do you want to fight with your lover

@cindyhxf (1446)
China
March 23, 2009 3:57am CST
Hi friends,do you think it is good way to solve problems by fight between lovers? i don't like that way.i think it will hurt feeling much by fight a lot.it will sap your love feeling slowly if you fight often. how do you feel fight with your love? do you have any good ways to solve problems ?thanks for sharing.
4 responses
Alex
@venchaul (541)
• China
23 Mar 09
To tell the truth, I really hate that way to solve problems between lovers. Fighting only intensifies the conflict. In my opinon,it is better to be calm and have a peaceful talk between lovers. good day!
cindyhxf
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
23 Mar 09
yes,calm and peaceful talk is good to lovers.fight will hurt each other much and couldn't solve any problems i think.thanks for response,my friend
hehuamei
@hehuamei (17)
• China
26 Mar 09
Human who falls in love together the quarrel is very normal, because two person or each one has own idea! In quarrel time we should multi-stations as far as possible in opposite party standpoint consideration question,ask itself such whether really mmeaningful?whenever we should remember, only then the most intimate spouse only then such direct and you quarrels!
dorisday1971
@dorisday1971 (5657)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
When me and my husband have a problem, I just keep my mouth shut for a while and stay away from him. What happens usually is that I stay in our bedroom while stay in our living room watching TV. When we both cool down, that's when I start my litany. LOl
kedves
@kedves (728)
•
23 Mar 09
There is nothing wrong with a heated discussion or even a row because we all have off days and times when we just feel like exploding for no reason. The thing that is important is that you listen to the other persons side and you respect that they do not have to follow you and that they have their own mind and thoughts. If you can do that then its ok to row if you can't then you are with the wrong person so its maybe a sign to leave or to fix .. :)