Mar 09

I just watched a TV program from" morning America" that a woman managed to spend 1 dollar per day and lost 8 pounds of her weight though she didn't mean to lose weight. She showed us how to eat healthy and cheap. of course no one...

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ericluckychan i don't veiw this as a healthy lifestyle, it is too little for any of us to survive, also will bring lots of diseases, like frequent dizziness, lacking of concentration,etc. under this tough situation, we can manage our life in a better way, for instance, we...

12 Mar 09

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Why is it that when you dont take crap from people you as supposively selfish?

moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 4 Mar 09

my family are all doormats and believe for some reason that if you stand up for yourself and dont take others cruelty that your automatically SELFISH! im so sick of it! there have been people/friends/family members that have...

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ericluckychan it is really a serious topic,it reminds me a campaign launched by antitheists in Spain which arouses heated debate , they put a slogan on lots of public buses, say: ''God never exist just enjoying yourself'' , it is very interesting and fresh to some extent...

4 Mar 09

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Paper or Plastic?

snam23 @snam23 (3157) • United States 27 Feb 09

I remember when I used to go to the grocery store with my mom, the guy at the register would always ask us, "Paper or plastic, ma'am?" (Ma'am because he always asked my mother since I was still a kid back then.) "Plastic" my mom...

groceries

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ericluckychan virtually, there is another choice that is cloth bag, in term of environment protection, china has adopted a policy to ban all the supermarket for handing plastic bag for free last year ,it has significant influence on ordinary person's lifestyle, people...

28 Feb 09

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How long should I tolerate her?

nuemann @nuemann (332) • United States 27 Feb 09

Am having serious love and affection for a certain girl who haapens to be in college in some far away town from where I am so basically communication is the only we can really get talking and fixing things up but off late (thats...

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ericluckychan Having a open and sincere talk with her is necessary,it can ease all the suspicion and misunderstanding ,but the precondition is both of u need to be pure-hearted

28 Feb 09

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Will you peek into someone's email box, if you happen to find it open?

mimpi @mimpi1911 (25464) • India 27 Feb 09

Today, we are most secure and most vulnerable. Secured with science and technology and again vulnerable to the same! A few days ago I happened to find my friend's email box opened right infront of me. She never signs out from her...

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ericluckychan to my understanding ,people are born curious, although it is unethical to snoop about other's private affairs including peeking into other's email but it is human nature or instinct to have a peek when these email or instant message poping up, in china,...

27 Feb 09

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How to date on a tight budget ?

tudors @tudors (1556) • China 27 Feb 09

Don’t be too honest.Yeah, you’ve been flirting for months, but a first date is still “first impression” territory, so if you ‘fess up to a complete lack of funds she's likely to think you are a “LOSER” . Odds are she already knows...

tight budget date

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ericluckychan exactly, this problem is bothering me , i met a girl online couples months ago, she is so charming , today she will come to my place for our first date the embarrassment is i can't afford a fancy dinner, combining a nice sightseeing ,short trip, but i really...

27 Feb 09

Will you pack your lunch for office regularly?

Chaitra Vasanth @chaitra001 (3278) • Bangalore, India 27 Feb 09

Hi friends its summer and its too hot to go out in afternoon for lunch so I have decided to pack lunch daily for me to office. I was packing it before but not regularly. So now I want some easy and delicious recipes for my lunch...

lunch

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ericluckychan for me, it is prohibited to bring food into office, otherwise , you will get heavy fine or even get sacked thanks to the gloomy economy, but our company runs a restaurant itself, the food there is by far not bad as well as the price, i guess, during this hot...

27 Feb 09

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did you ever give money to street beggar?

cindyhxf @cindyhxf (1446) • China 26 Feb 09

I ever gave money to street beggar before.she looked like pregnant for five or six monthes.she wrote "i couldn't find my husband in this city,i need money for going back home" i felt sorry with her and just want to give her a...

beggar

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ericluckychan i would like to say as long as you can get the feeling you are helping people in need, do not care if you are being cheated or not you can get inner peace and satisfaction, you money pays off, and in case you donate your money and good heart to the...

27 Feb 09

Do you mind your friends wearing the same clothes as yours ?

tudors @tudors (1556) • China 27 Feb 09

hey, did you have such experience that when you and your friend were shopping, both of you liked the same pants or dress and both of you bought them? I had such experience but to be frank i do't like it. It happened to me at least...

coincidence

wearing same clothes

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ericluckychan i don't like this idea,for it is awkward to wear the same clothes with someone else, but, wearing the same clothes with my lover is totally not the case, is it fun and to show other people our relationship

27 Feb 09